Is there suck a thing as being cock curious? I'm straight, have always been attracted to women. I have no problem with gay men, and honestly have never felt a physical attraction to a man. But when I fantasize I wonder what it would be like to play with another cock. I don't picture a guy so much, just the cock. Any other guys feel the same way? I think it's really just about trying something new, and being submissive to a cock when I'm usully the aggressor in bed. It gets old having to initiate sex all the time with the wife (usually pretty bland) so the idea of being taken by a nice big cock just sounds so different and hot.
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A Common Thing
I've heard a lot of curious guys say similar things. I feel that way also, I never see a guy on the street and think, "He's hot!"
However, I most certainly fantisize about being fucked, sucking and swallowing, etc. That's why, in my opinion, a lot of curious dudes are into crossdressers and T-Girls, you get a feminine package with the cock you crave.
I've heard a lot of curious guys say similar things. I feel that way also, I never see a guy on the street and think, "He's hot!"
However, I most certainly fantisize about being fucked, sucking and swallowing, etc. That's why, in my opinion, a lot of curious dudes are into crossdressers and T-Girls, you get a feminine package with the cock you crave.
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Or, conversely, they want to experience their own feminine sides, hence the desire to be subversive.
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Freudian typo there?
Here's a wild theory: If you watch any straight porn at all, you see lots of women sucking lots of cock, and lots of cum-shots, and often the guy is otherwise barely in the shot. No matter how straight you may be, you're building up an association between that imagery and your own arousal. Then again, straight porn wouldn't be that way if straight guys didn't like it, to begin with, no?
Supposedly we go through an "experimentation phase" when we're younger (you may still be young, for all i know), where such curiosity would be perfectly normal. Don't know how out-of-date or evil patriarchal/hetero-normative that idea might have become since i took some comfort in it 30 years ago, but whatever: yes, other guys feel just like you, lots of 'em, and it's nothing to feel ashamed of or worry about. If you can find a safe, consensual, way to indulge your curiosity that doesn't hurt any existing relationships, why not go for it? Even if you don't like it that much, you'll have learned something about yourself.
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It seems to be very common. I've heard also that some guys who start out as into-cock-only, bi-curious do eventually become gay or bi - and that the trend is becoming interested in cock first of all, and in men's faces last.
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Yeah, dude... its called having a cock fetish. There's a whole forum for you =
http://forum.literotica.com/forumdisplay.php?f=58
Thing is, all the cocks in this forum are attached to homos and bi men who are and SHOULD BE treated like REAL living, breathing people... all of which have emotions and are due respect.
...no random, floating, man-less dicks here. Sorry.
Ain't that attached to a human thing a bitch?
Thanks for the post safe bet. If I got the chance to play with another cock, I would be into the guy as a whole. I'd be up for kissing, and giving and receiving, whatever he wanted. It's just that I don't desire a guy so much as his cock. But given the chance, I'd be all over him.
I see where you are coming from
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I feel the same way. I dont think a guy is "hot" but Id be into doing anything a guy wanted to do with me or to me.
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The cock,
the whole cock and nothing but the cock.
the whole cock and nothing but the cock.
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I hear ya!! Just about the same feelings here.
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In a sense, yes. Watch this video- I know it's long, but it explains both male and female sexuality.
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.....presumably with cock in their faces in between.
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Thank you so much for that link - really interesting
...although necessarily a bit simplistic
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You know what. I really don't care anymore about labels and why I want what I want and that kind of thing. I know that a friend and I sucked each other off in highschool. I know that I got married and thought little about it but as I grew older. I started to look at the cocks in porn scenes differently. I know androgyny sets in as we age and that I am past bi curious now and want to suck a cock.
I fantasize about it as much as cunt. My wife and I are swingers. She has gotten drunk a few times and I worked some cock sucking into the session. The next day she will hear none of it, even though she is hot as a pistol when it is happening.
I long to do a full FFMM bisexual session with my wife and another pair. Barring that I can see myself finding a cock to suck on my own. Sort of against what we promised each other. Sorry for the rant...
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Very Interesting Thoughts
I have become "curious" in the past couple of years. Sex life with my wife had become bland...that is such a perfect explanation. I had brought up the need to add spice to the bedroom with my wife and it was not very successful. Then, about 18 months ago I began to have a series of dreams where I was sucking myself. It was very arousing but I never finished myself off in the dreams - one was so real that I swear I could feel my tongue swirling around the head. I took a chance a couple of months ago and brought up the dreams with my wife. She was not judgmental and thought that it sounded like a normal thought and it didn't mean I was gay. I still haven't mentioned that I am still curious to try sucking a cock, not mine as I would never get this old body contorted enough to even try it. The side benefit is that she has given me more blow jobs in these past two months as she given me in the past 5 years! The blandness is going away and she has become more creative. That is a real plus.
Bottom line though is I still have this curiosity to suck a nice cock! I had a lit fan hit me up and his comments included kissing, cuddling and so on....That does not flip my switch, in my curious moments I just want to feel, touch, stroke and suck a cock - in an MMF situation. Right now the drawn line in my curiosity does not include just an MM encounter.
I have become "curious" in the past couple of years. Sex life with my wife had become bland...that is such a perfect explanation. I had brought up the need to add spice to the bedroom with my wife and it was not very successful. Then, about 18 months ago I began to have a series of dreams where I was sucking myself. It was very arousing but I never finished myself off in the dreams - one was so real that I swear I could feel my tongue swirling around the head. I took a chance a couple of months ago and brought up the dreams with my wife. She was not judgmental and thought that it sounded like a normal thought and it didn't mean I was gay. I still haven't mentioned that I am still curious to try sucking a cock, not mine as I would never get this old body contorted enough to even try it. The side benefit is that she has given me more blow jobs in these past two months as she given me in the past 5 years! The blandness is going away and she has become more creative. That is a real plus.
Bottom line though is I still have this curiosity to suck a nice cock! I had a lit fan hit me up and his comments included kissing, cuddling and so on....That does not flip my switch, in my curious moments I just want to feel, touch, stroke and suck a cock - in an MMF situation. Right now the drawn line in my curiosity does not include just an MM encounter.
