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Old 11-11-2017, 01:21 PM   #526
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Old 11-14-2017, 11:52 PM   #527
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I'm pretty submissive, but since my main goal is to please my Top, I have switched before when it made him happy. I didn't get pleasure from the acts themselves, only from knowing it fulfilled him.
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Old 11-14-2017, 11:55 PM   #528
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Old 11-18-2017, 04:10 PM   #529
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I've been thinking about this a lot lately and edited my original answer just to explain it a little better.

For me it just depends on the person.

There are some aspects of being submissive that are huge turn ons for me, spanking, orgasm control/denial, the verbal/mental aspects of it all, the begging. I enjoy pleasing and being told that I'm a good girl.

However, I can very rarely find a man who is dominant enough for me to be truly submissive and I generally end up topping from the bottom to get what I want.

I also enjoy being in control of some men (and there are others that I have no interest in taking control of). I especially enjoy men who are desperately horny who haven't had sex in a long time. I enjoy turning them on and teasing them, getting them to the point where they get hard when they look at me, talk to me or think about me. I love to watch them squirm and beg for me to let them cum, to make them cum. And I love the pleasure it gives when I have sex with them and drive them completely out of their minds. I love the way they give me oral sex. They act like it is the best thing that has ever happened to them and will go on as long as I want and love every minute of it.

So for me I guess an appropriate label would be switch.
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Old 11-19-2017, 06:44 AM   #530
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Iím dominant but in a very subtle way

Iíve been a Dom for years. I find it very empowering to make a woman have multiple orgasm through domination by heightening their carnal cravings.
Itís all about mind games. I enjoy using bondage and blindfolds with toys etc etc.
Inviting another male or female to adore and ravish her.
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Old 11-26-2017, 01:48 AM   #531
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50/50.

Even parts Dom and Sub.

Some days one side is more active than the other side
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Old 11-29-2017, 08:56 PM   #532
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It depends on the dynamics between personalities. I'm submissive to the right type - which is hard for me to find. But I'll never be blindly submissive, testing limits is a must.
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Old 11-29-2017, 09:15 PM   #533
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more dominant, not overly, just enough to show "who's in control" I prefer to find out my partners interests, kinks and limits and go from there
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Old 11-29-2017, 09:32 PM   #534
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I'm pretty dominant and controlling naturally. It means I like being the driver sexually, but sometimes giving up control can be really hot.
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Old 11-29-2017, 09:35 PM   #535
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I'm pretty dominant and controlling naturally. It means I like being the driver sexually, but sometimes giving up control can be really hot.
sounds like my wife, except for the sex driver part, lol
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Old 11-29-2017, 10:09 PM   #536
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It depends on the weather. I enjoy both with women but I expect to be treated as an equal in bed with men.
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Old 11-29-2017, 11:18 PM   #537
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Old 12-02-2017, 04:15 AM   #538
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Old 12-02-2017, 04:16 AM   #539
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Well, chain me up, whip me hard, love me harder 🤪
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Old 12-02-2017, 09:23 AM   #540
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Old 12-02-2017, 01:48 PM   #541
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Old 12-02-2017, 10:12 PM   #542
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Old 12-02-2017, 10:18 PM   #543
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Old 12-03-2017, 01:17 AM   #544
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Old 12-03-2017, 06:21 PM   #545
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I place myself firmly in the submissive category
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Old 12-04-2017, 12:27 AM   #546
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Old 12-09-2017, 05:36 AM   #547
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Im not that into the whole bdsm scene to be honest. Theres some aspects of it ofcourse that I do enjoy, but keeping it more, casual if you guys know what I mean So the normal dom-sub thing doesnt do it for me that much. However, I do like to take charge of the woman Im with if I feel like she's so inclined. On the other hand, I do love an asserted woman that can equally take charge, make her wants clear, give me clear instructions and be somewhat forcefull
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Old 12-09-2017, 11:35 AM   #548
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Im not that into the whole bdsm scene to be honest. Theres some aspects of it ofcourse that I do enjoy, but keeping it more, casual if you guys know what I mean So the normal dom-sub thing doesnt do it for me that much. However, I do like to take charge of the woman Im with if I feel like she's so inclined. On the other hand, I do love an asserted woman that can equally take charge, make her wants clear, give me clear instructions and be somewhat forcefull
Well it's 50/50 for me.a switch
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Old 12-09-2017, 06:51 PM   #549
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submissive sexually.
still trying to figure it all out. i guess it is a journey.
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Old 12-09-2017, 09:56 PM   #550
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Well it's 50/50 for me.a switch
"bitches love switches"

said someone here... nearly 20 years ago?

aw fuck.
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