Stranger fingering you in public

[MichaelinChina]

It really goes without saying that the thing about this thread that fingering a stranger (a woman) in public HAS to remain a fantasy.

Nothing wrong in my book about having these thoughts. God knows I've done it countless times.

Otherwise, it could have lead to the situation in India with the death of the 23 yr old woman at the hands of the 5 rapists on the bus. Did it start with a fingerfuck? Did she get wet, as a reflex action not as a result of any conscious arousal? Did that spur on her attacker who was joined by the others, thinking he, and they, had the green light?

Interesting that many of the women who have posted here, claim to want that to happen, but in the next breath, swear they'd swat the man with their handbag.
Rightly so. He deserved it because he did not have her consent.

And many of the men (rightly so) believe that something stops them.
But I wonder at those men who believe that if a woman 'fantasises' about being finger-fucked, that it also means he can act without any impunity.
And the defence that it was because she was wearing provocative clothing just does not hold water in my opinion (and probably many others).

I don't want to bring this thread down. It's been on my mind a few days now.
So, the upshot - by all means have the fantasy but remember it's always going to be a crime if it's acted upon - without firm consent.

[gabriel16]

Usually I don't write much about details of my own experiences. Prefer writing about that with friends privately. But I've had a couple experiences where women, in a situation with others around, and women I didn't know, have placed themselves so it was quite clear they wanted, needed, were urgent, to have their pussies rubbed and fingered by me. Perhaps nothing special about me. But it led to quite amazing next events..... G

[NICEGUY74]

Originally Posted by ontoit2

Still get hard from the thought of what happened many years ago. A long time "friend" and I were in a pool together with quite a few of the neighbors. We had flirted quite often and on this particular afternoon she was flirting pretty strong. Ended up in the deep end of the pool where she would come up behind me and from underwater run her whole body up my backside. On several occasions she reached between my legs and gave a long slow squeeze. After a few of these, as she surfaced, I reached between her legs and gave a long slow rub. She responded, and I decided that I'd rub again, and this time linger. Again a response and my fingers slipped under the elastic of her swimsuit. She was wet already. Slowly pumping she stifled her moans. I could get my fingers and my thumb up over her clit and pumped as she quietly begged "faster". My fingers and thumb moved quick, fast. More she moaned. Faster, until she bit her lip and gasped. Each of us swam in different directions, but needless to say I needed to stay submerged for some time hiding a very large erection. As I said, still think of it and get hard now even after all these years.

lucky bastard...thats hot.

[curiousmom80]

Would think that there must be some connection first. Nothing against a stranger coming on to me and putting their hands under my dress......goodness have felt many brushes against my thighs before....but still prefer some connection

[ontoit2]

Originally Posted by curiousmom80

Would think that there must be some connection first. Nothing against a stranger coming on to me and putting their hands under my dress......goodness have felt many brushes against my thighs before....but still prefer some connection

That's why the one that I had with a lady was fun and exciting. I "knew" her but not really close. She knew me and that there would be nothing to worry about. It was exciting for both of us that way.

[stu_gats_2000]

Originally Posted by curiousmom80

Would think that there must be some connection first. Nothing against a stranger coming on to me and putting their hands under my dress......goodness have felt many brushes against my thighs before....but still prefer some connection

shall we make a connection but I do agree it is nice to not be a complete stranger

[Goodgirl4him]

Originally Posted by stu_gats_2000

shall we make a connection but I do agree it is nice to not be a complete stranger

yes a friend of some sort...maybe even sometime you interact with at work, school, or the gym, on a completely platonic level, then it just happens and as he is doing it he reminds you to stay quiet so nobody knows around you what is going on. and then just stopping and going about your business.... very hot indeed.

[stu_gats_2000]

Originally Posted by Goodgirl4him

yes a friend of some sort...maybe even sometime you interact with at work, school, or the gym, on a completely platonic level, then it just happens and as he is doing it he reminds you to stay quiet so nobody knows around you what is going on. and then just stopping and going about your business.... very hot indeed.

I like how you think certainly adds to the excitement of seeing that person again in a party, meeting, etc...

[Goodgirl4him]

Originally Posted by stu_gats_2000

I like how you think certainly adds to the excitement of seeing that person again in a party, meeting, etc...

exactly....a secret they can share. just seems like it would be fun

[typacritt]

If consent is a given (agreed), what is the key element that gives the excitement? Is it exhibiting, illicitness, keeping it secret? What is it for you?

[shaneo1]

Originally Posted by wet4urlook

Do any other women fantasize about being in public and having a stranger reach up under your skirt to finger your pussy?? This is an incredible turn on for me and I wondered if others have this fantasy.

Would like to organise that and watch my wife, she is submissive and I would tell her that it would be happening

[Wet_panties]

Had this happen a few times in clubs when I was younger and it was so hot, got caught by staff and told to leave on one occasion lol

[typacritt]

Originally Posted by Wet_panties

Had this happen a few times in clubs when I was younger and it was so hot, got caught by staff and told to leave on one occasion lol

I cant imagine why you would be asked to l leave for that. I apologise if I underestimate the action

[heatsink]

Originally Posted by Wet_panties

Had this happen a few times in clubs when I was younger and it was so hot, got caught by staff and told to leave on one occasion lol

Those memories must be so hot.

[Wet_panties]

Yeh they are pretty good times to think about every now and then

[desiree_d]

this has just begun to be a fantasy of mind..

[shy210girl]

Originally Posted by Rainbow2429

It is a fun thought but if it actually happened I think I would be a bit freaked out.

I agree...great fantasy but not sure if i could let it happen.

[samanthaswitch]

Aside from the one time I mentioned (which wasn't quite the fantasy he was a stranger but his hands only got into me after I moved them there myself) I would probably not want it to happen again. Maybe if another guy (or maybe gal) and i were on the floor and I was feeling it I'd take them by the hand again but its unlikely. Now friends fingering me in public is another matter entirely.

[JamieGirl0519]

Originally Posted by gabriel16

Usually I don't write much about details of my own experiences. Prefer writing about that with friends privately. But I've had a couple experiences where women, in a situation with others around, and women I didn't know, have placed themselves so it was quite clear they wanted, needed, were urgent, to have their pussies rubbed and fingered by me. Perhaps nothing special about me. But it led to quite amazing next events..... G

I have done that, been so fucking HOT, that I just needed to be touched, stimulated and well, a stranger was all that was around. Most guys have no clue, even if I am really being obvious. But at concerts, and in crowded buses and trains, it is easier than you may think to get felt up !!!!

I remember standing at the grocery store, checking prices on some teas that I wanted to buy and this guy came up behind me, right behind me, and started feeling my ass, rubbing, groping. I just stood here and let him do it. Felt sooooo good. He hiked my skirt up a bit, but never got to fingering me, too many people coming down the aisle.

[GoldStarBiker]

Originally Posted by JamieGirl0519

I have done that, been so fucking HOT, that I just needed to be touched, stimulated and well, a stranger was all that was around. Most guys have no clue, even if I am really being obvious. But at concerts, and in crowded buses and trains, it is easier than you may think to get felt up !!!!

I remember standing at the grocery store, checking prices on some teas that I wanted to buy and this guy came up behind me, right behind me, and started feeling my ass, rubbing, groping. I just stood here and let him do it. Felt sooooo good. He hiked my skirt up a bit, but never got to fingering me, too many people coming down the aisle.

Great mental picture thanks.

[jebusping]

Many times where an ex and I would goto a movie, knowing it had parts where it would have loud explosions or something similar and we would play, mainly fingering her to multiple orgasms. Throughout the movie would be slow, teasing fingering and rubbing of the clit and when it got loud, hard, fast fingers making her moan like crazy. Yay for background noises! =D

[JucieyLucy]

Makes me very wet just thinking about it!

[naughtylilalli]

a few years ago i was with my family on vacation in new york. we were on the subway during rush hour n i was packed in n my family was kinda pushed around n spread across the car. i was wearing a jean skirt n i felt a guys hand on my leg. at first it was just a few fingers sliding up n down the back of my leg near my skirt hem. i shook my leg. she stopped 4 a moment n then started again. felt his hand slide up n pretty much push my skirt up in the back and he started 2 massage my ass. i shook it, but he took it as a signal i liked it. then i felt his fingers slide between my legs n start 2 rub me over my panties. i let my better judgement take over n didnt stop him. he never went under my panties. i was literally about 2 cum when the train pulled 2 the stop n he left. i found my family n my dad made a comment about how my face was flush. i just said it was because it was really hot in there. (it was, but not how he thought i meant it). ive came a few times thinking about that moment. i need 2 go back 2 new york lol.

[lisamuse]

I've always toyed with the idea of posting to craigslist and meeting a man in a dark movie theatre.

I'd wear a skirt, he'd sit next to me, massage me lustfully, and then walk out when he was done feeling it all...

[chrisatb5]

Originally Posted by naughtylilalli

a few years ago i was with my family on vacation in new york. we were on the subway during rush hour n i was packed in n my family was kinda pushed around n spread across the car. i was wearing a jean skirt n i felt a guys hand on my leg. at first it was just a few fingers sliding up n down the back of my leg near my skirt hem. i shook my leg. she stopped 4 a moment n then started again. felt his hand slide up n pretty much push my skirt up in the back and he started 2 massage my ass. i shook it, but he took it as a signal i liked it. then i felt his fingers slide between my legs n start 2 rub me over my panties. i let my better judgement take over n didnt stop him. he never went under my panties. i was literally about 2 cum when the train pulled 2 the stop n he left. i found my family n my dad made a comment about how my face was flush. i just said it was because it was really hot in there. (it was, but not how he thought i meant it). ive came a few times thinking about that moment. i need 2 go back 2 new york lol.

good luck with your return trip