HoldYouDown
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Hi All,
So, I've moved to a large city in Spain, and I understand the swinging lifestyle is pretty good here, though I haven't partaken. I'm interested in hearing advice or experiences as a single man working up the courage to attend a swinger's club alone.
About me:
- 42
- Well dressed and groomed
- Well behaved
- In good shape
- Curious and adventurous, like to meet new people
- Speak Spanish
So here's the deal. If I go, I'd be expecting nothing more than a couple of drinks and the opportunity to chat with people and hopefully observe. The clubs here allow single men (higher charge of course). If anything fun happens that's great.
I think I'm worried that 1) I'll waste my money and 2) maybe I'm worried that I'll have a great time. I've only been to a club once before, with an ex of mine, and we only observed. I've been in a group situation another time but not on premise.
I know the etiquette and how not to act like a jerk and all that. But I'd love any insight anyone has on this type of situation. Thanks!
So, I've moved to a large city in Spain, and I understand the swinging lifestyle is pretty good here, though I haven't partaken. I'm interested in hearing advice or experiences as a single man working up the courage to attend a swinger's club alone.
About me:
- 42
- Well dressed and groomed
- Well behaved
- In good shape
- Curious and adventurous, like to meet new people
- Speak Spanish
So here's the deal. If I go, I'd be expecting nothing more than a couple of drinks and the opportunity to chat with people and hopefully observe. The clubs here allow single men (higher charge of course). If anything fun happens that's great.
I think I'm worried that 1) I'll waste my money and 2) maybe I'm worried that I'll have a great time. I've only been to a club once before, with an ex of mine, and we only observed. I've been in a group situation another time but not on premise.
I know the etiquette and how not to act like a jerk and all that. But I'd love any insight anyone has on this type of situation. Thanks!