A discussion the GF and I have every now and then is about why would people swing. Now no matter the answers I come up with to this idea it never seems to get her to the "Oh I see" realization.
The Ex and I were in the LS for a few years and had some great times. Even after it was all said and done she still said those were some good memories.
I am not attempting to get the GF to swing. I know you can't tell someone or ask or convince them. You can just let the natural lust build and fantasies grow and if they want then they will if they trust in the relationship they are in.
The thing is she brings up the question so the curiosity is there. I've told her it's a great thing to watch your lover, partner and friend in life having a great time. To hear her cum from a fling with a guy that turns her on is an intense pleasure. Who doesn't want their partner to enjoy life and have a good time? The Ex used to always bring up this one time where an older woman gave me a BJ I still get weak in the knees from. We enjoyed the fun and we fucked like crazed rabbits every time we got home from a party or couples date.
****** I am hoping to get thoughts from other swingers who can put into words the feelings they have about sharing their partners and pleasure with others. *******
The Ex and I were in the LS for a few years and had some great times. Even after it was all said and done she still said those were some good memories.
I am not attempting to get the GF to swing. I know you can't tell someone or ask or convince them. You can just let the natural lust build and fantasies grow and if they want then they will if they trust in the relationship they are in.
The thing is she brings up the question so the curiosity is there. I've told her it's a great thing to watch your lover, partner and friend in life having a great time. To hear her cum from a fling with a guy that turns her on is an intense pleasure. Who doesn't want their partner to enjoy life and have a good time? The Ex used to always bring up this one time where an older woman gave me a BJ I still get weak in the knees from. We enjoyed the fun and we fucked like crazed rabbits every time we got home from a party or couples date.
****** I am hoping to get thoughts from other swingers who can put into words the feelings they have about sharing their partners and pleasure with others. *******
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