Stupid(?) Question

[berk12345]

This feels like a stupid question to be asking. My wife orgasms from intercourse virtually every time. She like variations of missionary because I curve up and hit her g-spot when we have sex that way. I'm fine doing it like that. We've always had sex down at the foot of the bed so that I could push off with my feet on the foot board. For some reason, she is starting to say that position makes her feel too curled up when she pulls her legs up in the air like she likes. Okay...don't know why that is a new thing, but I aim to please. So we tried having sex at the other end of the bed and in the middle of the bed. I feel like I can't get any leverage to push into her because my legs keep sliding out from under me. She like me laying on top of her, so kneeling up isn't an option. I tried holding onto the edge of the mattress. She seemed to be okay with that, but my hands were killing me by the time it was over and it still felt like I couldn't get as deep. How do people stay in one spot while having sex? Any other positions that people like for a cock that curves upward?

[blackleggings]

I want advice from your wife! She gets an orgasm every time just from missionary? I'm jealous.

I understand that it could be uncomfortable for her to try new positions, but I'd keep experimenting to see what fits and feels right. I haven't heard of too many people that usually stay in one position each and every time they have sex, but I also do not have too much experience with curvy men.

I don't know if I'm contributing to this thread. I wish I had actual ideas for you. I would just try things outside the bedroom, off the bed, in other rooms, etc. See if the location may add ideas to the types of positions you'd like to try.

[berk12345]

Originally Posted by blackleggings

I want advice from your wife! She gets an orgasm every time just from missionary? I'm jealous.

I understand that it could be uncomfortable for her to try new positions, but I'd keep experimenting to see what fits and feels right. I haven't heard of too many people that usually stay in one position each and every time they have sex, but I also do not have too much experience with curvy men.

I don't know if I'm contributing to this thread. I wish I had actual ideas for you. I would just try things outside the bedroom, off the bed, in other rooms, etc. See if the location may add ideas to the types of positions you'd like to try.

I'm not complaining at all, but we really are probably 75% in some variation of missionary. That is just how her gspot gets hit. Other spots might hit her clit, but she doesn't find those orgasms to be as powerful. And something like doggy style style doesn't do anything because nothing is getting hit. We're open to trying new stuff, but if we could improve the good old missionary, life would get that much better.

[Aphroditiac]

Get her to slide her bum to the edge of the bed, and you stand on the floor beside the bed. If you want her higher, put some pillows under her bum.

You should get plenty of leverage and control.

[fgarvb1]

Look into sex furniture. Might want to find and try out a half or better yet a full motion water bed, old style.

[BertrandRussell]

Hi Berk,

I, like you, curve upward. I'm about 15 degrees of curve. My wife is like yours: she always comes multiple times in missionary position if I thrust the right way.

I suggest the following. It is hard at first unless you are in shape, but it works for me.

First, forget about thrusting with your legs. Use your abdominal muscles.

Change your position: Move your knees outward so that your groin is lower. Keep most of your weight on your arms, and keep them straight. Move your hands back closer to your knees, so that you are almost falling forward. Grab a handful of sheet so that your hands don't slide back too far.

Thrust by rotating your hips. The motion of thrusting up into her will keep you from falling forward. If she wants it harder/faster - and she will! - move your hands back even closer to your knees so that you are falling foward, and use more vigorous upward thrusts to counterbalance that.

BTW, this requires that you have fitted bottom sheet, not a flat sheet. Otherwise the sheet slides and you fall forward.

Lets me know how it goes.

BR

[BertrandRussell]

Originally Posted by blackleggings

... She gets an orgasm every time just from missionary? I'm jealous...
... I also do not have too much experience with curvy men...

I think the latter part of your post explains the former.

[Domesticity]

Originally Posted by berk12345

This feels like a stupid question to be asking. My wife orgasms from intercourse virtually every time. She like variations of missionary because I curve up and hit her g-spot when we have sex that way. I'm fine doing it like that. We've always had sex down at the foot of the bed so that I could push off with my feet on the foot board. For some reason, she is starting to say that position makes her feel too curled up when she pulls her legs up in the air like she likes. Okay...don't know why that is a new thing, but I aim to please. So we tried having sex at the other end of the bed and in the middle of the bed. I feel like I can't get any leverage to push into her because my legs keep sliding out from under me. She like me laying on top of her, so kneeling up isn't an option. I tried holding onto the edge of the mattress. She seemed to be okay with that, but my hands were killing me by the time it was over and it still felt like I couldn't get as deep. How do people stay in one spot while having sex? Any other positions that people like for a cock that curves upward?

I'm so sorry but I'm cracking up imagining you holding on to the bed, trying to cum while your poor fingers were in enormous pain.

What kind of sheets do you have? I think flannel might help you get some traction.

You might have to have her move to the edge of the bed while yu stand up In front of her.

[SkylarFalling]

Originally Posted by Domesticity

I'm so sorry but I'm cracking up imagining you holding on to the bed, trying to cum while your poor fingers were in enormous pain.

xD me too.

Anyway, I actually came here to be helpful in the first place. My guy often gets on his hands and toes like you do for press ups and thrusts from there. I don't know how the hell he does it, 'cause it must be reeeeeally tiring, but I do know that a) he goes deeeeep and b) he stays in one place

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

People have too much sex is the problem. Too much is too often. Shit! People put the crack pipe down once their fund of responsive neurotransmitters are depleted. Sex is no different.

[NaughtyIsNice]

How about the cowgirl position? I once dated a "curvy" guy, and WOW - was that smokin'. Try different variations of sliding, grinding, etc. till you find the one that hits just right.