Any curious, straight guys out there?

Curious n So. California

I am married and straight in as much as I have never had a homosexual encouter that went anywhere. Been propositioned, but that was years ago when I was a lot more conventional than now.

I am bi-curious and regret never taking the previous opportunites.

I am curious, and not sure until I've tried it. For instance, I had a Martini once, didn't enjoy it. But I love single malt scotch. Is sucking cock a Martini or a Glenfiddich? I'd like to know.

If there is anyone in the So Cal. Inland Empire / Greater LA area that would like to discuss this please get in touch.
 
A lot of you guys say that your not into the kissing. I don't know how you could not be overcome with passion when you finally are sucking a hot cock that you would not be into kissing another man. I am not gay, but could totally get into the guy thing, kissing, rubbing our cocks together, and doing it right. I mean if your going to do it.......
 
I really don't know if I'm Bi or not, I fantasize about sucking a cock, but I don't know if I could really do it. I love to watch porno andI find myself looking at the cocks more than the women. I also fantasize about jacking someone off and sucking cock, I'm sure I could do it but I'm also very shy, so getting started would be the big problem. (no pun intended)
Kissing would be a turn off, but anal might be a possibility, my problem is if I did find a willing partner I'm afraid I might "chicken out" before we got started. Anyone else have these thoughts?
I'd love to try this, I'm married so I couldn't travel very far, living in SW Pennsylvania. No disease, Very clean, I expect the same in a potential partner.
 
Originally posted by Whatsause
I really don't know if I'm Bi or not, I fantasize about sucking a cock, but I don't know if I could really do it. I love to watch porno andI find myself looking at the cocks more than the women. I also fantasize about jacking someone off and sucking cock, I'm sure I could do it but I'm also very shy, so getting started would be the big problem. (no pun intended)
Kissing would be a turn off, but anal might be a possibility, my problem is if I did find a willing partner I'm afraid I might "chicken out" before we got started. Anyone else have these thoughts?
I'd love to try this, I'm married so I couldn't travel very far, living in SW Pennsylvania. No disease, Very clean, I expect the same in a potential partner.
at one point i was in similiar straits
but once you try it a few times and like it , it is a great turn-on
 
wow a not often seen triple post,

I am the same way though. probably would chicken out.
 
Am married, predominantly straight. Have had two oral experiences. One kissed and swallowed...extremely erotic. Loved to suck and have cock in my mouth. When he came it was...wow, live for the moment and swallow. Then we kissed, French kissed...which was erotic. Walking down the street I see attractive women not men, but have always had an erotic attraction to males from school in the lockerroom on. Hot bodies turn me on, male or female.
 
Whatsause said:
I really don't know if I'm Bi or not, I fantasize about sucking a cock, but I don't know if I could really do it. I love to watch porno andI find myself looking at the cocks more than the women. I also fantasize about jacking someone off and sucking cock, I'm sure I could do it but I'm also very shy, so getting started would be the big problem. (no pun intended)
Kissing would be a turn off, but anal might be a possibility, my problem is if I did find a willing partner I'm afraid I might "chicken out" before we got started. Anyone else have these thoughts?
I'd love to try this, I'm married so I couldn't travel very far, living in SW Pennsylvania. No disease, Very clean, I expect the same in a potential partner.



This is exactly how i feel - i've never met a guy i fancied but i see a hundred women (well ok, maybe i exagerate) i fancy every day but when i fantasize its always about sucking cock and being filled with some 'faceless' guy's cum. i'm looking for a guy to fuck but if i don't think i could kiss him etc - it will be all about sucking and anal - but i don't think to many guys would mind!!
 
Bi-curious in Southern Cal

I am very bi-curious but cannot seem to connect with anyone here. Will admit to being very concerned re AIDS or rip-offs. I
want to top and am not sure just what all I would do for my
partner. Any suggestions how to connect up?
 
Re: Bi-curious in Southern Cal

mijnenig said:
I am very bi-curious ... Will admit to being very concerned re AIDS or rip-offs

I am a bit the same, i.e bi-curious but shit scared of disease.

By definition, anyone who will hook up for a quick fling (bi or straight) is promiscuous. Male homosexual promiscuous sex comes with a risk due to the swapping body fluids. The incurable, fatal disease thing is inconvenient enough. But, in addition, it doesn't show up until some time later, by which time you've had plenty of time to infect your wife, g/f or whomever.

That, I think, is why many don't go past the fantasy-only phase. I think you can hook-up with someone in S. Cal. fairly easily if you're not picky. If you want assurances that it's 100% safe and discreet that takes time, and might not even be possible.

I am sure there are others who think that what I've said is a load of crap, though.
 
Wishing all the find People on this thread:
:heart: :heart: A Happy Valentine's Day :heart: :heart:

I hope that you have a Great Day!
 
LingerieandLace said:
Wishing all the find People on this thread:
A Happy Valentine's Day
I hope that you have a Great Day!
dude, I know you mean well, but I hate when you spam threads with that crap. If you want to wish a happy holiday to someone, then start your own thread. If you were a regular in this thread, I could somewhat understand you posting that here. But as it is, you're just spamming.

oh, and fuck Valentine's Day.
 
Alot of you men are hesitant due to the chance of disease and infection of your partners, and with great reason! How many women have been infected by a lover that tried something different? Too many perhaps.

I commend you men that consider this above your desire and I feel for you through your screening processes...I've been through that in other ways, and it's time consuming, exhausting, and sometimes disappointing.

If you proceed with caution as most of you seem to be doing, you'll meet up (hopefully)with someone that works. It's nice to know you guys aren't just going out to get your fantasy fulfilled without thinking first.

Play safe.. you're all way hot for being so open minded!!
 
fireburn04 said:
theres not many bi guys in the atlanta area

hehe, I don't know where you hang out. It seemed like when I used to go to Atlanta pretty often a few years ago they were all over the place. Not that I was interested at the time.
 
TumbledLove said:
dude, I know you mean well, but I hate when you spam threads with that crap. If you want to wish a happy holiday to someone, then start your own thread. If you were a regular in this thread, I could somewhat understand you posting that here. But as it is, you're just spamming.

oh, and fuck Valentine's Day.

Sorry if you thought that I was Spaming the thread, that was not my intention!
I was just getting use to this new format and I will refrain any future actions.
 
mijnenig said:
I am very bi-curious but cannot seem to connect with anyone here. Will admit to being very concerned re AIDS or rip-offs. I
want to top and am not sure just what all I would do for my
partner. Any suggestions how to connect up?

You don't have to do anything for him. I, too, am very bi-curious and want to bottom so I can tell you that just by being a top, you are doing what he wants. He'll give you what you want by being a bottom and you'll be giving him what he wants by being a top.
 
I'll admit to being curious, but I doubt I would ever really go for it. I think I like the idea of sucking a cock, but there are few guys I find attractive enough to even consider. Its a fun fantasy, but I think I am cock-centric... I want to suck a disembodied cock I think...
 
I've never experienced bi but I'm curious. Being new to this idea I have a question about top and bottom, who is doing what to whom?
 
indigoboy said:
I'll admit to being curious, but I doubt I would ever really go for it. I think I like the idea of sucking a cock, but there are few guys I find attractive enough to even consider. Its a fun fantasy, but I think I am cock-centric... I want to suck a disembodied cock I think...

I'm glad I came across your quote. That's exactly my thought.

I may be in favor of "cloning" because I would be very pleased to suck my mirror image. I'm happy with my appearence and know I'm a safe person.

On the otherhand, my wife will make a remark about a guy she sees as being cute and I think, "he's creepy". Then again, I know she would have doubts about my taste in a woman.

I'm constantly looking at guys trying to find the one that turns me on. If we could read minds I'm sure I'd be one bruised fella. :D
 
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