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10-14-2009, 09:19 AM
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Girls who date bi-guys.
I was just wondering who here would have a bi boyfriend?
Also what advantages and disadvantages does it bring to the relationship?
I find that I can be loyal to anyone I love and I am. I don't need to be with guys when I have a girlfriend and I dont need to be with girls when I have a girlfriend.
But my ex found it kinda gross that I was interested in sex with guys. And I think it effected our relationship and sex life even though I didn't discuss it with her when we were making love or before we were having sex. But I just think maybe she thought it made me less of a man or something I don't know.
Anyway I'd love to hear other peoples thoughts, more on the problems you've had having a normal relationship being bisexual and the issues you've faced and how you got around them to have a good relationship.
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10-14-2009, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted by ChasingShadowsX
I was just wondering who here would have a bi boyfriend?
Also what advantages and disadvantages does it bring to the relationship?
I find that I can be loyal to anyone I love and I am. I don't need to be with guys when I have a girlfriend and I dont need to be with girls when I have a girlfriend.
But my ex found it kinda gross that I was interested in sex with guys. And I think it effected our relationship and sex life even though I didn't discuss it with her when we were making love or before we were having sex. But I just think maybe she thought it made me less of a man or something I don't know.
Anyway I'd love to hear other peoples thoughts, more on the problems you've had having a normal relationship being bisexual and the issues you've faced and how you got around them to have a good relationship.
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My wife knew I was bisexual before we got married and she was cool with it. Lots of couples out there are bi. 
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10-14-2009, 10:19 PM
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I'm married to a bicurious man and I find it hot, actually. He's just begun wearing my panties (and posted pics to the thread), which I also think is really cool. We're just having a hard time finding someone who wants to be with him without also requiring me to have sex with them. I don't particularly need to have sex with another guy, I just want to see my husband swallow a load 
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10-14-2009, 11:27 PM
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bi boyfriend
i knew my bf was bi when we met. i didnt have a problem with it. i thought it was hot seeing him with another guy. he said it would add to our sex lives andi thought it was something we could share in 3some meetings. well as time went on, he started ignoring me when we'd meet up w/ other cpls or guys. it was all about him . then it came to a point when he'd lie to me and meet up with other guys/couples alone. i tried talking to him about it and he denied everything. needless to say i moved back home and we are no longer together. i thought he was my soul mate. i hope to find someone soon who will understand my needs like i understand his.
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10-15-2009, 04:07 AM
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I'm married to a bicurious man and I find it hot, actually. He's just begun wearing my panties (and posted pics to the thread), which I also think is really cool. We're just having a hard time finding someone who wants to be with him without also requiring me to have sex with them. I don't particularly need to have sex with another guy, I just want to see my husband swallow a load
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wow thats hot!
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i knew my bf was bi when we met. i didnt have a problem with it. i thought it was hot seeing him with another guy. he said it would add to our sex lives andi thought it was something we could share in 3some meetings. well as time went on, he started ignoring me when we'd meet up w/ other cpls or guys. it was all about him . then it came to a point when he'd lie to me and meet up with other guys/couples alone. i tried talking to him about it and he denied everything. needless to say i moved back home and we are no longer together. i thought he was my soul mate. i hope to find someone soon who will understand my needs like i understand his.
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You sound beautiful, it's sad that there are people out there who only care about themselves. i love the whole soulmate thing its beautiful!
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10-15-2009, 03:52 PM
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i'm moving on, i've already met someone thru a local swingers club. he's bi as well, we've already played with a few couples which was awesome experience. we'll see how this works out. just gona let loose and have some fun at the local club here.
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10-15-2009, 04:14 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ChasingShadowsX
I was just wondering who here would have a bi boyfriend?
Also what advantages and disadvantages does it bring to the relationship?
I find that I can be loyal to anyone I love and I am. I don't need to be with guys when I have a girlfriend and I dont need to be with girls when I have a girlfriend.
But my ex found it kinda gross that I was interested in sex with guys. And I think it effected our relationship and sex life even though I didn't discuss it with her when we were making love or before we were having sex. But I just think maybe she thought it made me less of a man or something I don't know.
Anyway I'd love to hear other peoples thoughts, more on the problems you've had having a normal relationship being bisexual and the issues you've faced and how you got around them to have a good relationship.
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i would be ok with it, as long as everyone played safely. im very open when it comes to sex so...thats just me.
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10-20-2009, 02:41 AM
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Why cant i ever meet people like all of you?!
how old is every1?
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10-20-2009, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted by PrettyBiBBW
I'm married to a bicurious man and I find it hot, actually. He's just begun wearing my panties (and posted pics to the thread), which I also think is really cool. We're just having a hard time finding someone who wants to be with him without also requiring me to have sex with them. I don't particularly need to have sex with another guy, I just want to see my husband swallow a load 
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A shame I'm not nearby. I'd love to play with another panty slut.... with you watching... I'd love to slip into a pair of your panties in front of you. 
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10-21-2009, 10:27 AM
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i would be ok with it, as long as everyone played safely. im very open when it comes to sex so...thats just me.
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Wow! I've seen your pic thread and now you are going to bundle it with a great attitude. You might be the perfect woman. 
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10-21-2009, 11:09 AM
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You won't definitely have a problem with you're bi BF dating other girls.. but keep an eye if he's with other boys..
also I heard that bi-males are much caring and knows where we females loves to be touched..
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11-08-2009, 01:28 AM
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Bi from now on...
I was married to a straight man for 19 years. He left suddenly six months ago and sited among a few reasons that MY lifestyle had harmed him emotionally. We had been swinging for a year or so some years before and to me this was a complete cop out because he could have at any time told me he wasn't happy and I would have stopped playing instantly. Anyway, now I'm looking for someone to share my life with that HAS to be bisexual and accpet me for the Bi/Domme/BBW I am. I wouldn't marry or date a straight man again for the life of me.
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11-08-2009, 10:08 PM
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Over the past 4 years I specifically mention that I am bi, if not when I meet her, by the second date. That way if she has a problem with it neither of us has anything invested. Prior to that I just never told any of 'em.
It has turned some potential girlfriends off, but what I've found is that they say "Really?" and start asking a lot of fun questions, open up to discussing fantasies they might otherwise not, etc.
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11-08-2009, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Riley_James
I was married to a straight man for 19 years. He left suddenly six months ago and sited among a few reasons that MY lifestyle had harmed him emotionally. We had been swinging for a year or so some years before and to me this was a complete cop out because he could have at any time told me he wasn't happy and I would have stopped playing instantly. Anyway, now I'm looking for someone to share my life with that HAS to be bisexual and accpet me for the Bi/Domme/BBW I am. I wouldn't marry or date a straight man again for the life of me.
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Awesome! Where in California are you? Santa Rosa area here.
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11-08-2009, 10:13 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ChasingShadowsX
I was just wondering who here would have a bi boyfriend?
Also what advantages and disadvantages does it bring to the relationship?
I find that I can be loyal to anyone I love and I am. I don't need to be with guys when I have a girlfriend and I dont need to be with girls when I have a girlfriend.
But my ex found it kinda gross that I was interested in sex with guys. And I think it effected our relationship and sex life even though I didn't discuss it with her when we were making love or before we were having sex. But I just think maybe she thought it made me less of a man or something I don't know.
Anyway I'd love to hear other peoples thoughts, more on the problems you've had having a normal relationship being bisexual and the issues you've faced and how you got around them to have a good relationship.
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I'm bisexual, and married to a woman who's slept with women and men yet considers herself straight. Oh, and she thinks every gay guy and every woman in the city wants me. Yay. Welcome to marriage.
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11-10-2009, 02:39 AM
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I've dates several bi guys and had a lot of fun with it. Sure, some of them were assholes, but that was just their personality. Of course, in all my relationships, I let them know that I was open to the idea of involving others in our sexual sessions-- men, women, couples, whatever. Obviously, that didn't happen too frequently, but the one threeway, I made one rule: his cumshot was mine. He was my boyfriend, so I got his cumshot. End of story.
I like dating bi guys. They can understand some stuff, they (generally speaking) seem to make better lovers, and they can enjoy the sight of an attractive man or woman with me (I'm bi, so it's just easier).
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11-13-2009, 10:44 PM
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Originally Posted by PrettyBiBBW
I'm married to a bicurious man and I find it hot, actually. He's just begun wearing my panties (and posted pics to the thread), which I also think is really cool. We're just having a hard time finding someone who wants to be with him without also requiring me to have sex with them. I don't particularly need to have sex with another guy, I just want to see my husband swallow a load 
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Id make the offeer but I'm in the worng part of the county. Actually I've just bi-curious and just the thought of pleasing a woman by allowing her to watch would be a turn on for me... especially if she was coaxing just a bit.
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