subwannabe
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Do yourself a favor and don't have any children with her. You think you're not getting enough sex now? After children it will get much worse. By then you will have kids, be cheating, and then go through a divorce and have to pay child support. While everyone, including me, will say that communication is the key, the fact is you can only get so far with communication. A person is who they are and you're not going to change them. You're not going to accept less sex and she apparently is not going to give more.
I would try counseling ASAP and if you can't get anywhere with that then you need to admit you made a mistake, get divorced, and move on. It would really be the best and fairest thing to do for both of you. Cheating, even over the internet, is the wrong way to go in a marriage. If you have to cheat then you shouldn't be married in the first place and the longer you live like this the unhappier you will get to the point of eventually having a failed marriage leading to divorce anyway and having to pay child support on top of it.
I would try counseling ASAP and if you can't get anywhere with that then you need to admit you made a mistake, get divorced, and move on. It would really be the best and fairest thing to do for both of you. Cheating, even over the internet, is the wrong way to go in a marriage. If you have to cheat then you shouldn't be married in the first place and the longer you live like this the unhappier you will get to the point of eventually having a failed marriage leading to divorce anyway and having to pay child support on top of it.