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Old 09-05-2013, 02:20 PM   #43001
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I got my outbreak of shingles in my early 40s, though they are much more common in those 60-plus. Mine ran from just "outside" the outer corner of my left eye, diagonally down to the left corner of my mouth. It was a little scary, because the doctors told me that if one of the blisters at the corner of my eye were to burst and leak into my eye, I had a significant chance of losing the sight in that eye. Fortunately, none did, and I'm no blinder now than I was then (20/200 uncorrected; 20/20, 20/30 corrected).

They have had, for almost 20 years, a beneficial side effect: they are an early-warning signal for an oncoming migraine headache. I learned eventually that when the particular nerve running that path starts to signal, I am in danger of a stress-triggered migraine. If I can sufficiently reduce the stress level within 30 minutes or so, I don't *get* the migraine. I might end up with a *stress* headache, but not a full-blown migraine.

I was in my very early 30's went I got shingles also. My outbreak was also on my face, the upper right quadrant around my eye. I have suffered from migraines since my 20's and they have always began right above that area. I wonder if there is some sort of connection.

I was on vicodin for a few days but it wasn't too severe. I am very thankful to Valacyclovir. The timing of mine was extremely inconvenient, it disrupted a play event my Dominant had planned for us involving other people. But we rescheduled so it didn't turn out so bad
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Old 09-05-2013, 09:29 PM   #43002
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Just saw the above post, just realized I am 90 mins late for my antiviral. Doh!
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Old 09-06-2013, 12:20 AM   #43003
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My thanks for the shingles posts. I'm getting myself to Walgreen's this weekend for a shot!
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Old 09-06-2013, 01:03 AM   #43004
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I am truly blessed. I know that. I have good days and bad days like everyone. I have issues like anyone else. But I have been blessed, especially the last 18 months.

Today as a kind of mental exercise I decided to try and find something about my job that I didn't like and after much thought and struggle I finally landed on...

Having to get up and get there in the mornings.

That is how insanely blessed I am, my life so not sucks that my only gripe about my job is getting out of bed, dressed, out the door and to my desk.

Craziness!

I could complain about a crazy schedule, I could complain about my physical issues, I could complain about my debt. But what's the point? My life is pretty awesome.

Have a fantastic friday, everyone!
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Old 09-06-2013, 01:21 AM   #43005
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It'd be nice if my son cleaned the toilet just once. Once.
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Old 09-06-2013, 08:51 AM   #43006
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It'd be nice if my son cleaned the toilet just once. Once.
Good luck with that.
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Old 09-06-2013, 09:55 AM   #43007
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My thanks for the shingles posts. I'm getting myself to Walgreen's this weekend for a shot!
That is a good idea, though shingles *mostly* attacks those 60 and up. As you now know, it does occasionally swing down the foodchain and hit those in their 30s and 40s, too, and if it can be fitted into one's budget, eliminating the possibility of that pain is a good thing. Note, however, that if you have not had chickenpox previously, the chances of having a shingles attack is almost nil.

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Have a fantastic friday, everyone!
You, too, and a wonderful weekend!
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Old 09-06-2013, 10:01 AM   #43008
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Good luck with that.
Ha, well apparently since he's an "adult" now he can come home at all hours and not do a damn thing around here. I actually said, "my house, my rules" yes, I have become my Dad.
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Old 09-06-2013, 11:10 AM   #43009
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Ha, well apparently since he's an "adult" now he can come home at all hours and not do a damn thing around here. I actually said, "my house, my rules" yes, I have become my Dad.
Isn't it strange that when we become parents, we also (usually), to some degree, become *our* parents?
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Old 09-06-2013, 11:17 AM   #43010
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Isn't it strange that when we become parents, we also (usually), to some degree, become *our* parents?
No. It's terrifying
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Old 09-06-2013, 12:55 PM   #43011
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Ha, well apparently since he's an "adult" now he can come home at all hours and not do a damn thing around here. I actually said, "my house, my rules" yes, I have become my Dad.
Better yet, become your lawyer. Write up a contract that explains precisely what he gets from you and what he must provide in return. Further, include the consequences of failing to hold up his side of the arrangement. Sign it and hand it to him to sign. Show him that you're serious that operating the household should be a joint venture between the two of you.
 

Old 09-06-2013, 01:53 PM   #43012
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I got a very public apology today from a guy who upset me quite badly in the past. Very surprising. I would like to think it was genuine but the realist in me isn't holding her breath.
 

Old 09-07-2013, 09:28 AM   #43013
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I got a very public apology today from a guy who upset me quite badly in the past. Very surprising. I would like to think it was genuine but the realist in me isn't holding her breath.
I've always felt there was a strong correlation between public and true.

Movies: with exception very public and very untrue.

Stuff that happens in one's bathroom: very private and very true.
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Old 09-08-2013, 12:25 AM   #43014
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Old 09-08-2013, 12:44 AM   #43015
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Ladies with bra-fitting issues, you need to schedule a trip to Indianapolis.
From size AAA to N, Indy bra shop is No. 1 in nation

Barbara’s New Beginnings has been named the the best bra-fitting shop in the nation. The store has more than 10,000 bras in sizes AAA to N. Personal fitters, who go through three months of training, make sure bras fit just right, down to the smallest of details like proper band width.

The store’s wide assortment, coupled with over-the-top customer service, earned Barbara’s a prestigious The Best of Intima Award last month in New York City. These awards are the Academy Awards of lingerie shops.
More at the article linked in the headline above.

And CM, if you're looking for a new job in a new location....
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Old 09-09-2013, 01:09 AM   #43016
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I've always felt there was a strong correlation between public and true.

Movies: with exception very public and very untrue.

Stuff that happens in one's bathroom: very private and very true.
Exactly.....to me, the very fact it was so public screamed 'Look at me - aren't I great?' rather than anything else. Ironically, part of his apology was to say that he'd stopped behaving as though he was the lead actor in the film called life
 

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I miss my work.
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All of a sudden I remembered the password for my private blog I wrote 7 years ago. Yeah, shouldn't have read. *facepalm*
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Old 09-09-2013, 12:21 PM   #43019
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I'm sorry - should I have not posted this?
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Old 09-09-2013, 05:28 PM   #43020
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Old 09-09-2013, 06:13 PM   #43021
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Trying not to get too excited about a really good Saturday. The situation could change at any moment, so I have to take each visit and enjoy it to the fullest! And I can hope to be so completely filled again soon ^_^
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All of a sudden I remembered the password for my private blog I wrote 7 years ago. Yeah, shouldn't have read. *facepalm*
You're lucky to have remembered it! I wish I could remember the password I used for the site I posted some poetry to about 7 years ago too. I was proud of it at the time and posted it with my full name. Now it's the first thing that comes up when my name is googled, and it's obviously me as I have a pretty unique last name. I need to get onto contacting the site to see if I can get it removed but I'm anticipating it to be a huge pain in the ass, if it's even possible to get it removed that is.

*sigh*
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No, it's ok. I don't enjoy change (or transition) at the best of times, and new fall collections are coming out... I miss making a living through my passion, instead of simply going to work every day. And keeping my financial head above water... I miss that, too.
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You're lucky to have remembered it! I wish I could remember the password I used for the site I posted some poetry to about 7 years ago too. I was proud of it at the time and posted it with my full name. Now it's the first thing that comes up when my name is googled, and it's obviously me as I have a pretty unique last name. I need to get onto contacting the site to see if I can get it removed but I'm anticipating it to be a huge pain in the ass, if it's even possible to get it removed that is.

*sigh*
At least it was private, no one could read it and it didn't have my name attached to it. But I deleted it altogether. Better safe than sorry. I cannot believe I was so angsty worried about silly stuff only 7 years ago!

I have a similar situation to yours on another site, though. I put my info on a classmates.com type of thing about 12 years ago when I was barely in highschool, and now it pops up every time someone googles my name. My school history along with a really, really stupid (ie. I thought it was funny as hell back then) "tell something about yourself, anything goes" introduction...

I forgot about the whole thing for years and years, until a friend told me about her problems trying to get her account deleted there. She doesn't remember which email address she used to log on, and the admins of the site said there's nothing they can do about it. I remember the address I used, but I can't get it down, because I don't remember the password and the email provider for my password recovery address no longer exists.

I've been hoping they just take the whole site down, because no one actually uses it anymore.
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Old 09-10-2013, 03:34 PM   #43025
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