Oh! Must find time to read this thread.
Just dropping by to say:
Yeah *raises hand* here's another one.
And to drop a book: My gender workbook - Kate Bornstein.
For me, this thing is difficult and interesting. It's a weird mix of arousal and belonging. And sometimes it switches back to girly, which is even weirder. I don't have dysphoria, though, I don't dislike my genitals or tits.
A while ago, I found some people who see me as 'he'. I visit them once in a while. It's incredibly addictive. Last weekend, I was at a queer party where a dude bought me a beer. I was so surprised. Turned out, he was gay. Then I was even more surprised...