Kneck bruising/bite marks

[Versatile_lady]

So...I have a little issue that I could use some kinky people's expertise on

My new man and I are into some, umm, rough play. My question is this: I bruise very easily and am also a pretty hardcore masochist and am ending up with bruises and teeth marks all over my neck from choking and biting. I have a fairly professional, constantly visible job and this is NOT acceptable (also, wearing scarves is not really an option).

Since we all know playing less rough isn't an option, any suggestions for preventing/healing faster? Concealor recommedations? It's killing the moment when I stop to think "oh, shit! That's gonna leave a mark!"

[Hosebloke]

Easy
Do it with the boss

[Versatile_lady]

Originally Posted by Hosebloke

Easy
Do it with the boss

Ha! I don't think her wife would be down for that And I'm rather enjoying the new man and his vicious teeth

[Ellafun]

Since you say that "playing less rough isn't an option," it sounds like you've already made up your mind that you're going to have to continue to deal with marks in visible places.

You need to make a choice: His teeth and hands on your neck, or your job.

Bruises take time to heal, and no concealer or make up in the world is going to speed up that process. Perhaps you and he could discuss a different biting target that could be concealed under your clothing? Your breasts? Stomach? Thighs?

addendum: You should also explain to your partner that hickeys are kinda high school.

[Sweetdaisymae]

Arnica helps a little, then the standard soft tissue injury care, cold compress, asprin. Tbh it won't knock a heck of a lot of time off the healing.