Size of a new sex toy

[Ramrod325]

I'm a average male, 6" and 1-1/2" wide to be exact. I get really turned on by the thought of my girl being filled with a realistic dong 2 to 2-1/2" in girth and at least 9" long. I kind of worry about buying a new toy that fills her up completely and her not want me any more. I know after the toy fills her up, she won't get as much pleasure from me right after. What would be the widest and longest recommended?

[Ramrod325]

Bump for help

[djyak]

I'd say talk to her. She's the only one to know that. My dildo is close to my hubby's cock size, so no problems there.

Tif

[Lust Engine]

Originally Posted by Ramrod325

I'm a average male, 6" and 1-1/2" wide to be exact. I get really turned on by the thought of my girl being filled with a realistic dong 2 to 2-1/2" in girth and at least 9" long. I kind of worry about buying a new toy that fills her up completely and her not want me any more. I know after the toy fills her up, she won't get as much pleasure from me right after. What would be the widest and longest recommended?

If you're worried that she might find something larger than you in a toy, she's got plenty of options out there. Now if you're worried about something better than you, I'd say you've got deeper problems.

But I agree with djyak wholeheartedly- ask. Talk to her. It's her body and she'll know what she's going to feel comfortable with.

[Ramrod325]

Originally Posted by Lust Engine

If you're worried that she might find something larger than you in a toy, she's got plenty of options out there. Now if you're worried about something better than you, I'd say you've got deeper problems.

But I agree with djyak wholeheartedly- ask. Talk to her. It's her body and she'll know what she's going to feel comfortable with.

Sounds like your experienced first hand with this issue?

[Ramrod325]

Originally Posted by djyak

I'd say talk to her. She's the only one to know that. My dildo is close to my hubby's cock size, so no problems there.

Tif

Great advise. She's totally happy with me and I get the job done well. It's the fantasy of seeing her stretched open and to see how she reacts is a major turn on. I've looked on line at a few toys and I'm considering buying her one for valentines day.

[1Browneyedguy]

told me about ths " vibrator" looked like a mans erection...

As it got hot ( in her ) it got harder !! Run cold water on it and it shrunk.

I think it was called the PHOENIX

[Stella_Omega]

Get her an inflatable dildo!

[creampieluvr79]

Originally Posted by Lust Engine

If you're worried that she might find something larger than you in a toy, she's got plenty of options out there. Now if you're worried about something better than you, I'd say you've got deeper problems.

But I agree with djyak wholeheartedly- ask. Talk to her. It's her body and she'll know what she's going to feel comfortable with.

I have to agree with Lust Engine, there is a difference between a toy that is larger vs. better than you.

The earlier dildos and vibrators my wife had were around the same size as me and as with you, it was me that was interested in getting her a dildo that is larger overall than I am, in both length and girth. I spoke to her about the desire to see her take something that is larger than I am. She was honestly surprised and was reluctant, afraid that I would get upset if she enjoyed it "too" much. We bought a realistic 7" Dildo and when using it together with the Hitachi Magic Wand, to say that she enjoyed it would be a massive understatement!

When that 7" Dildo started to split, we replaced it with an Feeldoe which has a 7" insertable length (which is now used on me on occasion) and we have since upgraded to a "Feeldoe More" with an 8" insertable length to use on my wife which she loves and I love to use on her. The "bulb" on the other end makes a great handle too.

With the 8" feeldoe we really have to get her good and ready for it or it can be uncomfortable. We still use some more "regular" or "average" size dildos too as she doesn't always want the larger sizes.

My wife has already said that she doesn't want to go any larger than the 8" dildo because of the mild discomfort if she's not ready for it, and some lingering discomfort later sometimes afterward even if she was good and ready. I've read similar sentiments from some women on Lit who find that dildos over a certain size are just more uncomfortable than erotic, so don't be too upset if "your girl" doesn't feel she's ready or even interested to try to take a 9-incher.

Also, hopefully to help ease your fears, I've found that with my wife that it is hardly a replacement but is a great way to augment our sex life, so that "we" can keep going for her even if I can't or just need some time to "recharge"!

Anyway, best of luck!

[shaneo1]

Originally Posted by Ramrod325

I'm a average male, 6" and 1-1/2" wide to be exact. I get really turned on by the thought of my girl being filled with a realistic dong 2 to 2-1/2" in girth and at least 9" long. I kind of worry about buying a new toy that fills her up completely and her not want me any more. I know after the toy fills her up, she won't get as much pleasure from me right after. What would be the widest and longest recommended?

my wife has many different sized toys. the biggest being 10inch long and 3 inch dia. we dont use it all the time just every know and then. she takes it all the way and when she is worked up fast deep long strokes. i love it and so does she. after she has squirted i then fuck her hard and fast. it feels so good just like she has just been gang banged. i wouldn't worry as my wife still gets off again. but hey every women are different.

when choosing a guy to join us for a mfm he has to be no smaller than 6.5. i'm 7 . i have shared her with heaps of guys 8 and one 9.5. she still got off with me fucking her afterwards and the next day.

dont worry to much bud if you are liking the thought just do it..

[Ramrod325]

Thanks for the great advise. I ordered a 8" long x 2" dia last night. ( Power stud vibe from adam and eve #M525 ) She knows there's a new toy coming but she doesn't what. She has recently asked for me to tie her up and blind fold her to our bed one night. I might be able to get her really worked up and excited then pull it out. Thanks again.

[Lust Engine]

Originally Posted by Ramrod325

Sounds like your experienced first hand with this issue?

Simply we talked about what she would like. It was simple open communication. Nothing can replace the human element no matter how one tries. No amount of silicone, latex, glass or other toy is going to replace the emotional depth that one has with a trusted loved one.

[Ramrod325]

Well the toy made it and we have used it a few times. I can say honestly that she loves it. It's not as big as the web site showed but it's fun to use. Thanks again for the advise.