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Old 06-26-2014, 02:05 PM   #51
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great thread. I must admit it is on my sexual bucket list to have someone deep throat me. I have never had anyone who could. :-(
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Old 06-29-2014, 07:34 PM   #52
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An exceedingly patient boyfriend in college taught me how to do this. Thus, no need to ruin fruit, although your desciption is so good and should be helpful. The hanging my head over the edge of the bed was the most useful part of the teaching process.

I would find it hard to believe that most men wouldn't be willing to spend as much time as it takes to teach a girl how to do this. It is, er . . . satisfying for all involved. And the taking alot of time to learn, that is pretty darn good too.
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Old 06-29-2014, 07:47 PM   #53
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An exceedingly patient boyfriend in college taught me how to do this. Thus, no need to ruin fruit, although your desciption is so good and should be helpful. The hanging my head over the edge of the bed was the most useful part of the teaching process.

I would find it hard to believe that most men wouldn't be willing to spend as much time as it takes to teach a girl how to do this. It is, er . . . satisfying for all involved. And the taking alot of time to learn, that is pretty darn good too.
I think I could be patient enough I think lots of guys would ... especially if it's presented as "I want to learn to deep throat, will you help me practice?"
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Old 07-05-2014, 11:35 AM   #54
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I think I could be patient enough I think lots of guys would ... especially if it's presented as "I want to learn to deep throat, will you help me practice?"
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Old 07-10-2014, 08:07 PM   #55
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One of the sexual things I've done that I'm most proud of is getting rid of my gag reflex. I mentioned this in a few of my posts here on Lit, and I have gotten a few messages from some of the other ladies (and a couple guys) asking exactly how to do it, so I decided to make a little how-to.

In high school, I got the chance to hook up with a guy I had wanted to get with for a really long time. We snuck off to a bedroom alone and started fooling around. After I started sucking his dick, he told me he wanted to go down "all the way." Now, this guy ended up having one of the biggest dicks I've ever seen, even 10 years later, but I didn't know that it was larger than average at the time. I tried a few times to get it down my throat, but just couldn't, kept choking, gagging, etc. I just couldn't swallow a dick that big all the way. I finished sucking him off, and he acted like he was into it, but I heard from one of my girlfriends that he was going around school saying that I didn't know how to give a good blowjob, which I wasn't going to stand for.

So over the course of about a month and a half, I practiced and practiced every day, and figured out how to control my gag reflex.

Essentially I just put something down my throat and held it there as long as I could, figuring out what muscles I had to focus on to keep from gagging. I tried a few different things, including a carrot, my vibrator and a bottle of hair gel, but really the best thing I found was one of the most obvious: bananas.

Peeled bananas work best for several reasons. First, the texture of a banana is much closer to the feeling of a real guys' dick than a carrot or a vibrator, and a banana can show you when your teeth have mistakenly gotten into the mix, which a plastic vibrator can't. Bananas are also curved, like most guys' dicks. And finally, possibly most important: they come in lots of different shapes and sizes.

I started with shorter, thinner bananas, and just worked my way up to long, thick ones.

When i first started i did this in a mirror, because watching yourself also helps you get better control.

1) Start with your peeled banana, and open your mouth as wide as possible.

If you want you can just lick/suck the banana for a few seconds to get it slippery. Not essential though.

2) Just ease the banana down towards your throat slowly, and if you start to gag, just pull it out and try again. But pay attention to what it actually FEELS like when you gag--don't just try and ignore the sensation. You want to know what muscles you need to think about.

Try and relax your neck/throat as much as possible.

Use a little bit of an in-out rhythm, maybe on a count of two seconds, so its IN (1 second) out (2nd second).

After a few days of practice, you'll find you can actually begin to hold back or at least delay when you gag, and you'll be able to push it past your uvula/tonsils. If you haven't done it, having something pressing against the very back of your throat DOES feel strange, and may make you gag again, but just keep fighting it.

3) Keep this up, and you'll find after a week or two that you can put the banana farther and farther down and pull it back out with less and less gagging.

4) After you can stand the feeling of the banana just going down past your tonsils, what you need to do is start pushing it in and holding it down there. Basically you want to practice just having something that big in your mouth/throat for a long period of time. Remember, you aren't getting RID of your gag reflex, you're learning to control it, to hold it back.

Take the banana and ease it all the way in, but instead of pulling it out, see how long you can leave it there. The first couple times it will be a strange sight to see a banana almost disappear completely down your throat, then reappear again, but it is definitely worth it...

After about a month of practice like this, I could just sit for a minute or more with almost the entire banana down my throat.

ALSO: I went through a period where I could get the banana really far down my throat, but my gag reflex just kept "firing." What I did was just shove the banana down and let my throat contract, contract, contract, but left the banana in. This was REALLY helpful in gaining full control over the muscles down there. Again, you want to feel what's contracting, so you can learn how to hold it back.

5) After you can do step 4 easily, start working on bigger bananas. It is up to you if you want to try and increase the girth/length (or both...) that you put down--either one will help you when you're in the heat of it...

Just keep practicing/increasing the size as big as you can/care to.

6) Practice on some real dicks.

So, there it is, simple, straightforward, but apparently not a lot of people think to do this. Now I can deep throat a 9 inch cock with no problems, much to the glee of whomever is on the receiving end. For some reason guys just like seeing a girl's lips all the way down at the base of their dick...

Hope this was helpful! If anyone else has any other tips/anecdotes, please feel free to share! Happy deep throating!
To learn Deep-Throat all you need is one kind patient master. I was fortunate in this respect, as a confused and mixed-up early-twenties guy unsure of my sexual orientation I was lucky enough to encounter an older (married) guy who helped me out. It was he who knew my needs better than I know myself, and allowed me to see clearly my natural need to be a submissive cock-sucker, he patiently coaxed and encouraged me through all those early sessions as I choked and spluttered on his big beautiful erection, embarrassed and self-conscious by the obvious inadequacy of my technique. I was eager and enthusiastic to learn, crouched naked there with his cock in my mouth, sucking and sucking at it, taking it a little deeper, learning how to take the sudden flood of spunk that filled my mouth, swallow and keep sucking. Later he took me further into face-fucking and deep-throating, by then I'd benefitted from his tuition and gratefully accepted more. Once our relationship was at an end, after a brief panicky period of isolation, I met another guy who took my sentimental education further, into anal, serving other men, light bondage and cross-dressing for his pleasure. I am grateful to both of them, and will continue to derive pleasure and satisfaction from their gifts in future relationships with new men in new situations...
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Old 07-13-2014, 03:10 AM   #56
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I have never sucked a cock, I am much more into getting mine sucked, but I may have some help for the ones anyone who want to deep throat.

My wife had to help nurse her mother through her last days. Her niece, a RN, also helped a lot. Any way her mom has some cough medicines for her cough called Benzonatate. The nurse said the hookers would come complaining of a cough and asked for the yellow pills (Benzonatate) the nurses quickly learned the pills contained Novacane and if the girls sucked on them instead of swallowing them whole as they were supposed to, the novacane would numb their throats and they could easily deep throat their johns and make a lot more money.

When wife came home she brought me a few of the extra cough pills since I was bothered by a cough. They worked fine for my cough and since I do not suck a cock I am posting this for those of you who do.

I am not making any judgements here about who does what to whom, just posting what I hope is helpful for those who are interested.
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Old 07-25-2014, 03:28 PM   #57
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well it's not my throat that is the problem..it's the sides of my tongue that if touched makes me gag..oh and too much too soon,,that doesn't help either.. and a banana won't work..i'm allergic to them..so what do i do?
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Old 07-25-2014, 06:33 PM   #58
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well it's not my throat that is the problem..it's the sides of my tongue that if touched makes me gag..oh and too much too soon,,that doesn't help either.. and a banana won't work..i'm allergic to them..so what do i do?
I have the sides of the tongue sensitivity too, or did. I desensitized slowly over time by running my toothbrush over the areas when I was brushing my teeth. Didn't take long to desensitize, a few weeks. It never went away totally, but is totally mild now. Hope that helps
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Old 07-26-2014, 10:31 AM   #59
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I like this post, an older one but a good one no less.
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Old 07-30-2014, 04:13 AM   #60
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I'm surprised no one has mentioned this fact here, since it's been covered in some other threads on this same subject, but one of the best - and nicest - cures for the gag reflex is a little Mother before the fact.
Yep, just try a pipe before you pipe. The other benefits, where sex is concerned are of course too numerous to mention, but that's been covered elsewhere as well.
Just do a little weed before the deed. Fast, easy, effective. And the orgasms will roll your eyes back.
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Old 07-30-2014, 05:07 AM   #61
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And I know for a fact that some guys simply want to see me gag. I like to think that I can take larger ones but if that's what moves his needle I can gag all over it too.
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Old 10-25-2014, 02:10 AM   #62
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And I know for a fact that some guys simply want to see me gag. I like to think that I can take larger ones but if that's what moves his needle I can gag all over it too.

Don't get me wrong, gagging, coughing, 'choking' at the right time is all a part of the show, and I use it accordingly, but when someone want's to straight up pound your throat like its a pussy or an ass, you better be able to step up.

Just saying, in my experience, its best to be able to do both.
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Old 10-28-2014, 08:35 PM   #63
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Bananas are a great practice tool and so good for you too.
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Old 10-29-2014, 02:58 AM   #64
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I don't think deepthroating is for me. I can't even brush my tongue without gagging.
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Old 11-11-2014, 08:51 PM   #65
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My partner spent some time trying, and I like to think I was patient and not at all pushy. She has now officially given up. I don't know why the sudden change of heart but she has no interest.

Any ideas about how to get her interested in trying to deep-throat again?
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Old 11-11-2014, 10:57 PM   #66
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Relax your throat mentally. I think it is usually anxiety
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Old 11-18-2014, 10:55 AM   #67
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Anyone have any ideas for being able to open your jaw wider?

Whenever I go to the dentist, he/she always tries to make me open wider, but I can't seem to, and if I try to force it, it starts clicking/cracking.
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