ThunderbirdCumsalot
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I'm either oblivious to flirting/advances or it never happens to me, which is a shame because I'd love to have a little tryst.
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As a married guy, I have to say there was a significant increase in the amount of ladies hitting on me once I had the ring. My buddy wore a ring for a long time even though he wasn't married. I thought he was crazy, but it really worked. Keep it up girls.
I know from my upbringing that I should find it sinful, disgusting and wrong. I'd be a liar though if I said I've never had a crush on or felt attracted to a married man. It's not right but it's true.
Sure sounds hot lol wow a different perspective than we've seenI would love to find someone to fuck my husband and then tell me about it. I don't want him to know I've planned it. I want him to think he's keeping something from me. One of my fantasies is having him come home from "secretly" fucking you or having you suck his dick, and then I bang him as the naive wife. So fucking hot... Any takers? We are in TX.
Oh yes I love married men for all the same reasons you wrote. Sending them home with a smile and the wife doesn't know why. Giving him what she wont.
I definitely found that whilst I was in the separation phase I had more offers than I could cope with, especially as I had the kids to stay alot including every other weekend. Sometimes it was difficult remembering whom I was meant to be seeing, far easier to just have one woman lolWhile married/together I had few advances, possibly because my wife was gregarious and people would assume highly sexed.
In the separation/divorce "honeymoon" period, being newly single from a bad marriage, and a single father has seen me more offers than I can actually fit in. Even though they know I'm technically still married, and my life is chaotic.
Anyone else seen similar?
Maybe I am just dense (or really more ugly than I thought) but I don't seem to attract the attnetion of women who lile married men. Mores the pity.
I definitely found that whilst I was in the separation phase I had more offers than I could cope with, especially as I had the kids to stay alot including every other weekend. Sometimes it was difficult remembering whom I was meant to be seeing, far easier to just have one woman lol
I made the mistake of noting initials in my diary, which one woman had a flick through and then asked me what the letters meant. I don't think she believed my answer lolI have almost 50/50 custody.
I'm at the point with offers where there's a queue, and different girls for different types of needs. Also I have to note their initials in my work calendar so I can remember which one I'm headed to.
I live in a small village where pretty much everyone knows everyone else. There's a local woman who has been at least half-responsible for wrecking 4 marriages (5 if you include her own). I've met her and evidently I wasn't tempting enough. There is, however, a girl (in her 20's) who has made it very clear, in front of my wife, that she's interested. I regularly bump into her in semi-private places where an affair would be so easy.
I've been a member of this community for one week, and already I've seen dozens and dozens of posts by married men whose sex life is non-existent or nearly so. Agreed, there could be so many reasons for that. But I'm with you that there's a certain obligation to help your partner with their needs. We are sexual creatures. Sex is healthy. When you refuse (or can't) have sex with your partner, but also it's not okay to let them be with someone else, you're just strangling them.I know that this is the attitude in many places, especially small towns and close-knit communities, but I have always struggled with the premise that it is even half the other woman's fault. In any marriage the commitment is only between the two people in the marriage. If the other woman (or man) is a friend of the person being cheated on, perhaps one could argue that they have some implicit obligation to that person. Otherwise the other woman (or man) owes nothing to the cheated upon spouse. Perhaps the more virtuous thing would be to step aside, but none of us is obliged to be optimally virtuous and she isn't otherwise violating any commitment that she made.
Plus how does one know why a spouse cheats? While it may be difficult to definitively conclude that it is "justified" there are plenty of situations in which it is at least understandable and maybe the least bad option. I can think of many reasons why I wife loses her libido and of course a loyal husband shouldn't go and fuck around at the first sign of a decline or hiccup in the marital sex life. But surely there is a limit. A wife who shuts down the marital sex life altogether is abandoning her marital commitments (a husband shouldn't expect sex on demand but some sex is implicitly part of marriage). In this situation I don't want to say it is her fault that her husband cheats, but she isn't strictly an innocent victim either.
Oddly men seem to be regarded in a certain way in these things. A husband who cheats seems to be almost universally regarded as a bad guy. Women who cheat are sometimes viewed negatively as well of course. But if it is clear to others that her husband is an asshole who neglects her (and their sex life) it is treated as more understandable. There is sort of an implicit assumption that men are more likely to be neglectful. I think that is wrong. Men are probably more likely to be abusive, but women are just as likely to engage in benign neglect - not doing harmful things but just not doing anything at all to engage in affection and intimacy.
My wife has actually made the point to me that perhaps this is a logical reason for having healthy and regulated prostitution. If you don't want to fuck your man then let another woman take care of him. My wife has fucked a number of married men and in most cases they at least claimed some degree of neglect. She didn't feel bad at all.