The Blank Manual - Most Popular Questions Asked

BlueSugar

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Following is the undertaking of Blue Sugar, a wonderful, helpful member of this board and community. Thank you!


The Blank Manual is a compilation of the How To Board's advice, questions and struggles of all kinds. Inside you can find compiled information about every thing from anal sex to how to make an avatar.

I want to thank dearly all of those who have shared their wisdom and lives with Lit over the years and for the years to come. I want to thank everyone for being so open, caring and as understanding- this is truly a nice place to find.

The Blank Manual will be constantly updated for all the new and old Litsters to enjoy for years to follow. No information has been lost, searches can still be preformed, but if it was a really helpful, memorable thread, then you can find it right here.

Use it to its fullest!!

How To's Blank Manual Librarian,
BlueSugar
Jackie Blue

If you feel a thread needs to be added to The Blank Manual please click Here or Here and make a suggestion. :)
Also, I am one person, if I make a mistake and haven't caught it, please tell me. I don't mind. Or if you feel I placed a thread under the wrong catagory- its easy for me to move them. I would like this to be for everyone by everyone because all in all, it really is.




P.S
ATTN: "Newbies"
Here are some threads to help start you out with cutting the ice and jumping right in to the Literotica Community

How To FAQs to Read Before Posting thread started by quoll


New Member Introductions thread started by EJFan

How did you end up at literotica? thread started by kissinggurl


I found this on The General Board, its cute and oddly true in some ways, a fun read either way. Welcome to The G.B
 
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PHYSICAL: Oral - Anal

Physical:

Oral - how, best way, first time, taste

Sexual Heath- Questions thread started by sweetnpetite

The KISSING thread........ thread started by TirelessTongue

pussy eating? thread started by seduce888

eating a women out thread started by poolplyrndrunk

Oral Tips thread started by Mackay

A question or 3 about oral sex thread started by knightstalker

Deep Throating thread started by Teddybear1626

Dealing with my gag reflex thread started by sweetlittleass

Men: Oral sex tricks thread started by Sheath

Cocksucking 101 thread started by Queersetti

Blow Jobs thread started by 9638541

odor/taste issues- help! thread started by raven 7647

Dealing with a women who’s got a smelly snatch? Thread started by TirelessTongue

Flavored lubricants thread started by bling 36

Eating sperm for the first time thread started by Kyra 20001

Swallowing thread started by Erlikkhan

Make IT taste better thread started by rallas40


Please help me guys How should I finish a blowjob? thread started by LadyBird

Finishing Oral Sex ? thread started by firefighter02

Bukkake thread started by glen_xx

Cream Pies thread started by Kenny9990

advice for me, regarding my wife's blowjobs thread started by Mr. Bossman

Snowball ...sort of. thread started by BlueSugar

cum kisses thread started by Unregistered

males that eat cum thread started by jracer347

Come on in men .. I have another question thread started by Still~Rain


Anal - best position, first times , lube

Attempting Anal Thread started by adamman
this link includes the links to the threads: ass fucking, easing anal worries, any girls like doing guys in the ass, so i put my finger in my bf's ass last night


Rimming thread started by Diablogrl

How do I intruduce my wife to playing with my butt? Thread started by pcso17

1st time anal positions thread started by scoperella

best lube for anal sex thread started by bigcat_42

Anal fisting thread started by bentover


Getting ready for anal -various authors
Ladies - Ever take an accidental dick up the ass? thread started by Big Bair

Not just another Anal thread ... thread started by Halo_n_horns

Who is ignorant? thread started by msbator

Deal with post-anal emotional issues thread started by James G 5
 
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Female - Male

Female- infections, PMS, surgery, birth, squirting, "is this normal", Gspot
PMS Help! thread started by Sheath

ok, this may be gross, but ladies, HELP thread started by needs2ride (skip period using pill)

How do you cope with your PMS side? thread started by Annora

Question on Loose Pussy? thread started by BIGsizzle

Work out the Kiegels thread started by MylzDavis1975

Try This & Report Back thread started by MR G (G spot)

I dont understand thread started by exhibitionist4m (never had an orgasm)

The question as old as time thread started by SuicideSurvivor

Ladies, what turns you on? thread started by g123456

Inability to Orgasm Thread started by silverwhisper

Ladies - When is a Woman Satisfied?? thread started by Don K Dyck

pussy farting and squirting thread started by mcnarr30901

squirting thread started by maudadib

female ejaculation thread started by floweringlotus

Question to women who have multiple orgasms thread started by Unregistered

Too Wet: as a negative thread started by Tinkersquash

excessive wetness Thread started by Warrior Queen

Girls, when did you learn it was *ok* to stick things in your pussy? thread started by WickedEyes

Need help with fisting thread started by Mardoba

Fisting thread started by Wickid Cherry Pie

clit piercings thread started by Avery_Chisholm

Titty Fucking? thread started by EndOfThis

Fake Boobs thread started by Ljbonobo

Breast Torture thread started by Psia

Painful Nipples? thread started by vixenshe

Large nipples?? thread started by MyEyesLightUp

Antibiotics & Yeast Infections Thread started by Boston_bbw

Not sure what to do (STD?) Thread started by Lailarenna

Male - dysfunctions, medications, size issues, hand jobs, prostrate info

thread started by Razon

Is a small penis bad? thread started by a man a part

Cock Size- Continued Growth? thread started by party07

Frenum Piercing thread started by Lifeguard326

The Ultimate Foreskin Thread thread started by BlueSugar

Just Cut (Circumsized) thread started by sxy_j

Vasectomy thread started by Voldemort

Uncircumcised penis + condom usage thread started by CessnaMan

Dealing with condoms thread started by P. B. Walker

just been circumsized (help) Thread started by xxxbob

How to increase sensitivity thread started by Tazidevil

Cialis--levitra--Viagra, what do you think?? thread started by stiffy_guy

Male multiple orgasms thread started by smokeyjoefun

'Milking' a mans cock - is this for real? thread started by Arden

Horse outta the gate to fast thread started by cutrat

desensitizing creams/sprays Thread started by Blue112

Penile Zits? Thread started by sexpod

Can't Ejaculate....Please help? Thread Started by goodnamesgone
 
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Sex, Birth Control, FAQs - Pregnancy

Sex, First time, Birth control, Plan B, and Abortion F.A.Qs

How long did you wait? thread started by UC_Gav

first kiss thread started by snarkysnark

Carrying condoms thread started by Bandit58

Condoms - Inside Out? thread started by Phil333

Trouble in the bedroom... thread started by Alanea

Sex and Headaches thread started by RestlessNights


sex in the spooning position thread started by Freaky123

First time sex help please. Any ladies to help? thread started by sweet_kelly_kis

Virgin with some condom questions. thread started by The Fish

Why I do not enjoy it??? thread started by goldenboar

breaking a hymen thread started by shy little fairy

Thick Hymen Thread started by lmonade

How much does sex change things? thread started by CodeRed316

first time problems thread started by Watcher of All

safe sex? thread started by emer

Pulling Out?? thread started by Iveo

Condoms!!! but how to buy? thread started by Monkey_man_99

Looking for a Certain type of Condom Thread started by Niteloser

Allergies to condoms thread started by vixenshe

Inspiral condoms thread started by WriterDom

The Today Sponge thread started by Suzins

Worried about getting pregnant? thread started by Sati

Pill vs. Patch vs. Shot vs. Ring thread started by idoyoganaked

Ortho Tri Cyclen Q thread started by StartingToLearn

Birth Control Pill Question (how long does it take to be able to go w/o condoms while on the pill.) thread started by Learning81

Ladies: Anyone on Yasmin (birth control pill) or thinking of taking it? thread started by tigerjen

Nuva ring... anyone try it yet? thread started by Valcorie

Ladies who have been on Depo... thread started by Vixenshe

Quit Birth Controll Pill, How Long Until Sex Drive Returns? thread started by BCPFree

Pregnancy

Can i? I don't think so thread started by burrish (tubes tied/pregnancy)

Is it really impossible to conceive when your partner is menstruating?
thread started by StoneTheCrow

Cumming inside vs. the pill ! thread started by PowrDragn

getting pregnant thread started by bigboy03

Detect Pregnancy? thread started by Caliber

Raise a child? thread started by Astro

Advice for first time young mothers thread started by BlueSugar

General bitch followed by a question thread started by Mstrskey

Preggy sex thread started by Hexiegirl





Abortion thread started by DreamKeeper

Need "Plan B" details ("Morning After" regime) thread started by ReadyOne
 
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Spice things up - Toys and lingerie

Spice things up

Setting free the beast thread started by PinkOrchid

... encourage new things thread started by CelticFrog

Phone Sex Tips post by asian_sensation

Sex in showers thread started by asian_sensation

Making him my slave? thread started by vina55a

A question and please be honest in your answers thread started by Mskey (no longer attracted to me physically?)

How do I warm up my frigid gf? thread started by Shaun1479

Increase my libido thread started by Hotred911

How to Wow my man? thread started by cyberangel69

Male Stripping thread started by Mr. Dork

Verbal Sex!!!Yes!!! thread started by pinkcat

Sex and the Disabled Thead started by pinnochio

how to...choose something "stimulating to watch thread started by jupiter lilly

"Pass Out" sex? thread started by Hooch


Toys + Lingerie - how to pick, find, buy, preferences and where

Buying Toys Online thread started by MY-Sir's-k-

Sex Toy Parties!?!?!? thread started by Cardinal

Which toy(s) for my girlfriend ? thread started by TheFrenchGuy

A question for the ladies. A friend needs help. thread started by Billr26

Best vibe for my girl thread started by cooldick

Women and strap ons thread started by PinkOrchid

Double-sided dildoes thread started by PinkOrchid

Remote-Controlled Vibrators thread started by Vixenshe

BenWa Balls - Can Someone Please Tell Me.....? thread started by Xcitra

Dildo or Vibrators......... thread started by Wizard

Anal Toys thread started by drew62

erection enhancer sleves anyone? thread started by mike62wi

Cock Rings thread started by SuddenDesire

cockrings? thread started by lewy18

Love Swing? thread started by Tania_Rides

Advice on buying Sex Swings thread started by filling_KK

Toy Accidents thread started by BreadMan

Lingerie thread started by scrymettet

sexy attire thread started by andyandy

A good source for plus-size lingerie? thread started by sheath

where do you hide your toys? thread started by sugargator
 
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House Hold and Food Items - Setting the mood and Music

House hold + Food = fun in the house in a pinch

Changing the flavor of cum thread started by tangerine30660

Unusual Lubes and Household toys thread started by Sheath

Objects thread started by PinkOrchid

Household Dildos... thread started by ChasingShadowsX

Household items used for butt plug / dildo thread started by litma2

How to fashion a wooden dildo thread started by Motu79

sex food thread started by lost5pints

Figging, gonna give it a try thread started by Layne

As promised: Kitchen appliance how-to thread! thread started by Sheath

How To: Adult Arts and Crafts thread started by Tazidevil

Ice thread started by Bashfull

Random How To Thread Thread started by MissTaken

Setting the Mood + Music

songs that make you hot thread started by living2serve

poll: Music and Sex thread started by Jynyntonix

Best Song For Strip Tease thread started by Rage33

Artificial aphrodisiacs, do they work? thread started by Algol
 
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Hair Removal - The Industry

Hair Removal

Before we decide to shave it off or keep it, style it or dye it.. don't we want to know why it is there in the first place? Why is there hair? Thread started by EJFan

Magic Shave Question thread started by Tazzy26


Success with Magic Shave! thread started by DuckLover

Yes, a new magic shave question... thread started by Nola

shaving vs waxing thread started by mnmex25

Shaving my rear end thread started by Jenny Thong

Men getting their ass waxed? thread started by PorscheLynn

How to get my wife to go *bare* ?!?! thread started by dmb101

Make it more comfortable after you shave thread started by Another Shy One

How to... ask her to shave thread started by londonaberdeen


“The Industry”

How to become a porn star thread started by bigtitsihave

sex for money thread started by sweetnpetite

Paying for sex thread started by Gord

I wana be a porn star, how can I do it? thread started by 1MOA
 
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Masturbation, Kinks ,Threesomes+

Masturbation

Do you masterbate in front of you spouse? thread started by Cardinal

Mutual Masturbation thread started by LizzyB

Question for Ladies... about masturbation. thread started by MrScorpio

Too much masterbating? thread started by pornmaster123a

how did you learn? thread started by lighter20

Masturbate in the tub?? thread started by liz3030

how would you define this? thread started by swtnsasy

Incest


Incest and Marraige Question thread started by jessy19

Daddy and Daughter fantasies thread started by vixenshe

Incest Is Best thread started by KHAN-E (this thread was moved to the playground)

Kinks/Fetish

Your Favorite Sex Fetishes! thread started by Tooch McGroin

Golden Showers Dangerous? thread started by alphaville

Absolute kinkiest fetish you've ever indulged in? thread started by icdlr

What's Your Kink??? thread started by MY-Sir's-k-

Fetishes....what is the weirdest in your mind? thread started by Bobmi357

golden shower thread started by goldenshl

Fingers? thread started by DrippinWet84

Confess: what are your naughty/kinky/weird turn ons? thread started by Ass_tronaut_T

Who has fucked a animal thread started by Drunkhippo


Group/bringing in a 3rd
Acceptance of sexuality prefences



Group "activities" vs monogamy thread started by Fluttering_Pink

Str8 males and bi sex: thread started by krspy2001

Question for Bi Ladies thread started by randyru

is all this girl sex a myth? maybe were just different species thread started by quimperator

How to ask a friend for MFM thread started by f1re

Does your wife or GF have bi-desires? thread started by aramis3

poll: How many have had 3-sums+ thread started by Voosla

MMF or MFF? thread started by Unregistered

Threesomes thread started by Tallfella

Anyone out there let their wife screw around? thread started by Adeon
 
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Polls/Is this normal - Drug Use

Opinions/Preferences/Polls "is _____ dirty or is it normal?"


sex and religion thread started by sweetnpetite

Poll: Does a guy jacking off turn a lady on? thread started by ReadyOne

big pussy lips or small ones? thread started by sultryone01

size does matter, big is beautiful.. thread started by piedpiper

Men wearing Women's Panties thread started by Tazzy26

Those Little Quirks and Other Oddities thread started by Sheath

is this normal?? thread started by sexigodess26

All About Roleplaying thread started by Tania_Rides

Picking apart porno thread started by BlueSugar

How do you like your porn? thread started by Bobmi357

Does sex get better or worse with Age? thread started by rich987652

How to get out of my damn clothes....help! thread started by Strgzr1230

Sexiest part of a man thread started by Cakegirl

How would you like your penis................ thread started by Autoguy

How to handle being ugly thread started by Citadel

eve ensler / how do you feel about your body? thread started by raven7647

Body type question thread started by PinkOrchid

What sounds do you make? thread started by Beginner Guy

Is this physically possible? (Kinda technical question) thread started by sheath

Rough thread started by Unregistered

Breast Milk, men's opinion of lactating women??? thread started by pixiewitch


Drug Use


Poll: What's your "Drug" of choice? thread started by ifitsfundoit

Life Advice thread started by joemorgan

Can a recovering alcoholic ever get better? thread started by Mary Hall
 
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Abuse - Rape

Abuse:


Pondering serious thoughts here.. thread started by Still~Rain

How do you help someone get over being abused thread started by Gil_T2

Advice on relationship w/ past abuser thread started by Valcorie

Anyone have Resources on Emotional Abuse? thread started by Sheath


Rape:


Statutory Rape & Such... thread started by MiloDRemix

Sex after Rape thread started by Mona

SOs of Rape Victims...how did you handle it? thread started by sheath

there is a difference between factual and fictional, for some it is difficult to believe and seperate,but it is true it does exist. I chose to put them under the same topic but I am separating them by this statement, if there is truly a problem- I am more then willing to move them.

being taken thread started by y=mx+b

Rape fantasies??? thread started by Kozza

Non Consent Fantasies? thread started by LongWalkHome
 
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Anger, Stress and Moving on

Mental

Gripes ... anger ... sharing threads about life and relationships

How to find healthy outlets for anger? thread started by Sheath

HELP! Boyfriend Won't Touch Me thread started by liloleme

Could it get worse ? thread started by SIC

Somebody please explain what the HELL is up with my man??? thread started by Sheath

How To Ease That Restless Feeling? thread started by sheath

Signs your mate is cheating... thread started by sheath

Define Cheating thread started by BustyImp
What Degrades You In Bed? thread started by pogogirl



Stressors

How NOT to be a Victim thread started by Sxylegs

Hysterectomies and your sex life thread started by saldne

Self Esteem thread started by SweetErika

How to lose weight... really? thread started by muddpuppy

How to Understand Addiction and Recovery? thread started by sheath

Giving up? Or keep going? thread started by firefighter02

nightmares.... thread started by veryblueeyes

Committed couples who decided to live with sexual problems. thread started by ReadyOne

how to de-stress? thread started by warriorqueen

Depression. Anxiety. Panic Attacks. etc Thread started by Quoll

suggestions, pretty please... Thread started by VermilionSkye

Med Changes. Thread started by biexplicit

girlfriend dealing with depression. help will be appreciated. Thread started by madmanmike

Is depression caused by suppressed anger?. Thread started by pupper

anybody tryed Lexepro? . Thread started by pupper


Moving on

How am I supposed to know thread started by Suzins

how to land a friend? thread started by guywithglasses

Do Single Dads ever get laid ??? thread started by Big Bair

Single parent places thread started by Georgia Girl

how to... stop the yearning thread started by Phoenix Stone
 
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Communication - Death - Values - Finding Time

Communication


Relationship issues and Communications thread started by Bobmi357

Little white lies or big whopping fish tales... thread started by Sheath

Do you find it difficult to talk about sex? thread started by Sheath

Girlfriend works in massage parlor, how to deal? thread started by sonicdefender

Cybering While in a Committed Relationship thread started by Bobmi357

Ways to Shore Up My Marriage thread started by bobsgirl

Sex chat: - is it better than with wife? thread started by unfaithful2005

Dealing with changing group dynamics thread started by Eilan

I'm Dirty, She's NOT thread started by intelsuit

Cheating? thread started by huskie

How to: deal with this? thread started by jason_shift

Straight Wife, Perverted Husband thread started by Cardinal

Faking It Thread started by Sweetnpetite

cybererotic relationships thread started by Hausfrau

Getting people past their own issues.... thread started by Vixenshe

How can one convey "I'm sorry thread started by capricious_chic

Make time... thread started by Hotred911




Helpful threads on meeting or talking with/to people for the first time.
striking up a conversation with someone you like, adore, think is cute, hot, awesome etc. :)


Meeting People Thread started by dmb8485




Divorce

How to Get Over a Divorce and Start Over? thread started by Aztecs94

How To...Know When To Have "The Talk"? thread started by SexyChele

Can this marriage be saved???? thread started by Sheath

So confused... what is my man thinking? thread started by Tania_Rides

How to know when its time to give up? thread started by _Milky_Whites_


Death

Help with grief thread started by CelticFrog
 
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Children and Family - Incest

Children and the many “The Talks”


Giving Your Kids THE TALK thread started by BirdsWife

Help me with my son Thread started by theman69

Ummm...I don't know how to explain this one. Help? thread started by Sheath

How to get my son to LISTEN. *sigh* thread started by Sheath

Potty Training Nightmares thread started by lost5pints


Family/in-law related issues with values and raising a family

My family is falling apart thread started by lovechild27

Love, Family...and the Interracial Relationship thread started by sheath

nterracial Relationships thread started by butterfly27

Incest


Incest and Marraige Question thread started by jessy19

Daddy and Daughter fantasies thread started by vixenshe

Incest Is Best thread started by KHAN-E (thread has been since moved to The Playground)
 
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"General Board"

How To Cafe


What feeds your soul? thread started by Sheath

Things that piss you off? thread started by Firefighter02

Defining Love thread started by Cathleen

Power and Control thread started by SweetErika

TREE SEX thread started by Womanlover

Uh-oh…Help? My kids are going to kill me for this thread started by Sheath

Craziest thing you have seen on Lit... thread started by firefighter02

Best public place you had sex! (Sex, Oral, Hands) thread started by Henry808080

Who would your ultimate fantasy f*ck be?? thread started by Rashashea

favourite body part thread started by logan ross

Dirtiest Way You Masterbated/Sex thread started by LiLSportGuy

What is your favorite thing about getting head? thread started by LadyGwenhevare

What do you like the most about your own cock/pussy? thread started by WickedEyes

Some Q&A For the Ladies – Fingering thread started by DriveSouth
As a kid I used to J/O to ..... thread started by Big Bair

Women - what if your SO came on your face while you were sleep? thread started by Kardon

Have you ever licked an armpit? thread started by maleorfemale

Question for the guys thread started by Megan_69

plus size yoga? thread started by boston_bbw

How do you give a flying fuck? thread started by midwestyankee

Short Men thread started by Tacky Daddy

Cybering thread started by raynedrops48

What do these terms mean? thread started by KindaKinky

First time in someone's pants thread started by PinkOrchid

Human, animals and Evolution. thread started by UC_Gav

Dictionary of Sexual Phobias and Fetish Terms thread started by BlueSugar

Did you know...? thread started by Still~Rain

How to Get Over Turning 40 thread started by freddyandeddy

what if... thread started by BlueSugar

How'd you meet your SO? thread started by Color Me Crazy

Herbal Remedies thread started by CelticFrog

Do you live with chronic pain? thread started by Naughty n Nice

Belly Button Ring on a young girl~ Slutty or not? thread started by WillowWhip

Age at first Oral Sex? thread started by Kenny9990

New DP thread!!!!!!!! thread started by PinkOrchid

Pull my hair! thread started by Luvinit

Would You Rather .... thread started by BlueSugar

What is the proper way... thread started by BlueSugar

the other gender's body thread started by Lust Engine

Blatant theft! thread started by PinkOrchid

how bad are you thread started by petrel
 
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Technical Support

Signature line/Av help

How To FAQs to Read Before Posting thread started by quoll



*for the oldies who have been with us before the boards went through a change around janurary... the html codes have been turned of*
You can fix it by using the VB coding...

Here are the basic commands:

Below is a list of the vB Codes you can use to format your messages.
vB Code List
, , /Bold / Italic / Underline
[color] Color
[size] Size
[font] Font
[highlight] Highlight
,
,
Left / Right / Center
Indent
and so on.


How to get pictures in signature thread started by College_geek

Avatar's killin' me (avatar help) thread started by blindman24

Need a pic resized for your Av? Post it here... thread started by girl

Saving the site's audio files? thread started by jzelger

Acknowledgment of submission thread started by exquisit_taste

HELP:posting pictures rather than attatchments thread started by alonelygal

avatar? thread started by jason_dancer

So...how do you decide to change an avatar? thread started by sheath

Testing Pages

Testing thread started by Traditionalevolution

Test Your Posting Here thread started by Cierra_Dessert


Misc. Computer stuff

cyber sex thread started by brownbear1000

How to hide the porn...a question. thread started by HeavenScent

Picture Sizing thread started by MagdaleneWA


Spyware thread started by Vampintraining

Tech help needed: floppy drive problem thread started by midwestyankee​
 
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Nice Job BlueSugar :rose:
 
:: blushes and sticks her toe in the sand :: aw shucks, it was nothing! ;)
 
You've done a hell of a job there, kiddo! You should be proud. But then I keep telling you that anyway.
 
awe c'mon you guys. just word of mouth this sticky/thread in lieu of making me turn 30 shades of red !
 
BlueSugar said:
awe c'mon you guys. just word of mouth this sticky/thread in lieu of making me turn 30 shades of red !

Spankings are covered here too I noticed.

[Voice=Mr. Burns]
Exxxxxxxxceellent.
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Do you intend to update this page frequently?
 
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