Women- Don't You Want a Real Man to Take Control?

[useyou]

It's been two years since I have been here. After a series of women, some awesome and some just plain fucking boring or having other issues, I needed to take a break. However I am back because some of the women not only are sexy but have a brain and I enjoy that.

So this is what I am looking for:
1) Must be over 25 (no exceptions).
2) Must be reasonable fit, a few pounds overweight is no problem.
3) Must have toys and like to masturbate often.
4) Must email me every day. (sounds demanding but I like to keep the flow going...ehem)
5) Must be able to write normally and fairly well. (no u r idk etc)
6) Must have an imagination and willing to try new things.

This is what you will receive from me:
1) You will be controlled sexually
2) You will learn new ways to masturbate
3) You are guaranteed to soak your panties often

I have lots of common sense, and if you open up (I'm referring to speaking your mind) this could be fun for you. I have a lot of experience, in BDSM both online and real and have an extreme amount of common sense and smarts.

If interested I want you to respond by pm (not in this thread) to the six statements above and tell me why you would be a good person for me to give my time to. I expect a well written response.

To arrogant men.....don't bother writing on my thread. I know a lot of you are jealous of me and feel the need to try to pull me down from the top, but seriously don't waste your time, it won't happen. Go bother someone in your own peewee league.

I will answer all pm's,

[useyou]

I got a few bites, but no one met the challenge.

The first bite was 20 years old, I clearly said "must be at least 25" in my post.

The second bite was a heffer, I'm not talking 20 lbs overweight.

The third bite, well she had a major attitude, obviously a man-hater. Oh well, sucks for her.

Ladies read my post carefully, if you don't meet the qualifications, don't message me. I do respond to every message, however when you don't qualify it just wastes time for both you and me.

I'm beginning to wonder if the smart and sexy women have all left Lit as I have had met some awesome women from here in the past. Are we just left with the misfits? Has Lit become Misfit Island? Prove that thought wrong and hopefully be that intelligent woman who messages me.

[1sickbastard]

Maybe they are all already attached.

But good for you to sticking to your standards.

Best of luck!

[useyou]

Originally Posted by 1sickbastard

Maybe they are all already attached.

But good for you to sticking to your standards.

Best of luck!

Thanks for the "best of luck", luck is always a factor.

Actually yesterday I received two responses from women that potentially qualify. I have not accepted yet, I am still in the asking questions phase which often times is when I eliminate them. Yes I have high standards and rather have no one than the wrong woman.

I am still opened to responses from potential candidates and will be until I officially pick a woman to control.

[useyou]

After getting seven responses, and only two really qualifying, there was a series of emails exchanged for a few days. However one decided she couldn't handle it, I thought I had a qualified applicant and was a fraction away from accepting her, however I believe hubby guilt got in the way.

I hate time wasters who suddenly get the syndrome, "But I'm married so I just can't" This after several long emails by each of us. These bitches think I have nothing better to do then email a confused person. Get your act together. Read the requirements I spelled out! I'm a busy man!

On the second qualified applicant, she did a few sexual masturbation assignments and was totally turned on, basically blowing her mind, with photos to prove it. Last I heard from her was 3 days ago, and remember I insist on at least one email per day, preferably many more, so that is a deal killer.

I believe she got the syndrome "I'm online so I can be fucking rude so I will just disappear even though I have been emailing long detailed emails for 10 days straight and had orgasms that blew my mind, but now I need more"

It's actually a common syndrome, annoying as hell but common.

So there you have it and so I'm back looking for a stable, sexy and open to being sexually controlled woman.

Here are a few more requirements (yes the loser bitches make it harder for the ones that follow):
1) No drama allowed
2) Make sure you have your act together before you waste my time as I have a good job and cannot waste my valuable time on bullshit.
3) This is about controlling you sexually, I'm not here for anything but that. Although in the past long term friendships have developed. But the focus is on sex and blowing your mind through my assigned tasks.

[Lord_Kallorian]

Maybe after talking to you, they learned you're not a real man and just a lil boy that doesn't care about anything else..

[tittysloan]

Not sure if you will be still looking. I am a schoolteacher, 33, divorced, no kids, intelligent, interested in online "Grooming".

If we could discuss....

tittysloan

[StripperSlutWife]

Everyone you interact with seems to come down with a "syndrome" of some kind.

Ever think maybe it's you?

[useyou]

Originally Posted by tittysloan

Not sure if you will be still looking. I am a schoolteacher, 33, divorced, no kids, intelligent, interested in online "Grooming".

If we could discuss....

tittysloan

You need to reread my first post and respond to all that I wrote by pm as requested.

[useyou]

Originally Posted by StripperSlutWife

Everyone you interact with seems to come down with a "syndrome" of some kind.

Ever think maybe it's you?

Actually no, because I have had a few amazing women in the past whereby the relationship lasted for years. They were awesome people and truly awesome people are not easy to find.

[useyou]

Originally Posted by Lord_Kallorian

Maybe after talking to you, they learned you're not a real man and just a lil boy that doesn't care about anything else..

"Lord" Kallorian, you obviously have difficulty reading. In my first post I clearly spelled out the following:

"To arrogant men.....don't bother writing on my thread. I know a lot of you are jealous of me and feel the need to try to pull me down from the top, but seriously don't waste your time, it won't happen. Go bother someone in your own peewee league."

[Jewdles]

The fact that some women choose not to reply to your request doesn't actually make them a misfit, or unintelligent. Neither does it make them 'bitches.'

Maybe they don't fit the profile of what you're looking for. Maybe they're looking for respect.

While you may in fact be a dream for the right woman, and I don't doubt that at all. You may turn out to be a nightmare to another.

J

[useyou]

Originally Posted by Jewdles

The fact that some women choose not to reply to your request doesn't actually make them a misfit, or unintelligent. Neither does it make them 'bitches.'

Maybe they don't fit the profile of what you're looking for. Maybe they're looking for respect.

While you may in fact be a dream for the right woman, and I don't doubt that at all. You may turn out to be a nightmare to another.

J

Jewdles, I believe you are referring to the part of my post where I said this;

<<<<<<"I hate time wasters who suddenly get the syndrome, "But I'm married so I just can't" This after several long emails by each of us. These bitches think I have nothing better to do then email a confused person. Get your act together. Read the requirements I spelled out! I'm a busy man!>>>>>>

So if you reread my post you will see that when I used the term "bitches" I was not referring to women who choose not to reply to my request, if it doesn't peak their curiosity, that is perfectly fine. I was referring to women with whom a series of long emails has transpired and suddenly the thought comes into their brain, 'Gee I'm fucking married so I just can no longer do this'. In other words I don't want drama, if you want to talk drama call Dr Phil, he can help you.

That's all I was saying Jewdles, believe me I have nothing against women, quite the contrary.

[Jewdles]

Fair enough, and thanks for your explanation.

Call me old fashioned, I just don't like seeing women referred to as 'bitches' by a man, not in public like that.

I consider myself smart and intelligent and certainly am no misfit, although I'm sure you'll find plenty here.

Good luck in your search.

[StripperSlutWife]

Originally Posted by useyou

After getting seven responses, and only two really qualifying, there was a series of emails exchanged for a few days. However one decided she couldn't handle it, I thought I had a qualified applicant and was a fraction away from accepting her, however I believe hubby guilt got in the way.

I hate time wasters who suddenly get the syndrome, "But I'm married so I just can't" This after several long emails by each of us. These bitches think I have nothing better to do then email a confused person. Get your act together. Read the requirements I spelled out! I'm a busy man!

Hubby guilt did not get in the way. I didn't suddenly come down with any sort of "syndrome". I made a decision.

I simply decided, after several emails back and forth, that you and I didn't have the chemistry I was looking for. Your initial task did not appeal to me, and it had become evident that you were going to demand more time than I have to spend. There is and was no confusion about that at all. I "have my act together" well enough to have recognized that you are far too condescending and misogynistic to appeal to me. I came to this conclusion after only "wasting" our time for a few days' worth of emails amounting to a handful of paragraphs each.

I was very forthcoming about my feelings and was both polite and respectful in my final email to you. If you feel the need to passive-aggresively rage about what a confused bitch you think I am, here in your own thread, that is a reflection on you and you alone.

I am a submissive, not a doormat.

If there's anything I can't stand, it's someone who tries to disguise, and even excuse, their hatred and mistrust of the opposite sex as Dominance. You could take this as a learning experience... but you won't.

[AlysaNewport]

Originally Posted by StripperSlutWife

Hubby guilt did not get in the way. I didn't suddenly come down with any sort of "syndrome". I made a decision.

I simply decided, after several emails back and forth, that you and I didn't have the chemistry I was looking for. Your initial task did not appeal to me, and it had become evident that you were going to demand more time than I have to spend. There is and was no confusion about that at all. I "have my act together" well enough to have recognized that you are far too condescending and misogynistic to appeal to me. I came to this conclusion after only "wasting" our time for a few days' worth of emails amounting to a handful of paragraphs each.

I was very forthcoming about my feelings and was both polite and respectful in my final email to you. If you feel the need to passive-aggresively rage about what a confused bitch you think I am, here in your own thread, that is a reflection on you and you alone.

I am a submissive, not a doormat.

If there's anything I can't stand, it's someone who tries to disguise, and even excuse, their hatred and mistrust of the opposite sex as Dominance. You could take this as a learning experience... but you won't.

Hey Girl dont waste your words on a worthless man like this. You are a gorgeous person whom shines in her own way. The only words you need to say to this egoistical jackoff is ... FUCK OFF!

[StripperSlutWife]

Originally Posted by AlysaNewport

Hey Girl dont waste your words on a worthless man like this. You are a gorgeous person whom shines in her own way. The only words you need to say to this egoistical jackoff is ... FUCK OFF!

Thanks, Alysa, and yes, I do have my own way, about many things.

My words weren't for him, though. They were for me.

...and for the rest of us. Knowledge is power. (And sometimes entertainment)

[Firmhanded_Daddy]

Originally Posted by StripperSlutWife

Hubby guilt did not get in the way. I didn't suddenly come down with any sort of "syndrome". I made a decision.

I simply decided, after several emails back and forth, that you and I didn't have the chemistry I was looking for. Your initial task did not appeal to me, and it had become evident that you were going to demand more time than I have to spend. There is and was no confusion about that at all. I "have my act together" well enough to have recognized that you are far too condescending and misogynistic to appeal to me. I came to this conclusion after only "wasting" our time for a few days' worth of emails amounting to a handful of paragraphs each.

I was very forthcoming about my feelings and was both polite and respectful in my final email to you. If you feel the need to passive-aggresively rage about what a confused bitch you think I am, here in your own thread, that is a reflection on you and you alone.

I am a submissive, not a doormat.

If there's anything I can't stand, it's someone who tries to disguise, and even excuse, their hatred and mistrust of the opposite sex as Dominance. You could take this as a learning experience... but you won't.

You instantly gained my respect for this. Where is the damned like button?!?

[useyou]

Originally Posted by Firmhanded_Daddy

You instantly gained my respect for this. Where is the damned like button?!?

You really need to learn to read, see my original post were it says:

<<<To arrogant men.....don't bother writing on my thread. I know a lot of you are jealous of me and feel the need to try to pull me down from the top, but seriously don't waste your time, it won't happen. Go bother someone in your own peewee league.>>>

To all males, "STAY OFF MY THREAD"

[Wyldfire]

Originally Posted by useyou

You really need to learn to read, see my original post were it says:

<<<To arrogant men.....don't bother writing on my thread. I know a lot of you are jealous of me and feel the need to try to pull me down from the top, but seriously don't waste your time, it won't happen. Go bother someone in your own peewee league.>>>

To all males, "STAY OFF MY THREAD"

Look to the women who like to masturbate with other women thread for how well that's gonna work skippy.......

[useyou]

Originally Posted by StripperSlutWife

Thanks, Alysa, and yes, I do have my own way, about many things.

My words weren't for him, though. They were for me.

...and for the rest of us. Knowledge is power. (And sometimes entertainment)

Wow, I hope you got your anger out of your system. I never mentioned your name or hinted at who you were when I wrote my post about women backing out after a string of emails. I have respect for women and would never mention anyone's name on a public board. However you felt a need to put it out there in public. Hope you feel better doing that.

You thinking I'm a woman-hater just tells me how far off base you are. I am certainly not going to defend myself to you or anyone else. There are many women from Lit that know who I am, although they tend to be the intelligent ones with common sense. By the way, others need not apply.

While I battle through responses and email exchanges from women with sudden guilt, women confused, women wanting to date and dumb women, I am just announcing that after 15 responses and several long exchanges no one has qualified. I am not giving up, I am just stating a fact that finding the right women for this has never been easy, however I still enjoy the search. Although I believe I now know why I took two years off from this.

Bottom line is applications are still being accepted and I will respond to all messages.

[Wyldfire]

Originally Posted by useyou

It's been two years since I have been here. After a series of women, some awesome and some just plain fucking boring or having other issues, I needed to take a break. However I am back because some of the women not only are sexy but have a brain and I enjoy that.

So this is what I am looking for:
1) Must be over 25 (no exceptions).

This is due to the fact that he does not want to feel old or lacking in the eyes of a woman.

Originally Posted by useyou

2) Must be reasonable fit, a few pounds overweight is no problem.

Only person allowed to be overweight here is his ego.

Originally Posted by useyou

3) Must have toys and like to masturbate often.

Because he is just into knowing a chick can satisfy herself unlike what he can do for them.

Originally Posted by useyou

4) Must email me every day. (sounds demanding but I like to keep the flow going...ehem)

Because he needs to feel special somehow.....

Originally Posted by useyou

5) Must be able to write normally and fairly well. (no u r idk etc)

Because he really feels old when you do that. Besides it adds to the mystique of his persona.

Originally Posted by useyou

6) Must have an imagination and willing to try new things.

Must be really bored to put up with this dude's ego.

Originally Posted by useyou

This is what you will receive from me:
1) You will become bored very quickly.
2) You will learn new ways to laugh at online "Doms"
3) You are guaranteed to kick me to the curb within a week.

I have lots of common sense, and if you open up (I'm referring to speaking your mind) this could be fun for you. I have a lot of experience, in BDSM both online and real and have an extreme amount of common sense and smarts.

If interested I want you to respond by pm (not in this thread) to the six statements above and tell me why you would be a good person for me to give my time to. I expect a well written response.

To arrogant men.....don't bother writing on my thread. I know a lot of you are jealous of me and feel the need to try to pull me down from the top, but seriously don't waste your time, it won't happen. Go bother someone in your own peewee league. It makes me feel less than manly to try to be this dominant.

I will answer all pm's, because I truly am that desperate and insecure

Fixed this post.

[useyou]

Originally Posted by Jewdles

The fact that some women choose not to reply to your request doesn't actually make them a misfit, or unintelligent. Neither does it make them 'bitches.'

Maybe they don't fit the profile of what you're looking for. Maybe they're looking for respect.

While you may in fact be a dream for the right woman, and I don't doubt that at all. You may turn out to be a nightmare to another.

J

Jewdles....Totally agree. I seemed to have been a nightmare to a woman on this board who decided to let out her frustrations publicly. But she isn't the first and won't be the last.

Jewdles, you are on the other hand appear to have some class....an oddity for sure in Lit.

[Wyldfire]

Originally Posted by useyou

Wow, I hope you got your anger out of your system. I never mentioned your name or hinted at who you were when I wrote my post about women backing out after a string of emails. I have respect for women and would never mention anyone's name on a public board. However you felt a need to put it out there in public. Hope you feel better doing that.

You thinking I'm a woman-hater just tells me how far off base you are. I am certainly not going to defend myself to you or anyone else. There are many women from Lit that know who I am, although they tend to be the intelligent ones with common sense. By the way, others need not apply.

While I battle through responses and email exchanges from women with sudden guilt, women confused, women wanting to date and dumb women, I am just announcing that after 15 responses and several long exchanges no one has qualified. I am not giving up, I am just stating a fact that finding the right women for this has never been easy, however I still enjoy the search. Although I believe I now know why I took two years off from this.

Bottom line is applications are still being accepted and I will respond to all messages.

Oh yay, I'm sure you'll find you the perfect one sooner or later.

[useyou]

[quote=Wyldfire;43506244]

Not sure why you have the need to rag on my post. If you don't like my thread then stay off it, don't make a lot of useless assumptions and attempt to make me look foolish. The only one looking foolish is you, as you obviously have way too much time on your hands, after all you have 30,200 posts on Lit. To use uneducated text speak, as I know you are comfortable with that................"OMFG, u need to get off your computer and get a life"

30,200...that is 580 posts a week. LOL.

At approximately 5 minutes to write each post....2,900 mins per week....or 48 hours or 3 days of your waking hours per week. LMAO. That comes to 43% of your waking hours on Lit and posting.

LOL.