Maybe you're thinkin some Tristen Tarramino (director) shit, or like the sensual exploratory stuff by adam &eve. Or something plotbased and new age; first there was the porn, then there was explanatory porn, then there was gonzo, then parody, then plot based. You can find whatever you want.
I like (and find and purchase) the porn I like. It's not hard, everyone can do this with little effort; I ask you to do the same.
Among other evils which being unarmed brings you, it causes you to be despised.