Can men cum without touching?

I can

I can do this at will. Discovered it quite by accident, around the time that I discovered an unknown nipple sensitivity. With some mental stimulation and pinching of my nipples, I can pretty soon climax in a long, drawn out, 'different' kind of way, more a gentle ooze than an explosion. Quite sublime.

PM me if you want to know more.
 
On another thread, women have been talking about how they can sometimes cum simply by clenching their thigh muscles. That got me wondering if some men have the ability to will themselves to orgasm without touching their genitals. There was a story I read some time ago about a guy who could do just that... without touching his penis, he could will it from a flaccid state all the way to ejaculation without him (or anybody else) touching it. At first, I thought, "Yeah, another male fantasy," but it occurred to me that there might be something there.

Guys, can you do this? Or do you know anybody who can? Has anybody, male or female, actually seen this done?

No, I can't
 
My, my. This thread is still alive?

I think that I specifically excluded "wet dreams" on the grounds that there was some sort of stimulation going on from the bedding, which the person wouldn't know about because he was ... well, asleep.

Again, my thanks to all who have honestly responded. My education continues by leaps and bounds.
 
hi

my ex bf has sometimes ejaculated and climaxed, while he caned my bare bottom, as part of his kink before having anal sex with me when we were both tipsy.
 
On another thread, women have been talking about how they can sometimes cum simply by clenching their thigh muscles. That got me wondering if some men have the ability to will themselves to orgasm without touching their genitals. There was a story I read some time ago about a guy who could do just that... without touching his penis, he could will it from a flaccid state all the way to ejaculation without him (or anybody else) touching it. At first, I thought, "Yeah, another male fantasy," but it occurred to me that there might be something there.

Guys, can you do this? Or do you know anybody who can? Has anybody, male or female, actually seen this done?

Yes,

Me laying face down.

My wife grinding her wet pussy across my arse and back.

Her hands teasing my nipples with no remorse.

Soaked the sheets with cum.

And I've also cum just from drinking from her wonderful pussy. Licking. Sucking. Swallowing every last drop I could get from her.
 
oh yes

I had a ex-boyfriend who it happened to a few times during our times together. It wasn't intentional. One time, the first time, I remember specifically that we had already had sex, he had reached climax and I hadn't. So, he was stimulating me via his fingers with his hand closest to my body while we were both on our backs side by side. Neither he nor I was touching his penis because he had just came, and we were kissing while I was just caressing his face and he was touching me. All the sudden he started breathing heavier and very quickly he gave a low grunt/moan like he often did while climaxing and I opened my eyes and his eyes were wide open and his body was arching and he just came. Before I had even climaxed, I might add. :rolleyes: I stopped, I was surprised and I asked him if he had just orgasmed and he said yes. He was waaay more surprised than I was. He wasn't a newbie to sex when it happened and he'd been with several women prior to our relationship but that was the first time it had happened for him. He was shocked. Right from the start of our relationship he always used to tell me I was the woman he had felt the most sexual intensity for, and you know how you often don't believe what men tell you :rolleyes: but, I eventually did believe that sentiment because of that experience and several other of his actions. Anyhoo, he seemed to enjoy it immensely the few times it happened. It was always unintentional while his penis was not being stimulated (and after he had already climaxed once!) but he was in some way stimulating me.
 
I had a ex-boyfriend who it happened to a few times during our times together. It wasn't intentional. One time, the first time, I remember specifically that we had already had sex, he had reached climax and I hadn't. So, he was stimulating me via his fingers with his hand closest to my body while we were both on our backs side by side. Neither he nor I was touching his penis because he had just came, and we were kissing while I was just caressing his face and he was touching me. All the sudden he started breathing heavier and very quickly he gave a low grunt/moan like he often did while climaxing and I opened my eyes and his eyes were wide open and his body was arching and he just came. Before I had even climaxed, I might add. :rolleyes: I stopped, I was surprised and I asked him if he had just orgasmed and he said yes. He was waaay more surprised than I was. He wasn't a newbie to sex when it happened and he'd been with several women prior to our relationship but that was the first time it had happened for him. He was shocked. Right from the start of our relationship he always used to tell me I was the woman he had felt the most sexual intensity for, and you know how you often don't believe what men tell you :rolleyes: but, I eventually did believe that sentiment because of that experience and several other of his actions. Anyhoo, he seemed to enjoy it immensely the few times it happened. It was always unintentional while his penis was not being stimulated (and after he had already climaxed once!) but he was in some way stimulating me.

Wow. Very hot. Very interesting, and hot. :)
 
lol, glad yet another guy can get satisfaction out of that. I did as well, I of course don't know exactly why it would happen, but I chose to take it as flaterry! I found it pretty hot as well, actually.
 
I has happened to me on a couple occasions while giving tongue to my woman which I find intensely erotic
 
Ive cum with my wife on top of me missionary, pegging my ass and talking dirty to me. She refused to touch me as she pounded my ass into submission. Finally I couldnt take it and exploded

Since the first time, this is my wifes new obsession
 
I was 45, married and finally had an opportunity to act on a strong urge to suck another man's dick. It was so intense I spontaneously came.
 
I take a herbal supplement for muscle spasms. When I take it long term, I start to get really bad side effects and need to take a break. Once I stop taking it, I get INCREDIBLY horny and have constant wet dreams for a week or two.

About a year ago, I stopped taking it while I was traveling to another city with a couple of other people. On the flight back, I was sitting by myself and I had nothing to do except entertain myself with dirty thoughts. My thoughts revolved around fucking my wife but I knew I literally wouldn't last 5 seconds in her. So I fantasized fucking her and coming right away. She would then put her panties on while she waited for me to recover for round two. Once we started round two, she would take her come soaked panties and shove them in my mouth while riding me. When the flight landed, I sent her a text telling her my dirty fantasy. My wife was out and told me to put on a pair of her panties when I got home and to wait for her. My entire body was shaking the whole way home. I had to keep trying to think of something else to stop myself from coming in my pants. I had never been such a mess in my life and know I could've come just from my thoughts if I let myself.

Unfortunately, the fantasy never played out. As soon as she got home, she rubbed me through my sweatpants and I came in the panties in a couple seconds. It had taken the edge off and since we had kids around, life got in the way. That was the closest I ever came to coming without touching besides wet dreams. I know "almost doesn't count", but had I not been around other people and could let myself, I definitely could've made myself come.
 
I was 45 when I decided to stop fantasizing about exchanging oral sex with another guy and experience it for real. When the opportunity finally presented itself I soon was knelling next to a bed, on which an equally naked guy was lying on his side with his hard dick available for me to explore. The idea that there was a hard, wet dick sliding in and out of my mouth - that I had actually taken the plunge and gone through with actually doing it - was incredibly intense. I couldn't help it - I blew my load all over the bedspread draped over the side of the bed. He was a bit annoyed but knew it was my first time. Recovery was very quick and he reciprocated - but he wanted me nowhere near the bed and so we did it on the floor.
 
It only happen once with me. I was about 35 and a horn dog. (Not that anything has changed in that respect).
 
Can't say that I've ever had that particular pleasure except for once, after weeks of withholding, I did that during a deep kiss with the love of my life ... amazing ..
 
On another thread, women have been talking about how they can sometimes cum simply by clenching their thigh muscles. That got me wondering if some men have the ability to will themselves to orgasm without touching their genitals. There was a story I read some time ago about a guy who could do just that... without touching his penis, he could will it from a flaccid state all the way to ejaculation without him (or anybody else) touching it. At first, I thought, "Yeah, another male fantasy," but it occurred to me that there might be something there.

Guys, can you do this? Or do you know anybody who can? Has anybody, male or female, actually seen this done?

I still do this occasionally. You might want to search for the phrase "Extended Sexual Orgasm" or "ESO."

I usually keep it as an entirely hands-free experience. About half an hour to an hour.

You might find it interesting that I find I can get to erection faster and harder by "relaxing" into it and saving the tension and muscular contraction for the later phases.

I was rather surprised to find out how much mental and deliberate control one can have over a process that is usually thought of as so physical and quite involuntary.

- curl
 
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i do it often, when I am bored, or perhaps in a cinema, I find it full filling and i like the damp feeling after in my underpants
 
Just as a woman can contract her pussy a man can cause his cock to move up and down when hard.

Supposedly if a guy keeps doing that and has some other form or arousal like watching porn or a woman masturbating in front of him or talking dirty or perhaps lying right there between his legs, but not touching....it can happen.

I've tried it a few times in submissive situations where I was told to cum on my own, but couldn't do it from 'scratch' there is just not enough to get me off.

the only times I have done it was after some physical contact, some stroking, sucking, edging then the woman backs off and I can finish like that, but never just from no contact period.

But like women, guys are different
 
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