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Old 10-15-2017, 11:03 AM   #51
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I like her to be shaved as I am also. I love the feeling on my self
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Old 10-17-2017, 02:50 PM   #52
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He and I both prefer me shaved.
He doesn't love shaving, though I would like shaved. That said, he trims very close, which is also perfectly ok with me. I do not like au natural. Not into having a face full or mouth full of hair. lol
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Old 10-20-2017, 06:00 PM   #53
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In my 40s I reconnected with my ex-wife J who then became my mistress. Having had bad luck with men including myself to my surprise J became a lesbian top. J was living with lesbian girlfriend at the time who didnít mind that J re-connect with me on with the basis that she was going to take me on as her slave. When I thought back while we were married J actually detested intercourse and fellatio preferring me giving her cunnilingus instead. Even when I was married it was actually a turn on to be dominated by her because when her daughter was at school she would take me into the bedroom give me a good talking to you and then whip my ass. I was actually proud of her for speaking her mind and teaching me a lesson in this aggressive manner for me it was actually a turn on.
A friend bumped into J and she gave him her phone number asking for me to call her and I decided to go ahead and do it. My friend gave me your phone number and I was quite surprised so I waited a couple days and gave her call. A lot of water went under the bridge and we both decided not to bring up the bad things in our old relationship and just talk about something new. We talked about everything and anything and things got down to the nitty-gritty. I decided to openly confess that I had been into female domination and practiced BDSM with dominant women. Instead of hanging up J got really curious and started asking questions. She wanted to know all the nasty details of what other women did to me. When I told her that I had been whipped various ways and actually lost my anal cherry with a strap on she was actually quite taken away that I would let a woman do that but it was actually excited. I admitted that she was the one that stirred my interest in domination by the way she acted in our marriage and the few spankings she had given me got my interest in being whipped.
I told her that itís hard to find a good mistress to serve especially where we live in a small city and I was willing to pay for it. This perked Judy up telling me she would rather make some kind of an arrangement to have me give gifts in exchange for sessions. She told me sheís a lot meaner and nastier towards men then she was when we got divorced so I better get ready for some wild times. It was her turn in the confessional and my ears started ringing when she told me that after she left me she switched to women. J said thereís nothing like being naked in bed in the arms of a passionate woman that knows how to eat pussy. She confessed that she knew all about strap on sex having had several girlfriends enjoyed getting fucked with one. Telling me that we would never be naked together and we would never have any kind of sex other than kissing the only form of fucking we would participate in would be strap on sex or dildo play as long is I showered her with gifts. I also told J that I was more than willing to clean bathrooms, wash floors, cook her meals, as well as taking her shopping to be dominated.
J told me she was willing to give it a try wanting to come over tomorrow so that we could meet face-to-face and ďchatď. I suggested that instead of bringing up the past I was more than willing to have J give me an over the knee spanking as hard as she wished as payback. Agreeing that that would be about the best way to break the ice with a hard spanking Jay got my address and told me she would be over about 5 oíclock and I could take her out to dinner afterwards so we can have our talk. Jay arrived at 5 oíclock and I opened the door and our eyes met and there was still a fire there between both of us I led her in the door and took her over to the chair in the middle of the room J ordered me to pull my pants down around my ankles and when I did she immediately pulled me over her lap and started the spanking. I couldnít believe how hard it was taking my breath away and I started crying out as tears streaked from my eyes like a kid. Concentrating on the sensitive underside of my ass she continued whipping until I was black and blue unable to sit. J pushed me off her lap telling me that my spanking was definitely not for free and that now I had to take her out to a nice dinner. She told me to buckle my pants because my pubic hair looked offensive and something had to be done about it she also thanked me for not having an erection during the spanking. I quickly apologized zipped up and took J off to a Chinese restaurant where we talked all about our new mistress/slave relationship.
I did find out that she preferred me to be completely naked during a session and that she be fully clothed and that my pubic hair was definitely going to disappear and she was the one that just going to make it go away. She promised that my ass was never going to be the same again as long as I opened my wallet.
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Old 10-20-2017, 06:22 PM   #54
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I like hair on both of us.

I have experimented with accommoding a partner's preferences in this area and for some reason it always really bothered me, felt like I was giving up too much, or the wrong thing.

I don't have a lot of hard limits but this is pretty close to being one of them. If he gave me a choice I would say, 'no, please;' if he commanded me to trim or shave it would be with the knowledge that this is a negative thing for me, and would affect our relationship negatively. I would obey, but he would be responsible for the consequences.

The one exception is that I'd like to experience my partner shaving me - once - with no obligation on my part to offer a repeat in future.
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Old 10-20-2017, 06:30 PM   #55
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Once J took me on as her slave she decided it was time I got shaved. Convincing me that my cock and balls would look a lot better if they were as bare as when I was born I agreed to getting shaved. J decided that it would be quite exciting to have me impaled in the shower on a dildo to shave me. We got everything ready the scissors, the safety razors, and the dildo. All I had to do was get naked and skewer myself on the huge 8 inch dildo stuck to the wall. It was the biggest dildo I had and Judy picked that one so I would definitely be uncomfortable during this shave. By this time Judy preferred impailment over strap on sex and loved watching me fuck myself. She believed it was payback time for all the times I fucked her when we were married. Demanding that I bury the dildo all the way J just giggled watching me grimmacing slowly sliding the dildo the full 8 inches up my ass. Once I was standing in the shower completely impaled she told me not to move and just hold still and let her do the work. For she took the scissors and remove the bulk of my pubic here tossing it into the garbage. The only thing that hurt was the huge dildo up my ass. Starting at the top working down around my crotch using razor after razor because they got dull J meticulously removed every last pubic hair from my crotch. She firmly believe that shaving guys pubic hair off took away his manhood and definitely made him embarrassed whenever going into a public shower. Once I was completely shaved she did take some soap giving me a nice sensual washing of my cock and balls. Happy that she was finished she told me in a stern voice to start fucking myself on the dildo. It was embarrassing but I obeyed pushing the dildo in and out of my ass stimulating my prostate. She liked being the voyeur and I liked it too because she could watch and see how much I enjoyed taking it in the ass. She would tell me that if she wouldíve had a strap on dildo 10 years ago when we are married I wouldíve lost my cherry then.
Itís a lot cleaner having no pubic hair. My wife now loves it because itís not in the way when she sucks my cock.
From that time on Iím still completely saved and thatís been over 15 years ago.
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Old 10-21-2017, 09:41 PM   #56
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I prefer her shaved, she prefers me to have it neatly trimmed. Sometimes we are both smoothies especially in the summer when we spend a lot of time going nude.
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Old 10-21-2017, 10:28 PM   #57
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I prefer her shaved, she prefers me to have it neatly trimmed. Sometimes we are both smoothies especially in the summer when we spend a lot of time going nude.
I like to be shaved because I tan nude and don't like my skin tone to be different. I prefer her to be shaved or at neatly trimmed because I will be spending much of my time eating her out and I don't like hair in my noise.
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Old 10-21-2017, 10:43 PM   #58
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If I'm going to be shaved or even trimmed, I prefer for him to do it for me.
There is something so intimate about that.
I couldn't agree more! Shaving her is one of the most intimate, erotic, and sensuous things I've ever done.
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Old 11-19-2017, 02:07 PM   #59
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We were both shaved and then she wanted to let hers grow back. I left mine shaved for quite a while. I had to schedule a physical because of insurance purposes and my Doctor was a female. She flipped my exam gown up to do a prostate exam and saw my ass totally hair free but she didn't say anything. When I turned around and she saw I was totally shaved, her eyes almost popped out of her head. I kept a straight face as I saw her reaction, but I really enjoyed letting her see me like that. It was the exhibitionist in me..... Next week is another physical, but this time I let it grow out. It's just enough that it hides most of my penis, although my ass will be shaved completely... a nice contrast for her to see........
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Old 11-21-2017, 05:36 AM   #60
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I really donít mind shaved or unshaven.

I like both. Silk smooth is lovely but a nice trimmed lush bush can be equally pleasurable. Iím an avid oralist I love bringing a woman off with my mouth and the tip of my wet tongue on her magic button. I love the variety.
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Old 11-25-2017, 11:53 AM   #61
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Personal preference.

I happen to like dark women that have
a bit of hair, but that's personal.

I don't think it makes much difference.
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Old 11-26-2017, 02:17 AM   #62
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I like my sub (wife) trimmed down there and for me, she loves hair on me. I have shaved her as punishment a few times.

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Old 11-26-2017, 02:48 AM   #63
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I like hair on a man.

My ex once refused to let me shave because I wouldn't send him a pic of my pussy becaus8i hadn't shaved that day. I get very embarrassed by how I look if my labia aren't shaved. He didn't let me shave for 4 weeks and made me send him a pic every day lol. He finally realized I'd never believe him that he liked how I looked regardless and finally let me shave.

I had one ex who begged me to grow my hair and then exercise and let him eat my pussy. He had a sweat fetish.
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Old 11-26-2017, 06:54 AM   #64
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It may not be fashionable but I like my pubes. But then I am not particularly hairy... little soft brown curls - Iíd be very annoyed with any man that suggested they go but none has...

And frankly any bloke thatís worried about getting the occasional pube in his teeth isnít man enough for me And given the lengths I go to for men, itís a small ask...

On him, I prefer hair, but he can do what he likes.

I worry for a generation of young people growing up with internet porn where hairless is seen as the norm. Each to their own, but I think people should at least be educated as to the risks...

https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/2976402
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Old 11-26-2017, 09:53 AM   #65
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Allia, thanks for that link as I had been considering waxing. That definitely won't happen now unless I'm ordered to do so.

J insists he trims me once a month. He makes it quite a production with me securely restrained and spread. The first few times, he went as far as shaving after trimming, leaving only a closely trimmed landing strip. This was very uncomfortable for me as the hair grew out and he wasn't happy seeing the irritation it caused.

After several months, he adjusted his technique to simply closely trimming everywhere which resolved issues with the bumps and ingrown hairs caused by shaving. The result is a comfortable and more hygienic "area of interest". This also removes a worry I've always had about how I may smell if he unexpectedly has me present myself for his oral amusement.

Because I was happy with trimming and felt cleaner, he decided I should do his also. I enjoy this as he allows an unlimited time to play with my favorite toy while serving him in this process. He has found he is also more comfortable in the heat and humidity here from being closely trimmed.

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Old 11-26-2017, 10:52 PM   #66
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It may not be fashionable but I like my pubes. But then I am not particularly hairy... little soft brown curls - Iíd be very annoyed with any man that suggested they go but none has...

And frankly any bloke thatís worried about getting the occasional pube in his teeth isnít man enough for me And given the lengths I go to for men, itís a small ask...

On him, I prefer hair, but he can do what he likes.

I worry for a generation of young people growing up with internet porn where hairless is seen as the norm. Each to their own, but I think people should at least be educated as to the risks...

https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/2976402
Me too. I do wax the business area, but in the front a have a little patch.
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Allia, thanks for that link as I had been considering waxing. That definitely won't happen now unless I'm ordered to do so.

J insists he trims me once a month. He makes it quite a production with me securely restrained and spread. The first few times, he went as far as shaving after trimming, leaving only a closely trimmed landing strip. This was very uncomfortable for me as the hair grew out and he wasn't happy seeing the irritation it caused.

After several months, he adjusted his technique to simply closely trimming everywhere which resolved issues with the bumps and ingrown hairs caused by shaving. The result is a comfortable and more hygienic "area of interest". This also removes a worry I've always had about how I may smell if he unexpectedly has me present myself for his oral amusement.

Because I was happy with trimming and felt cleaner, he decided I should do his also. I enjoy this as he allows an unlimited time to play with my favorite toy while serving him in this process. He has four he is also more comfortable in the heat and humidity here from being closely trimmed.

This whole thing is so nice.
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Old 11-27-2017, 04:41 PM   #67
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I prefer to be forced to be shaved. My Master likes some hair. I shave the edges and keep the primary area very short.

I like my Master shaved but she prefers medium to short length.
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Old 11-28-2017, 08:54 PM   #68
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As long as I don't cough up pubes, anything works for me.
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Old 11-28-2017, 09:11 PM   #69
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shaved - definitely no stubble please...........
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Old 11-30-2017, 01:46 AM   #70
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I prefer shaved, just easier in general with all the things we do.
Gotta go both ways tho, i always shave.
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Old 11-30-2017, 03:19 AM   #71
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As long as I don't cough up pubes, anything works for me.
Pretty much sums up my feelings.

I keep myself trimmed, it has been a long time since I let it grow out. I shave occasionally but it's usually too much of an hassle for me.
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Old 12-01-2017, 01:06 AM   #72
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I donít really have a preference. Both my wife and I are unshaven. But we do trim each other occasionally.
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Old 12-04-2017, 11:28 AM   #73
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Personal preference is bare for both as it definitely increases the sensations down there (whatever activity you're getting down to).

For those who have problems with the itchiness of returning hair after a shave, there is always plucking. This is a hugely sensuous thing to do to your partner and in the true BDSM sense there is a little bit of pain that is easily manageable and a lot of pleasure afterwards.

I have found that once plucked, hairs are very soft when they do return and do not itch at all. Also, as you are removing the hair from the root, the effect is much smoother than a shave and lasts longer.

So, tweezers, a clean damp warm towel, and a couple of hours is all you need (NB, trim with scissors first and ensure everything is sanitised before starting).

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Old 12-05-2017, 01:13 PM   #74
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I quite like hair on a man, but it's his decision, so whatever.
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Old 12-05-2017, 01:21 PM   #75
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Hair or not

As the user name infers, I love bald and smooth!
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