The Orgasm Gap

[Handley_Page]

Originally Posted by RodenAddison

Are you a speed dater?

The things some folk can do with electricity. . . . .

[RodenAddison]

Originally Posted by Dyslexicea

If, my dear boy, you're speaking about intercourse most women aren't going to come at all but even I know positions where a man can stimulate her clit during intercourse so she can come. Of course I didn't learn those from being with a man, let's just say strap it on!

Personally, I like standing with her lying on her back with her elevated high enough that my knob hits her G-spot. Also, getting hold of the clit by squeezing the top of the vulva so it pops between my fingers while we're fucking seems to work just fine as well. Sorry. Was that too graphic?

(Where did I put that damn lightning rod!)

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by Handley_Page

The things some folk can do with electricity. . . . .

I've recently heard something about a variable-waveform TENS unit and attaching the pads to the bottom of one's feet. I'll have to see if i can find that...

Originally Posted by RodenAddison

Personally, I like standing with her lying on her back with her elevated high enough that my knob hits her G-spot. Also, getting hold of the clit by squeezing the top of the vulva so it pops between my fingers while we're fucking seems to work just fine as well. Sorry. Was that too graphic?

(Where did I put that damn lightning rod!)

Nothing is ever too graphic here. haven't you noticed?

That's a really effective technique.

If you feel the firm shaft of the clit-- above it, instead of under it-- you can 'pop' that too... Kinda treat it like the shaft of a dick, if your dick were condensed int something skinnier than a pencil-- which would be awesome-- and shoved up under the skin-- which kinda sucks, because it can be so difficult to get at.

[RodenAddison]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

If you feel the firm shaft of the clit-- above it, instead of under it-- you can 'pop' that too... Kinda treat it like the shaft of a dick, if your dick were condensed int something skinnier than a pencil-- which would be awesome-- and shoved up under the skin-- which kinda sucks, because it can be so difficult to get at.

Sometimes I get jealous of women because all the bundle of nerves is right there in that one tight spot. And the clit has that additional honour of being the only body part on either body solely for sexual fulfillment. Pretty impressive design. AND It's just so damned fun to play with.

[NaokoSmith]

Originally Posted by RodenAddison

I'm dying here. One of the funniest things I've read in a long time... but I'm not that sexy. PM please

Certainly not! And you could at least have offered me a Dom Perignon. (No jokes about doms please, I have a long morning's marking ahead of me.)

Stella I've recently heard something about a variable-waveform TENS unit and attaching the pads to the bottom of one's feet. I'll have to see if i can find that...

Gosh I had one of those when I was about to give birth, it was supposed to help me relax but we forgot to take it with us when we went in a panic-stricken rush to the hospital. If only it had occurred to me what else I could have used it for.

es for you both (chaste and very brief in your case, bad boy Roden).

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Originally Posted by ms.read

Men: your orgasm area, happens to be on the tip of your dick, or right on the underside beneath the cap called the frenulum. When you stick your dick inside the womans vagina, You get a free ride to a place called ORGASM. She is helping YOU have an orgasm by letting you stick your dick in her orifice. THE least you could do is help her too, by manually stimulatiing her during intercourse, or orally stimulating her before or after your own orgasm.

Other wise you are just using her as a masturbation toy, which is completely selfish.


I completely agree with the person who said that sex is about showing the person how much you care about them by doing whatever you can to get the other person off, as long as its a mutual understanding, which needs Communication, before and/or during the act of sex.

if you're having the conversation afterward, then you might end up finding a new partner, cuz one of you's doing it wrong.

Partial credit.

Men also orgasm in the leg muscles that attach to the pelvis. Its howcome intercourse satisfies more than a handjob.

[gentledemands]

Originally Posted by JAMESBJOHNSON

Partial credit.

Men also orgasm in the leg muscles that attach to the pelvis. Its howcome intercourse satisfies more than a handjob.

James. I may have just learned something from you. Way to go man. And here I just thought it was because I was in a pussy. Thought that's why I felt more satisfied. You know. Actually connecting with another human being. I knew that couldn't be it.

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by gentledemands

James. I may have just learned something from you. Way to go man. And here I just thought it was because I was in a pussy. Thought that's why I felt more satisfied. You know. Actually connecting with another human being. I knew that couldn't be it.

You! You win the internets. All of the internets.

[heretopraise]

It has been suggested that the difference in the average time of the two sexes reaching orgasm (it's about two and a half minutes for men, and eleven and a half for women) functioned as a mechanism to improve mate selection by women. If a man was willing to keep going for the extra time until the woman came, the theory goes, it would indicate to the woman that he was was more likely to be considerate and unselfish in other ways as well.

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by heretopraise

It has been suggested that the difference in the average time of the two sexes reaching orgasm (it's about two and a half minutes for men, and eleven and a half for women) functioned as a mechanism to improve mate selection by women. If a man was willing to keep going for the extra time until the woman came, the theory goes, it would indicate to the woman that he was was more likely to be considerate and unselfish in other ways as well.

or maybe she could tell by the way he brought the rump roast of beast back to her cookfire almost every time. And picked up the baby when it cried. And helped her drag the water skin up from the river. And bragged about the spears she charred, and her prowess at throwing them. And the gentleness with which he picked through her hair.

Sexual stamina is not so indicative of kindness and helpfulness.

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Originally Posted by heretopraise

It has been suggested that the difference in the average time of the two sexes reaching orgasm (it's about two and a half minutes for men, and eleven and a half for women) functioned as a mechanism to improve mate selection by women. If a man was willing to keep going for the extra time until the woman came, the theory goes, it would indicate to the woman that he was was more likely to be considerate and unselfish in other ways as well.

Uh, no. I clock intercourse. People dont play hokey pokey for too many minutes, on average. I timed a kid last night, 5 minutes from start to finish. That said, his girl pre-flighted him with a blowjob, and they did some touchy feely stuff afterwards. But he was Master & Commander for 5 minutes, and a youngster.

My thinking is, time works for bandits, assassins, and studs.

The other thing is: Your taste-buddies may prefer steak and chocolate, but your body prefers liver and peas. A load of semen at your front door is just the start.

[sterculius]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

or maybe she could tell by the way he brought the rump roast of beast back to her cookfire almost every time. And picked up the baby when it cried. And helped her drag the water skin up from the river. And bragged about the spears she charred, and her prowess at throwing them. And the gentleness with which he picked through her hair.

Sexual stamina is not so indicative of kindness and helpfulness.

I always try to avoid the big rocks when dragging her by her hair back to our cave, and I only beat her with the balsa wood club.

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Originally Posted by sterculius

I always try to avoid the big rocks when dragging her by her hair back to our cave, and I only beat her with the balsa wood club.

There are two kinds of women: Those who like the club, and those who prefer the club-foot.

[sr71plt]

Oh, gawd, are women going to be going back to try to redecorate the cavemen to their agendas now?

[Dyslexicea]

Originally Posted by sr71plt

Oh, gawd, are women going to be going back to try to redecorate the cavemen to their agendas now?

Aren't you all cavemen? Evolutionary rejects.

[sr71plt]

The long answer? No.

Did you know that bitterness rots your teeth?

[Dyslexicea]

Originally Posted by sr71plt

The long answer? No.

Did you know that bitterness rots your teeth?

And makes the dick limp!

[sr71plt]

Not that you would know.

You're too bright and cheery and satisfied with life for me to be interested in talking with. It might be contagious.

[Dyslexicea]

Originally Posted by sr71plt

Not that you would know.

Thank god.

[sr71plt]

Rest assured that that "thank god" most definitely goes both ways.

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by sr71plt

Oh, gawd, are women going to be going back to try to redecorate the cavemen to their agendas now?

You three or four more glasses of yellowtail Shiraz, Pilot.

And maybe some remedial education.

[sr71plt]

Yet another "happy with life and who am I and it's wonderful to be nice to everyone" sunbeam arrives.

Remedial education on what, love? We all do know that you're just the one to tell us both what we think and what we can think.

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by sr71plt

Yet another "happy with life and who am I and it's wonderful to be nice to everyone" sunbeam arrives. : )

This thread is not about you, Queenie-- and that lipstick makes your teeth look yellow.

[sr71plt]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

This thread is not about you, Queenie-- and that lipstick makes your teeth look yellow.

But . . . but you want to give me remedial education. You said so yourself. About what?

The thread isn't about either one of us, sweets. So what? And there you go with that gender bashing again. Makes you really hypocritical and nasty, which aren't two of your more endearing traits here.

[Stella_Omega]

Projection, thy name is Pilot.