SpunThings
Literotica Guru
- Joined
- Apr 5, 2015
- Posts
- 649
Yes, most people do hide their playful side, it's definitely a perceived vulnerability. Especially in the workplace, or where you don't intimately know the people you are interacting with. People think you artless and stupid, and they tend to dismiss or underestimate you. That gets on my nerves in real life, so I tend to avoid it. Here I don't give a rat's rainbow patootie about that Go ahead, please, underestimate and dismiss me
That makes so much sense. Being an intelligent, young looking, short person with a high pitched voice, I have lots of experience with being underestimated or not taken seriously. Fortunately having kids has changed my looks enough that I look and sound my age now.
How do others feel about vulnerability outside a monogamous relationship? Since vulnerability is such a large part of our play, I can't help but be worried it would be unfaithful to be vulnerable to another.