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Old 01-21-2013, 03:41 PM   #701
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I have often wondered how many women really like to be taken forcefully with the man in control.
My wife is not normally into S/M or anything like it, but sometimes I take her quite forcefully holding her hands over her head while fucking her and sucking and biting her tits and when she sits on top of me I grab her hips and ass very hard and force her down on my cock - and when we have done this she says afterwards that it was really good to be taken like that and to be without control.
Ihave had a similar experience with an earlier girlfriend, who normally liked it very gentle and soft, but sometimes got off really hard when I took command.
I would like to hear from both men and women your experiences and whether or not this would be an indication of her wanting more in that direction - and how I go about it - your help will be appreciated.
You can either send me a private message or give your opinion here - Thanks!
My wife loves it, not all the time but 80 percent. She likes to be choked slightly while I have her angles on my shoulders, and fast, hard deep strokes, neck bitten, tits bitten med to hard. Their is a fine line but when u find it oh my god she squirts time after time into a muti orgasmic mess.
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Old 01-26-2013, 11:16 PM   #702
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You all have no idea how incredibly comforting it can be to come here sometimes and read thread like this. Add me to the list of women who like to be taken, HARD. And yes, that goes for anal too.
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Old 01-27-2013, 12:00 AM   #703
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I know there is a lot of tongue in cheek comments on this thread and some very honest and serious ones, but I would like to add one thing before some body gets the wrong idea that all of us ladies who enjoy being forcefully taken, we are talking about men we know and trust We are talking about real enjoyable sex, not rape. I love it rough and I love real men just taking full control over me and doing whatever their heart desires. The men who I know and do this with , I know will not really harm me or worse. Strangers we do not know what they will do to us. Admittedly, I am a smaller than the average woman, but I do not go anywhere by myself that I am not fully aware of my surroundings and armed. Just because you are paranoid does not mean some idiot isn't out to get you. Sorry to be a bit of a wet blanket, but I felt this needed to be said. Please continue.

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Old 01-28-2013, 04:45 PM   #704
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I know there is a lot of tongue in cheek comments on this thread and some very honest and serious ones, but I would like to add one thing before some body gets the wrong idea that all of us ladies who enjoy being forcefully taken, we are talking about men we know and trust We are talking about real enjoyable sex, not rape. I love it rough and I love real men just taking full control over me and doing whatever their heart desires. The men who I know and do this with , I know will not really harm me or worse. Strangers we do not know what they will do to us. Admittedly, I am a smaller than the average woman, but I do not go anywhere by myself that I am not fully aware of my surroundings and armed. Just because you are paranoid does not mean some idiot isn't out to get you. Sorry to be a bit of a wet blanket, but I felt this needed to be said. Please continue.
Thank you very much for this contribution - I absolutely agree with you and that has been the outset of this thread. I couldn't do it with a woman I don't love and I wouldn't dů it with a woman that didn't love and trust me. So well said LauraWilling and much appreciated!
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Old 01-28-2013, 05:01 PM   #705
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Thank you DaneCopenhagen. I realized this, but no one had actually said his outright and we never know who is reading this and take it seriously that all women want anyone to take them forcefully. So at risk of being a party pooper, I thought maybe I should. I, myself absolutely love being taken forcefully and roughly by my husband and any friends we play with, so I am all for this, with people I trust.
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Old 01-29-2013, 11:10 AM   #706
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a very valid point has been made:
While many of us enjoy being taken roughly it is only with a trusted partner. When we give access to our body, you are given a huge responsibility to treat it with respect. Respect comes in many forms and is important to any relationship.
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Old 02-05-2013, 11:34 AM   #707
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Old 02-10-2013, 02:04 AM   #708
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I love the idea of being taken forcefully by a trusted lover. Tied or restrained is such a turn on.
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Old 02-23-2013, 01:07 PM   #709
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I NEED TAKING NOW

sorry.

The trusted partner thing is right, the fact that I trust him so is what makes it so delicious! You can relax. Revel in it.

I've not had any for like, *two weeks*

So I hope he is hard when he gets home. And if not then, then sooner.
Then rough sex please!
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Old 02-25-2013, 12:15 AM   #710
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If I could have the kind of sex I really wanted each time I engaged in it, it would be 8/10 times a raw, aggressive, teeth clenching FUCK, where he'd better make sure he was certain his hold on me was going to last, or tie me up/down/side to side because I'm going to fight. Hard. And not because I want him to stop, but because I get off on being bested.

Unfortunately, this kind of stuff just isn't always doable in a house with 2 kids.
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Old 02-26-2013, 09:49 AM   #711
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I've always enjoyed being "forced" to submit and rough sex. I have no abuse in my background. Instead, I was raised to be polite, prim and proper. As a teen, my parents wanted me to stay away from the "slutty" girls. Frankly, those girls appeared to be having a lot of fun!

Today, I think that being forced removes the responsibility for being naughty. Sure, I did those nasty (delicious) things.. but I had no choice. He made me do it. YUMMMMMY.
I absolutely love it when women prove yet in another way, they are far hotter than porn or lit stories.
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Old 02-27-2013, 10:37 AM   #712
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I'm definitely a girl who likes to be taken forcefully. Without going into details, from the moment my partner gets more rough with me, it's as if he's flicked a switch in my brain and my excitement increases tenfold. Although its not just the fact that I get enjoyment out of him being rough with me, there is also me knowing that he enjoys taking me like that and exerting his control over me. That feeds my compliance to do what he wants and to let him take me as he wants.
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Old 03-01-2013, 10:12 AM   #713
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If I could have the kind of sex I really wanted each time I engaged in it, it would be 8/10 times a raw, aggressive, teeth clenching FUCK, where he'd better make sure he was certain his hold on me was going to last, or tie me up/down/side to side because I'm going to fight. Hard. And not because I want him to stop, but because I get off on being bested.

Unfortunately, this kind of stuff just isn't always doable in a house with 2 kids.



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Old 03-02-2013, 09:07 AM   #714
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I forgot I posted to this.
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Old 03-03-2013, 05:38 AM   #715
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Being taken forcefully is one of the only ways I truly get off. I love it when my husband holds my wrists above my head with one hand and then can do what he wants with his other. Because I know he wont ever really hurt me (and even if he did it would be an accident and we'd stop), I find the whole thing incredibly freeing as it allows me to just focus on the sensations I'm feeling.
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Old 03-03-2013, 01:27 PM   #716
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I am a slave, and my Master often rapes me without the slightest warning. He likes to penetrate me while I sleep, for example, and to bend me over the sink when I am doing the dishes. I never know when he is going to do it, or how, and it is wonderful.
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Old 03-05-2013, 07:15 PM   #717
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Cool Sometimes;)

Sometimes my partner will get a little aggressive, or dominant and I love it when he does. although its a fetish of mine to be taken forcefully; He will only go so far because of personal reasons, which is understandable. But I love him no matter what!
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Old 03-05-2013, 07:19 PM   #718
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I've never been taken like this, but I do think about it and once a man kissed me while holding my throat in his hand and I found it to be one of the most erotic things ever. Maybe if I'm lucky, someday I will know first hand what it's like.
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Old 03-09-2013, 12:32 AM   #719
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The primal aspect of it really turns me on. Nothing like staring at the barely noticeable marks on my breasts while attending another boring meeting at the office.
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Old 03-12-2013, 01:29 AM   #720
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So refreshing to know there are lots of other girls who feel exactly the way I do. I like nothing more than to be forced by someone I trust implicitly and my need to please outweighs everything else. When I get to that point there's virtually nothing I won't do...
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Old 03-16-2013, 02:30 PM   #721
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I long to be taken roughly... but my DH does not enjoy doing it that way to me...and honestly, it would seem strange after years of marriage for him to change. But it is a fantasy, yes...
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Old 03-26-2013, 09:52 AM   #722
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Mostly I like long, slow sensual love making, however, there are times when I just want to have him fuck me hard and rough, talk dirty to me and completely dominate me
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Old 03-26-2013, 04:33 PM   #723
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Mostly I like long, slow sensual love making, however, there are times when I just want to have him fuck me hard and rough, talk dirty to me and completely dominate me
That does raise another question though. How do you communicate this to your partner without killing the mood or what do think triggers these times?

I used to have a girlfriend who started out very much rough sex, but after time she just wanted me to "make love" to her. So I did. She got rid of the nipple clamps and the restraints and we entered some strange vanilla half way house.

Then we broke up and years later she told me I had lost the edge and I was too gentle with her! Go figure.
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Old 03-29-2013, 12:45 PM   #724
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love being ramfucked up the ass 1st thing in the morning...hard wood rubbing against me from behind...then BAM! Jammin' it into me! Feels sooooooooooooooooo gooooooooooooooooooood!
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Old 03-29-2013, 06:39 PM   #725
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love being ramfucked up the ass 1st thing in the morning...hard wood rubbing against me from behind...then BAM! Jammin' it into me! Feels sooooooooooooooooo gooooooooooooooooooood!
What a great way to start the day...!!!
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