Married Women Who Fantasize About Girls

[Dyslexicea]

Originally Posted by Vicky76

Because, like me, Mandy is married. She is bi, she has a desire for another woman's company, but she is also considerate to her husband and his sensibilities. It is dilemma faced by married bi women. I am fortunate in that my husband does understand this, but it does not apply to everyone.

Ouch! I'm such a bad girl. Lay me over your lap and spank me. Please!

From your post it doesn't seem to me you had his permission. Approval after the fact is not permission.

I revised this because I wasn't really truthful. The truth is any woman who surrenders her free will to some man's sensibilities is, at least in my opinion, nuts!

[Vicky76]

Originally Posted by Dyslexicea

Ouch! I'm such a bad girl. Lay me over your lap and spank me. Please!

From your post it doesn't seem to me you had his permission. Approval after the fact is not permission.

I'm also married, shocking as that may seem to you, we are equal, so I suppose your right I surely wouldn't approve of my wife being with a man, but she been there and done that. So I wouldn't be denying her an experience she felt she needed.

If on the other hand she was Gold Star and had never been with a man and had a strong desire to know what that was like, I don't think I would have the right to dictate to her by saying she couldn't.

Would it make my life complicated, of course it would, being I'm lesbian I'm not sure how I'd handle the fear of her becoming emotionally involved with a man. I would express my feelings and fears to her but I don't feel I have the right to make her decisions for her.

Further if her desire was so strong that she needed to be on the internet chatting and cybering, I wouldn't express any reservation at all. I don't want her in bed with me thinking about what it would be like if I was a guy. Which so many women in hetero relationship do, they think about a woman when they are with their man.

Your assertion in your second sentence negatives everything else you say for me; I'm not interested. If you are what being a 'lesbian' is, I'm glad I am bi.

[mandyreeree]

Originally Posted by Dyslexicea

Your here, you desire sex with another woman, chat isn't sex, to me it's rather boring. So you intend to live your life unfulfilled because you need his permission. Why?

I love my husband..& right now I'm just satisfying a curiosity sex can be just as much mental as physical...so this is working for me at the moment. Would I ever physically be with.a woman given the chance?? I don't even know....but it's fun to act it out isn't that part of what this forum is for? at the very least I'm having a good time exploring

[MrsCCfromRC]

Good morning all....

[Cdw1113]

Good morning ladies

[Dyslexicea]

Originally Posted by Vicky76

Your assertion in your second sentence negatives everything else you say for me; I'm not interested. If you are what being a 'lesbian' is, I'm glad I am bi.

I find this rather homophobic "being a 'lesbian' is", I'm a person if you don't like me because I happen to express an opinion contrary to yours dislike me. I don't know you and I'm surely not going to judge you by a couple of posts but even if I did dislike you, it would be rather stupid of me to say, If you are what being a 'bi girl' is, I'm glad I am lesbian, which by the way I am very, very happy I am. What I would never do is judge other bi girl based on a person I happen to dislike, nor would I insult a whole community of women by ever making such a statement.

Yes I do take offence by your statement, 'Because, like me, Mandy is married.' which just assumes I couldn't be because I'm a lesbian. I'm also offended by you assuming that every woman here at lit, we are not owned by our spouses, are ruled by her/'his sensibilities'.

If the assumption I made in my second sentence is wrong all you had to do was tell me I was wrong and I would have acknowledged my mistake. What I did not do was say anything 'For You' I just read what you posted. I was not making any judgments about you it matters little to me if you had your husband's permission or not, you did what you felt was right for you.

Regardless of all the rest I am happy for you, it's seem like you may just have found the perfect relationship for a bi woman. Best friends and lovers.

[Dyslexicea]

Originally Posted by mandyreeree

I love my husband..& right now I'm just satisfying a curiosity sex can be just as much mental as physical...so this is working for me at the moment. Would I ever physically be with.a woman given the chance?? I don't even know....but it's fun to act it out isn't that part of what this forum is for? at the very least I'm having a good time exploring

Happy exploring. Hope you have some very delicious encounters.

[MrSneakyinPA]

My wife was with a girl before we met. Just a one time experience, sadly. I'd sure like her to do it again!

[Scarlett_69]

Originally Posted by Vicky76

Because, like me, Mandy is married. She is bi, she has a desire for another woman's company, but she is also considerate to her husband and his sensibilities. It is dilemma faced by married bi women. I am fortunate in that my husband does understand this, but it does not apply to everyone.

I am married and bi, and my husband fully understands and has given me permission to play with other women if an opportunity arises.....I am very lucky to have such a supportive hubby....

[clio711]

Originally Posted by Vicky76

Your assertion in your second sentence negatives everything else you say for me; I'm not interested. If you are what being a 'lesbian' is, I'm glad I am bi.

As a lesbian, I have to say I'm a bit confused and curious by what you meant when you said "if you are what being a lesbian is, I'm glad I'm bi."

[flanneland]

I've heard of married women going with younger girls. Some guys told me they got their wives into it. One dude's wife was very resistant for many years, now she cant stop. Had this been the case with many of you?

[KinkyKath]

I think I am fortunate in that I "broke the barrier" and had sex with another female when I was 15, before beimng overly exposed to the concept that such is immoral and bad and so forth. No big trauma either: my best friend (also 15 I had known her seemingly all my life) slept over at my house on a Friday night. We did not bother to put on PJ's affer showering, just hunkered down on the bed naked and began talking about sex and what it would be like to "do it" with a boy...

We agreed it would probably be fun, but not unil the Right Guy came along for each of us. She giggled and said, "Well, while we are waiting, we can always do this," and began fondling her pussy, obviously not giving a dang that she was doing it right before my eyes!

I laughed and said, "Well, since you put it that way..." and my hand went to my pussy and I stroked away. when I got close to climax, I said, "Tell you what -- I will do something for you if you will do it for me...." I did not wait for an answer. I simply moved my hand to her groin and my fingers snuck around behind her hand (she was still jilling off) and rubbed her pussy. She came right back at me, shoving my hand off my pussy so that she could have it to herself.....

No, we did not get around to oral sex that night, although we admited to one another later that we thought about it. That did not happen for several more weeks, and doing so was by an unspoken joint mutual decision.

Once I broke the barrier, I continued having sex with other females through college and beyond (and doing my share of good old-fashioned fucking as well). When Hal and I started talking about marriage, I told him that I had been with other women sexually. The revelaton did not bother him at all. He asked only, "Well, when we get marrried, don't leave me for anoehr woman!"

In our foursomes, he has seen me sharing cunnilingus with other women many times, and he is OK with it. Some men aren't as understanding. They might fantasize about how great it would be to see their wife eating pussy, but the reality of the scene bothers them.

I have a number of friends in my age range (I am 40) both married and unmarried who fantasize about bi sex play, and I always make plain that their desires do not bother me, and if they ever decide they want to try it.....I do not keep a count, but I estimate that at least half took me up on my implied offer. And once they did, they were happy with it!

So, if you are looking for a way to "try it," do this: when you are changing clothes at your health club, show some flesh -- do not hide behind your locker door when you take off your tights -- and look for the woman who "flashes back." Business requires me to travel alone at least once a month, and I have learned that health clubs -- and especially in hotels -- are a happy hunting ground for pussy.

Enough. if you are curious enough about bi sex to be on this board, your decision has already been made. So go ahead and do it!

Kath

[julius_1975ct]

before we were married my wife dated men, but only had sex with women. Her first sexual experience was with her f cousin. We are totally open, she is allowed to explore her sexuality in anyway she likes, with other men or women. She hasnt taken me up on this, but she only likes to watch lesbian (especially trib) porn. She desires women, but is afraid to try looking for one.

[julius_1975ct]

[help_me_Rhonda]

Originally Posted by KinkyKath

I think I am fortunate in that I "broke the barrier" and had sex with another female when I was 15, before beimng overly exposed to the concept that such is immoral and bad and so forth. No big trauma either: my best friend (also 15 I had known her seemingly all my life) slept over at my house on a Friday night. We did not bother to put on PJ's affer showering, just hunkered down on the bed naked and began talking about sex and what it would be like to "do it" with a boy...

We agreed it would probably be fun, but not unil the Right Guy came along for each of us. She giggled and said, "Well, while we are waiting, we can always do this," and began fondling her pussy, obviously not giving a dang that she was doing it right before my eyes!

I laughed and said, "Well, since you put it that way..." and my hand went to my pussy and I stroked away. when I got close to climax, I said, "Tell you what -- I will do something for you if you will do it for me...." I did not wait for an answer. I simply moved my hand to her groin and my fingers snuck around behind her hand (she was still jilling off) and rubbed her pussy. She came right back at me, shoving my hand off my pussy so that she could have it to herself.....

No, we did not get around to oral sex that night, although we admited to one another later that we thought about it. That did not happen for several more weeks, and doing so was by an unspoken joint mutual decision.

Once I broke the barrier, I continued having sex with other females through college and beyond (and doing my share of good old-fashioned fucking as well). When Hal and I started talking about marriage, I told him that I had been with other women sexually. The revelaton did not bother him at all. He asked only, "Well, when we get marrried, don't leave me for anoehr woman!"

In our foursomes, he has seen me sharing cunnilingus with other women many times, and he is OK with it. Some men aren't as understanding. They might fantasize about how great it would be to see their wife eating pussy, but the reality of the scene bothers them.

I have a number of friends in my age range (I am 40) both married and unmarried who fantasize about bi sex play, and I always make plain that their desires do not bother me, and if they ever decide they want to try it.....I do not keep a count, but I estimate that at least half took me up on my implied offer. And once they did, they were happy with it!

So, if you are looking for a way to "try it," do this: when you are changing clothes at your health club, show some flesh -- do not hide behind your locker door when you take off your tights -- and look for the woman who "flashes back." Business requires me to travel alone at least once a month, and I have learned that health clubs -- and especially in hotels -- are a happy hunting ground for pussy.

Enough. if you are curious enough about bi sex to be on this board, your decision has already been made. So go ahead and do it!

Kath

nice post, Kath

[legally_b10nde]

Good morning!

[hrad89]

23 married bi f. I've been with women before and absolutely love it. I want to be with more women, but they are had to find in Upstate New York.

[dee11mee]

how is everyone today? 42 MWF here...bored. hubby out watching sports.

[Nataliefun41]

Fantasizes but never done anything about it.

[Deepsexykisses]

Fantasize daily

[Cdw1113]

My number one fantasy

[screamer4u]

I'm looking for someone to play with and this will be a first time for me. Wanna experience lucki g a woman and being licked by one. Feeling the soft and sensual connection. I'm from sc, if anyone is nearby.

[2wet4words]

Originally Posted by Vicky76

I recently went on a two night 'girls' stay in London for pre-Christmas shopping as part of an organized group from my local health club. We were booked in to an hotel where we were allocated twin rooms, but they ran out of twins and a few of us were asked if we would be willing to share a double bed in lieu of the twin. My best friend and I agreed to share a double bed room, which was fine, we know each other well, but on the first night we found ourselves cuddling uo together, which led to a kiss, and then another. The light was out and it just seemed easier to continue and our exploring got more intimate. That night we shared love-making for the first time, and the next night we did it again. When we talked about it, we confessed to each other that we had been curious about this before but never dared venture into it, Strangely, there was no embarrassment between us. I confessed to my husband what had happened, and he was understanding and even encouraging and says that I should continue, as long as I keep it discreet. I now feel ready to explore this further and this close intimacy has awoken my feelings and my sex life, not just with my husband but with my best friend as well. I know that for some, this is a fantasy wish, and many women have shared this, but now I have crossed the line and fantasy has become reality I feel so free and happy and secure because I do not have to hide my feelings from my husband.

I started this thread just because of having experienced an incident like this and then realizing how common the urge exactly is. I guess there was a little bit of a feminist element in it: ladies, it's natural, it isn't wrong, enjoy yourselves, so many of us feel it.

I am now happily married and deeply in love with my husband but I still feel the need for a warm female body, soft lips, and a touch that mirrors my own. I haven't been on Lit for awhile other than to pick up emails from a friend I met here. When I read the above post, I was excited and happy.

[vintagelady]

Just wanted to bump one of my favourite threads. Happily married with a child, but that doesn't stop me from craving other women.

[Jade_Staff]

Thanks for this wonderful thread...my wife also fantasizes about other women, and it arouses me greatly. I love how giddy and excited she gets when she has a crush on one of her girlfriends. I think this is pretty much every guys fantasy, so it is hard for me to imagine a husband not supporting (and encouraging) his wife to play in this way. The only downside that I would see if is she did it behind my back. That, I suppose would feel like cheating. Instead, I imaging that her describing (in detail) each of her sexy encounters with her girlfriends when she gets home would only lead to hotter and more intense sex between the two of us.