TheOlderGuy
Purveyor of Pleasure
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I couldn't help it, I just couldn't take my eyes off him....and he keeps crossing my mind. I'm hoping he's something of a regular at that restaurant.
I will be now
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I couldn't help it, I just couldn't take my eyes off him....and he keeps crossing my mind. I'm hoping he's something of a regular at that restaurant.
You don't have to wear a suit to be sexy. Bare legs, no panties, a very short skirt and frequently bending over and/or uncrossing your legs are all good ways to send sexual signals and see if there's any response."When you meet a woman that you'd like to "be with" how do you get the ball rolling? What do you say or do that communicates "I want to fuck you?""
My question was posed from a female perspective . . . is the come on from an older guy different? Is he more subtle? A couple of you have mentioned the importance of wearing a suit. . . not clear why I should wear a suit, I would think a nice dress, bare legs, no panties (just in case we "clicked") would be enough to convey my interest. My concern was recognizing his interest.
BTW I'm being facetious . . .
You don't have to wear a suit to be sexy. Bare legs, no panties, a very short skirt and frequently bending over and/or uncrossing your legs are all good ways to send sexual signals and see if there's any response.
The point is to be subtle and not just blurt out "I want to fuck you"...at least not in the first few minutes of conversation.
"When you meet a woman that you'd like to "be with" how do you get the ball rolling? What do you say or do that communicates "I want to fuck you?""
My question was posed from a female perspective . . . is the come on from an older guy different? Is he more subtle? A couple of you have mentioned the importance of wearing a suit. . . not clear why I should wear a suit, I would think a nice dress, bare legs, no panties (just in case we "clicked") would be enough to convey my interest. My concern was recognizing his interest.
BTW I'm being facetious . . .
You're right, subtlety is the key, however trust me when I tell you that I have had men that I don't know or know only casually approach me and out of the blue say "I want to fuck you." It doesn't work. . . and I don't know why younger guys think it would.
Being subtle is something we older men have learned, sometimes the hard way. The guys that said that body language is important hit the nail on the head. If a woman leans in close to speak to us. If she also lets me have a little glimpes of her breasts in doing so I will pay more attention. A flash of leg will also do it.
Now if this continues then I will be a little more forward with my flirting. There is a fine line between being a flirt and giving someone the right signals. Sometimes you get it right, sometimes you don't.
Older guys are will be more careful than younger guys. They don't want to insult a woman that is just being friendly. Some of the younger guys I have been around don't care. They just want an answer-yes or no. Sometimes us older guys will settle for a "maybe".
"When you meet a woman that you'd like to "be with" how do you get the ball rolling? What do you say or do that communicates "I want to fuck you?""
My question was posed from a female perspective . . . is the come on from an older guy different? Is he more subtle? A couple of you have mentioned the importance of wearing a suit. . . not clear why I should wear a suit, I would think a nice dress, bare legs, no panties (just in case we "clicked") would be enough to convey my interest. My concern was recognizing his interest.
BTW I'm being facetious . . .
I think you almost have to start from subtle--unless you have a clear indication that the younger woman isn't going to be freaked out by your approach. The "I want to fuck you." approach CAN work with some women, because there are women who want to be controlled, who need to be controlled, for whatever reason. For them it's the only language they'll understand.
I think I can narrow this down a little:
A mature Bull and a young bull are looking down the hill at all the cows. The young bull say too the Mature Bull: I''m gonna run down there...and fuck one of those cows......You do that Says the Mature Bull..... Ya, What are you going to do. Says the young bull. The Mature Bull finishes chewing the grass in his mouth, looks the young bull in the eye and says; I'm going to walk down their and Fuck them all !!!
I like this thread...Hi Pink
Exactly. You can always start out subtle. If you find out that your subtlty is boring her and she's hot for sex, you can quickly drop the subtlety. But you can't tell her "I want to fuck you" and then try and be subtle after you find out that she's not ready to hear that.
If she smiles and asks you if you're flirting with her, you're doing fine. If she slaps you and walks away, you're gone too far. If she slaps you, but doesn't walk away, and even smiles and moves in closer, you're in the sweet spot.
But what if SHE wants to be the one getting slapped...?
Oooh, we're going way beyond simple flirting here.
If she wants to be slapped she's either going to have to do something to provoke a slap, and many people are very reluctant to slap another person even when there's reason to do so, or she's going to have to make it known that she wants to be slapped.
I've done and seen a lot of flirting, but not much slapping. Can't really give much advice other than to suggest you pick the right partner.
Btw, did you ever read "Dani's" article on slapping that she discussed in her since deleted thread? She discussed slapping at length.
No I didn't. But I definitely have my share of slap experience. For me, its an instant mental reset...