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01-21-2013, 08:25 PM
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#10576
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Virgin
Bunnehboo is offline
Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: Central Cali
Posts: 2
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New Girl in these parts
Hi! I'm new (Obviously) I joined a bit ago and read around but didn't get up and post things. Might as well get off my rear!
I'm 20, female, 5'2, curvy build from California and I guess I fit into the sub category. I've always been submissive with women and loved when they took control. There is something that calls to me about being wanted so deeply that they can't keep their hands off you. I always have identified as a lesbian but have found lately that while I'm emotionally exclusively attracted to women, men get the sub in me excited.
I recently experimented with a master slave situation and I couldn't believe how wet I got. I loved being down on my knees and having him control me as a tool for his own pleasure, but I didn't trust him enough to let go completely so our sexual relationship fizzled. I wanted him to control me like a slut and he wanted to tend to me emotionally. I wanted to be his pet and property but he wanted to have my entire being.
I guess I can say I'm not sure what I want since I'm early on in my discovery.
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01-26-2013, 08:46 PM
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Virgin
lux86 is offline
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 1
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Just read Culture Shock by Sir_Nathan
I am:
27, Filipino, Female and short.
Working professional in healthcare and happy to be.
submissive, but I don't feel this title is an accurate description. But I do highly prefer submitting. I thrive in this role.
I am currently in a relationship that began as a D/s relationship. O/our anniversary is on Valentine's Day. I received my collar then. Happiest day of my life. I am afraid the last time I had a scene with my significant Other has been more than 2 years....
I don't know what happened. I think work on both our parts? I try to initiate(I hate initiating, but I am working at this relationship) and discuss my feelings but he accuses me of "pushing" him, or of giving him a hard time because he is tired. I also have a very high sex drive - and I feel neglected if it is not part of my aftercare.
I am on the forums to read other experiences, and to receive advice for my own personal growth. I am also in the cusp of making difficult decisions about my relationship and my role as a submissive in my private life.
Looking forward to getting to know everyone for friendship.
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01-30-2013, 11:28 PM
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Experienced
babylondementia is offline
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: the rabbithole under cemetary hill.
Posts: 96
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hi
I am Babylon, I have been married for 15 years, I am an infinitely curious and experimental goth girl, but my inability to get out and about has left me to be a ghost in the machine. I'm creeping out into this place with my written works and chat because If nothing else my imagination needs to get out more since the rest of me is a neglected housewife.
Think Victorian and you'll be in my neighborhood. I like to sub to men, I love 3somes and role playing. I like to top girls also.
I cant really think of much to say. so just hi
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01-31-2013, 05:06 PM
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Virgin
Crissycrowley is offline
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 5
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New :)
Hello! My name is Crissy. I am a thirty year old bisexual female sub to my husband of ten years. I live in Ohio and I'm a nurse during the day and a cum hungry pain slut by night. Lol.
My picture is on my profile if you like to see what I look like.
I love to write stories and fantasies about the bond between a master and his slave. I enjoy feedback and I am always open for story ideas. Please feel free to contact me with both!!!
Looking forward to chatting with you!
Kisses
Crissy
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02-01-2013, 07:39 AM
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Really Really Experienced
Sirtimothyk is offline
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Whittier CA
Posts: 416
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Crissy,
would love to roleplay with you. message me.
Tim
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02-01-2013, 07:41 AM
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Really Really Experienced
Sirtimothyk is offline
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Whittier CA
Posts: 416
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babylondementia,
would love to roleplay with you too.
Tim
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02-01-2013, 03:41 PM
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Virgin
subMother is offline
Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 3
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Hello Everyone
Names subMother
I hope to one day have a long term Master/sub relationship
I dont really know what else to say. I am new, been reading about BDSM for few years even started talking to Masters when I was younger looking to give myself over when I had turned 18. Things change I guess. We noticed we where better as teacher and student. He taught me everything he could without getting physical. For my family I tried to get "normal" it sucks.
I am now 21 bisexual sub/Mother (yes mother) from boring ole Kentucky.
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02-01-2013, 03:46 PM
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Really Experienced
GaspingDarkness is offline
Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: The precipice of delicious reverie
Posts: 231
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Quote:
Originally Posted by subMother
Names subMother
I hope to one day have a long term Master/sub relationship
I dont really know what else to say. I am new, been reading about BDSM for few years even started talking to Masters when I was younger looking to give myself over when I had turned 18. Things change I guess. We noticed we where better as teacher and student. He taught me everything he could without getting physical. For my family I tried to get "normal" it sucks.
I am now 21 bisexual sub/Mother (yes mother) from boring ole Kentucky.
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Hi there. I am new as well. You can call me GD. I'm 33 and live in the central US. I have been dabbling in the lifestyle for some time and love reading and writing erotica. I hope you have a wonderful time here.
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Slipping into dreams

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02-01-2013, 03:46 PM
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Literotica Guru
sdineen is offline
Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: nj
Posts: 1,099
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disabled m 39 looking for a mom touch
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02-01-2013, 04:05 PM
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Virgin
subMother is offline
Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 3
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Quote:
Originally Posted by GaspingDarkness
Hi there. I am new as well. You can call me GD. I'm 33 and live in the central US. I have been dabbling in the lifestyle for some time and love reading and writing erotica. I hope you have a wonderful time here.
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Hi GD nice to meet you.
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02-01-2013, 04:07 PM
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Literotica Guru
sdineen is offline
Join Date: Sep 2010
Location: nj
Posts: 1,099
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hello mom
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02-01-2013, 04:12 PM
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Virgin
subMother is offline
Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 3
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Quote:
Originally Posted by sdineen
hello mom
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Me? . .
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02-01-2013, 07:25 PM
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Virgin
Crissycrowley is offline
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 5
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Hey! Just wanted to say hello. I'm just across the river in Ohio. It's always nice to have someone in our lifestyle to talk to. If you would like to chat give me a holler (lol). crisscrowley@gmail.com
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02-02-2013, 12:33 AM
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Virgin
GreenEyeVixen is offline
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Kentucky
Posts: 7
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I dislike introductions......
Hi. I'm GreenEyeVixen. Totally vanilla. Lol. Been interested and fantasizing about the lifestyle well before 50 Shades was written. Been a lurker at Lit for a few years. Decided to take the plunge in learn more about it then just reading stories. I'm married with two teenage children from a previous relationship. I'm 39 and have my own business. Love my job. Whew! Wanna know more.. Just ask.
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02-02-2013, 03:03 AM
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Virgin
GreenEyeVixen is offline
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Kentucky
Posts: 7
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I forgot a few things...
This was the most important part. I am not sure how I could forget either. Lol. My interest was sparked by a man I met prior to meeting my husband. He was involved in D/s relationship. He had me reading articles, websites, and he may have even recommended Lit too me. For the life of me I can't remember.
I have always had a kinky flair if you will. I have always enjoyed pleasing my partners sexually or with simple gestures whether it was a boyfriend prior to marriage or my husband. Don't think I am looking for a online relationship. I'm just looking for friendship and to learn about the lifestyle. I am just trying to figure things out.
Thanks.
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02-02-2013, 07:27 AM
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Really Really Experienced
Sirtimothyk is offline
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Whittier CA
Posts: 416
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vixen,
let me know if you have any questions.
Tim
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02-02-2013, 07:35 AM
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Literotica Guru
UhlBWett is offline
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: Ohio
Posts: 1,261
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Always willing to help..........
Quote:
Originally Posted by GreenEyeVixen
Hi. I'm GreenEyeVixen. Totally vanilla. Lol. Been interested and fantasizing about the lifestyle well before 50 Shades was written. Been a lurker at Lit for a few years. Decided to take the plunge in learn more about it then just reading stories. I'm married with two teenage children from a previous relationship. I'm 39 and have my own business. Love my job. Whew! Wanna know more.. Just ask.
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Message me sweet girl if you dare, but you may never be quite the same 
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02-02-2013, 04:58 PM
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Really Really Experienced
gabriel16 is offline
Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: USA
Posts: 461
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Welcome Vixen and subMother and Chriss too
Hi all - and welcome.
Enjoy! Great people here.
Ask away!
And subM, turn on your private messages if you wish.
G
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02-02-2013, 06:04 PM
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Experienced
wonderingstar is offline
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Slovenia
Posts: 32
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Hello!
I'm new here. I don't know how to go on with my life. I'm wondering if there is anyone with suggestions what to do.
I've been drown to BDSM for quite some time now. But I haven't really experienced any off it.
My partner knows I like BDSM, and he sometimes play's with me, but not in the way I long for.
I know it's partly my fault because I'm scared to tell him what I want because I don't want to freak him out. I love him very much and there is nobody else that I could feel the same way. We also have a daughter and we live at his parents house and at the moment we have limited space and privacy. We can't go exploring at this moment. But I have read some stories here and thoughts are haunting me. I would like that he would let his dominant side out. But we are both inexperienced and I do not know how to proceed. I hope anyone has a suggestion. And of course my biggest fear is that I would push him to much. I want to proceed slowly and in the end I wish to pleas him. Please help me.
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02-02-2013, 06:23 PM
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Virgin
ibelongtomasterjoe is offline
Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 7
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hi
Hi im Sab short for Sabrina. Im a 24 yr old sub who lives in Florida. I found this site when I was looking for things on BDSM. I like punishment and torture. I just recently met my fiancees in person after talking to him for 2 years online. He's also my master as well. I have been into BDSM for 10 yrs and I must say it's a great experience.
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02-03-2013, 03:48 AM
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Really Experienced
ameliajax is offline
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Midwest
Posts: 133
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Hi, I'm amelia.
I've been reading this site for a long time, and am planning to soon submit some stories and poems. Over the last 3 years I had been discovering and exploring my submissive side with my Master. Someone from my past that I had always loved. We reconnected and began this Dom/sub relationship that we conducted mostly online, thought we did meet many times in real time. He lives in a different state. I'm married with small children. It was complicated, but it worked. Now things have changed and we have had to part ways unexpectedly. It hurts. I miss him terribly and though I am trying to slowly introduce my husband to some of my needs ... it's just not the same.
I've taken the plunge here not only to submit my work, but to also hopefully find friends and like-minded souls I can talk to without judgement.
Thanks!
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02-03-2013, 01:44 PM
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Experienced
wonderingstar is offline
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Slovenia
Posts: 32
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ibelongtomasterjoe
Hi im Sab short for Sabrina. Im a 24 yr old sub who lives in Florida. I found this site when I was looking for things on BDSM. I like punishment and torture. I just recently met my fiancees in person after talking to him for 2 years online. He's also my master as well. I have been into BDSM for 10 yrs and I must say it's a great experience.
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I just want to say I am happy for you. It's great to hear that there are couples that find each other and that they enjoy BDSM lifestyle. It just gives me courage to try the same.
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02-03-2013, 01:51 PM
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Experienced
wonderingstar is offline
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Slovenia
Posts: 32
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ameliajax
Hi, I'm amelia.
I've been reading this site for a long time, and am planning to soon submit some stories and poems. Over the last 3 years I had been discovering and exploring my submissive side with my Master. Someone from my past that I had always loved. We reconnected and began this Dom/sub relationship that we conducted mostly online, thought we did meet many times in real time. He lives in a different state. I'm married with small children. It was complicated, but it worked. Now things have changed and we have had to part ways unexpectedly. It hurts. I miss him terribly and though I am trying to slowly introduce my husband to some of my needs ... it's just not the same.
I've taken the plunge here not only to submit my work, but to also hopefully find friends and like-minded souls I can talk to without judgement.
Thanks!
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Hi amelia.
I kind of understand what are you going through. I my self am looking for friendship. I hope I could live in D/s relationship. I have a partner who I love deeply but for now we live vanila life and I crave for submission.
I hope that everything turns out for you. Best wishes.
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02-04-2013, 02:00 AM
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Really Experienced
ameliajax is offline
Join Date: Feb 2013
Location: Midwest
Posts: 133
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Thanks, wonderingstar! It's nice to know there are others that understand what I am going through. Best of luck to you, too!
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02-04-2013, 12:40 PM
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#10600
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Virgin
PuckFinn is offline
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Brooklyn, NY
Posts: 3
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Hi!
I'm PuckFinn. Though I sleep exclusively with women, I usually refer to myself as gay as opposed to lesbian.
I'm very nearly 33 and a late bloomer and I'm recently exploring my interest in kink. I am quite a fan of run-on sentences.
My wife is supportive, but right now, my interest in submission does not inspire in her an interest to dominate so much of my exploration is through erotica or porn.
Turn ons: Older women dominating younger women. Teacher/Student relationships. Spanking. Leather. Some humiliation. Strap-ons. Rimming.
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