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01-06-2013, 04:11 PM
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Smile..it confuses people
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Hello, Sticky; I hope your day's treating you well?
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Very well thank you Mr C
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01-06-2013, 04:14 PM
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Avatar of Chaos
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Very well thank you Mr C
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01-06-2013, 05:41 PM
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Really Experienced
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Ooo! How kind! Does that mean I get to hold your neck and stroke your g-string with horse hair?
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01-06-2013, 06:19 PM
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Whoo! You guys! *fans self*
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"Non-cooks think it's silly to invest two hours' work in two minutes' enjoyment; but if cooking is evanescent, so is the ballet."- Julia Child "The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: a human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive. To him, a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death. Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create — so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, his very breath is cut off from him. He must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency he is not really alive unless he is creating."- Pearl S. Buck dizzylia (and her stories)
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01-06-2013, 06:23 PM
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Man. All I want to do lately is write. I have so little time for it, but I'm starting to think I need to just carve it out of a day or two. So many ideas. Fantasies. They just want to be written. Argh.
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"Non-cooks think it's silly to invest two hours' work in two minutes' enjoyment; but if cooking is evanescent, so is the ballet."- Julia Child "The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: a human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive. To him, a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death. Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create — so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, his very breath is cut off from him. He must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency he is not really alive unless he is creating."- Pearl S. Buck dizzylia (and her stories)
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01-06-2013, 06:52 PM
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Smile..it confuses people
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Originally Posted by dizzylia
Man. All I want to do lately is write. I have so little time for it, but I'm starting to think I need to just carve it out of a day or two. So many ideas. Fantasies. They just want to be written. Argh.
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Hmm.. I feel the need to write but somehow my fantasies feel a little faded just now  I need some real to spice it up! |
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01-06-2013, 06:53 PM
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Hmm.. I feel the need to write but somehow my fantasies feel a little faded just now I need some real to spice it up! |
Why jaded, if you don't mind my asking?
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"Non-cooks think it's silly to invest two hours' work in two minutes' enjoyment; but if cooking is evanescent, so is the ballet."- Julia Child "The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: a human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive. To him, a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death. Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create — so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, his very breath is cut off from him. He must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency he is not really alive unless he is creating."- Pearl S. Buck dizzylia (and her stories)
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01-06-2013, 07:08 PM
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Smile..it confuses people
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Hmm... long, boring story... just kinda mixed up with the whole dysphoria thing I guess, well no, more like I'm tired of endless images & porn and want something or someone to move me, to make me jump out of bed in the morning, to make colours brighter.... I want to taste someone's lips and feel their arms...... get the picture? 
This endless sea of greyness. I think with that I ought to go to bed. I'm tired
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01-06-2013, 07:12 PM
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Originally Posted by stickygirl
Hmm... long, boring story... just kinda mixed up with the whole dysphoria thing I guess, well no, more like I'm tired of endless images & porn and want something or someone to move me, to make me jump out of bed in the morning, to make colours brighter.... I want to taste someone's lips and feel their arms...... get the picture? |
Aww. I do know what you mean, I think. Fantasy only takes us so far, only completes us up to a very limited limitation...
First of all, don't be sorry, ever! Second, I did ask.  Sweet dreams, hon.
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"Non-cooks think it's silly to invest two hours' work in two minutes' enjoyment; but if cooking is evanescent, so is the ballet."- Julia Child "The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: a human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive. To him, a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death. Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create — so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, his very breath is cut off from him. He must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency he is not really alive unless he is creating."- Pearl S. Buck dizzylia (and her stories)
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01-07-2013, 06:39 PM
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01-07-2013, 10:51 PM
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Hope everybody is doing well today!! |
So far so good! It's been a really productive day, actually. How was yours?
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"Non-cooks think it's silly to invest two hours' work in two minutes' enjoyment; but if cooking is evanescent, so is the ballet."- Julia Child "The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: a human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive. To him, a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death. Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create — so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, his very breath is cut off from him. He must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency he is not really alive unless he is creating."- Pearl S. Buck dizzylia (and her stories)
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01-10-2013, 01:49 PM
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Smile..it confuses people
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Post SRS attitudes
I've noticed a bit of a pattern in the mtf tg community: it boils down to this. If someone is very early in their transition or still some way from any SRS, the chances are they are 'politically' active and more likely to get involved in TG groups etc.
But once transition is complete, it's as though they melt away, which I suppose is only to be expected: who wants to keep their head above the parapet? But then I've noticed some fully transitioned mtf's who come out and criticise pre-ops for being too sensitive or to 'lighten up'. That really pisses me off because they must have really short memories - or is it that they are so smug now that they quite happy have a pop at people who are still transitioning?
To site examples of the latter:
When Trevor Ashley proposed staging a show in the Sydney Opera House called Trannie most folks took issue with both the title and the content. Yet there were one or two post-ops who came out in support in a very aggressive way, saying it was none of our business and lighten up.
http://lexiecannes.wordpress.com/201...usical-comedy/
More recently there was a broadcast on a Fox channel called Just Kidding http://youtu.be/y1AZ_RgYnN8. The majority of the comments are critical but one or two play the lighten up line.
As for dropping out of sight
this eloquent YouTube girl who resigned from the Transtargalatica http://youtu.be/r87BzVo4cE4
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01-10-2013, 07:27 PM
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Really Experienced
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I wonder if it's a case of "I've got mine....good luck with yours"??
Not that I would stick up for FOX, but I don't think "Just Kidding" has anything to do with them. The Just Kidding video was in bad taste, IMO.
There were a bunch of other sites that reported on the Belgium story too.
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01-11-2013, 01:21 PM
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Loving Heart
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Originally Posted by stickygirl
I've noticed a bit of a pattern in the mtf tg community: it boils down to this. If someone is very early in their transition or still some way from any SRS, the chances are they are 'politically' active and more likely to get involved in TG groups etc.
But once transition is complete, it's as though they melt away, which I suppose is only to be expected: who wants to keep their head above the parapet? But then I've noticed some fully transitioned mtf's who come out and criticise pre-ops for being too sensitive or to 'lighten up'. That really pisses me off because they must have really short memories - or is it that they are so smug now that they quite happy have a pop at people who are still transitioning?
To site examples of the latter:
When Trevor Ashley proposed staging a show in the Sydney Opera House called Trannie most folks took issue with both the title and the content. Yet there were one or two post-ops who came out in support in a very aggressive way, saying it was none of our business and lighten up.
http://lexiecannes.wordpress.com/201...usical-comedy/
More recently there was a broadcast on a Fox channel called Just Kidding http://youtu.be/y1AZ_RgYnN8. The majority of the comments are critical but one or two play the lighten up line.
As for dropping out of sight
this eloquent YouTube girl who resigned from the Transtargalatica http://youtu.be/r87BzVo4cE4
but there are others...
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once their transition is complete they generally want to live life as a woman period. Many become bitter when they realize that their expectations were errant. I have been transitioning for 7 years now, I am stuck but to be honest I do get tired of people new to the experience talking about something I have heard repeatedly again and again. It is nice that they are excited but being trans usually means a slightly narcissistic experience. Our Dysphoria or what ever becomes our obsession. We want to share our excitement which the people around us do not feel. *sigh* it sucks really. If anything the people around you try to discourage you. I find that Male to Female transsexuals are a very diverse group and not the friendliest bunch particularly post op. |
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01-11-2013, 01:32 PM
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Loving Heart
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Talking of bad music, have any other TGs taken up the guitar?! It seems like loads of the YouTube girls* have a guitar propped up in the background of their vlog. And yes... I bought mine around four months ago
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01-11-2013, 06:15 PM
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For what it's worth, I find you all very friendly.
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"Non-cooks think it's silly to invest two hours' work in two minutes' enjoyment; but if cooking is evanescent, so is the ballet."- Julia Child "The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: a human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive. To him, a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death. Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create — so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, his very breath is cut off from him. He must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency he is not really alive unless he is creating."- Pearl S. Buck dizzylia (and her stories)
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01-18-2013, 01:41 AM
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Loving Heart
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For what it's worth, I find you all very friendly. |
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01-19-2013, 03:33 PM
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01-19-2013, 04:09 PM
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Smile..it confuses people
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Group ((hug))
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01-19-2013, 06:07 PM
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Sometimes life sucks.....but I find all you ladies to be the best, even when you have a bad day!
A BIG group HUG....followed by a pile-on sounds like fun.
BTW I play both a little guitar, and a big organ......er,..... keyboard. Let's start a group! Anybody sing??
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01-19-2013, 11:44 PM
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Sometimes life sucks.....but I find all you ladies to be the best, even when you have a bad day!
A BIG group HUG....followed by a pile-on sounds like fun.
BTW I play both a little guitar, and a big organ......er,..... keyboard. Let's start a group! Anybody sing??
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I play piano, trumpet and sing! Pile on and jam!
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"Non-cooks think it's silly to invest two hours' work in two minutes' enjoyment; but if cooking is evanescent, so is the ballet."- Julia Child "The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: a human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive. To him, a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death. Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create — so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, his very breath is cut off from him. He must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency he is not really alive unless he is creating."- Pearl S. Buck dizzylia (and her stories)
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01-20-2013, 05:38 AM
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Smile..it confuses people
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I play piano, trumpet and sing! Pile on and jam!
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01-20-2013, 02:22 PM
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I'll see if I can borrow a cello - my guitar playing isn't up to it yet. Do we have anyone on drums or shall we find our own rhythm?
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I think we all have plenty of rhythm.
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"Non-cooks think it's silly to invest two hours' work in two minutes' enjoyment; but if cooking is evanescent, so is the ballet."- Julia Child "The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: a human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive. To him, a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death. Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create — so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, his very breath is cut off from him. He must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency he is not really alive unless he is creating."- Pearl S. Buck dizzylia (and her stories)
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01-20-2013, 02:30 PM
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Smile..it confuses people
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Hi Diz. Loved your Eternal Promise story but then I do have a thing for old abandoned buildings... and woods... something about the smell of them *sigh* |
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01-20-2013, 04:46 PM
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Hi Diz. Loved your Eternal Promise story but then I do have a thing for old abandoned buildings... and woods... something about the smell of them *sigh* |
Aww.  Thank you! Yeah, same here.
I'd actually been thinking lately of finishing up the follow up story I began for that one. So many stories in progress. I haven't finished a one of them in years.
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"Non-cooks think it's silly to invest two hours' work in two minutes' enjoyment; but if cooking is evanescent, so is the ballet."- Julia Child "The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: a human creature born abnormally, inhumanly sensitive. To him, a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death. Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create — so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, his very breath is cut off from him. He must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency he is not really alive unless he is creating."- Pearl S. Buck dizzylia (and her stories)
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