Originally Posted by JerseyJade
--snip-- Is it really that big of a deal for guys anyway?
As usual, this is going to be a "depends" answer.
Frankly, I think it is more psychological than actually physical. While an individual's mileage will vary, for the overwhelming majority of guys the glans is typically going to be more sensitive than the shaft. So (in theory at least), physically as long as you can handle "the helmet" you should get some reaction. Beyond that, I think it's just too varied to really matter from one to the next. However, there is a biological drive for a male to drive the penis as deeply as possible when aroused that I suspect is holdover from a more primal desire to procreate. And the more aroused he becomes, the more insistent that drive despite being engulfed by a mouth with no chance at procreation rather than a vagina.
I've heard there are guys who actually don't enjoy receiving a blowjob. I have yet to decide if they are lying or crazy. For me, it was a bit of a prereq if I was going to be sexually involved with a woman. And I would gladly reciprocate. (If I wasn't willing get my nose and tongue somewhere, I damn sure wasn't going to stick my dick near it since I'm rather more attached to it.) Of the guys who actually enjoy blowjobs, I would hazard that most like "deepthroating" (including several there is no way would actually reach the back of her throat unless she has an extremely shallow palate). I don't, however, pretend to speak for any except myself in what follows.
Looking down at her looking up at me as she opens her lips and teases my throbbing penis with her tongue is exhilarating, yes. More so when she slides those luscious lips down my pulsating shaft while staring me right in the eye than while she traces patterns along it with her head tilted sideways using the tip of her tongue as a writing tool, although I have never to my recollection stopped any who just did that.
But, there is something about the primal hunger communicated, as if she just can't get enough of me, as if she is so turned on by me that she wants me in a way that is almost scary in it's intensity as she lunges those pressing lips along my length to slide it across the surface of her tongue until I can feel the much more constrictive opening to her throat at the back of her mouth press against my glans. A hunger for me that is so encompassing that she will fight the reflex trying to kick me back out and try to draw me deeper. Perhaps with a slight gagging sound to indicate her overwhelming desire for me fighting her physical capacity to handle what she is trying to do because of it.
By the same token, I never was the type to try to get her to handle more than she was willing. Not even to get her to touch her lips and tip of her tongue to me, much less more. I would just take my bat and ball(s) and refuse to play if her mouth was completely off limits.
Any road, not sure if I answered the question I cited, but know I didn't the original thread. So, I'd probably better take my bat and ball(s) off the field and let someone else play.