where are the fun, outgoing women who aren't afraid to play

So hi there...I'm looking for an intelligent, playful, open-minded woman,interested in talking on the phone and/or Skype potentially on a regular basis if we happen to connect. It's not just about sex,I'd like to find someone I can really talk to that stimulates me mentally as well as other ways. Someone to vent to after a long stressful day. Someone to just relax at the end of the day and climb in bed and talk to about anything at all. There will obviously be playing involved (maybe pictures and camming if the person is comfy with it), I love pleasing and making a woman feel good and im very good at it, but thats not all im wanting so if you're interested message me and I can call tonight and we can talk.... Don't be shy