Need Help!

[mitztaken1]

I am a very new submissive. Relationship with my Dom is only part time right now. Any experienced subs willing to share pointers?

[Sir_Winston54]

The experienced folk around here could kill billions of pixels telling you everything they know and have experienced - without ever answering any of the questions you might have asked.

Try being a little more specific about

• The nature of your submissiveness?
• Part-time relationship, okay - r/l or o/l?
• Is there a service component, sado-maso component, b&d component, or some combination of the above and/or other components?
• What questions do you *have* about D/s relationships?

I'll leave it to others to suggest other areas of questions; after all, I'm neither Dom nor sub, but a sadist, so I'm probably one of the worst folks here to ask questions regarding D/s.

[Stella_Omega]

We have so many women coming here saying they are 'new submissives' and, forgive me-- many of them are not actually submissive at all. Which is NOT a bad thing, just something that needs to be understood.

So I always ask people to read the essay linked in my sig. It might apply to you, in one way or another-- in any case we will be maybe more on the same page with the terminology, and the terminology delineates the advice you need.