We get a lot of men here who are looking for a "shemale" thinking they mean a trans woman-- and IMO, you are more the kind of girl they actually want.
Tell men you're a "shemale" and you'll have hundreds of tranny chasers after you. Among them there might be two or three men who are sincere and genuine lovers.
Where you are might make a difference, but these guys are everywhere! Have you placed a post in the GBT personals forum yet?