my bi wife likes gay men

[julius_1975ct]

My wife and I are very open.. she was with a few women before we got married. She is still into women but has not been with any since we were married. I have been telling her that she is free to sleep with anyone she desires. Well, she decided that she liked a coworker of mine. I set them up and hey were sexting and flirting ... i was taking sexy pix of her for him, she was falling for him and even asked if she could have his child (which i agreed to), but when he was supposed to meet her for drinks he bailed on her. It turns out he was confused about his sexuality, and came out as gay. They are still friends and text a bit, the other night she expressed that she stil has desires for him, even though he isnt into her that way... then she goes on to tel me that she has always liked gay men, and when she was in her 20s a few of her gay friends would ask to kiss her to see if the were into women at all... they werent, but she would always get so turned on that she would cum immediately.

just wondering what you all thought

[eric60red]

Originally Posted by julius_1975ct

My wife and I are very open.. she was with a few women before we got married. She is still into women but has not been with any since we were married. I have been telling her that she is free to sleep with anyone she desires. Well, she decided that she liked a coworker of mine. I set them up and hey were sexting and flirting ... i was taking sexy pix of her for him, she was falling for him and even asked if she could have his child (which i agreed to), but when he was supposed to meet her for drinks he bailed on her. It turns out he was confused about his sexuality, and came out as gay. They are still friends and text a bit, the other night she expressed that she stil has desires for him, even though he isnt into her that way... then she goes on to tel me that she has always liked gay men, and when she was in her 20s a few of her gay friends would ask to kiss her to see if the were into women at all... they werent, but she would always get so turned on that she would cum immediately.

just wondering what you all thought

She hoping to convert some gay men to being bi then? Like guys would like a lesbian to convert into a cock lover?

[julius_1975ct]

no, she has no interest in converting anyone... she is just very attracted to gay men.

[CNYCarol]

It's not that uncommon. I know several women that date gay men, they say it's a surefire way to go out and have a good time without the expectation of having to "put out" afterwards.

[julius_1975ct]

She seems to have a fetish though

[Stella_Omega]

Originally Posted by julius_1975ct

She seems to have a fetish though

Yes-- a sexual liking for gay men, nothing to do with going shopping!

It's really not uncommon, Julius. I've hosted that fetish off and on myself for many years... As with any fetish, it can be a problem-- dehumanising the guys.

[julius_1975ct]

thanks for all of your input, ope we can keep this topic going

[shelbakk]

What is your feeling about gay men? Have you considered inviting him over so you and your wife can experiment?

[julius_1975ct]

i am not into men ... we invited my friend over but he was confused about his sexuality and couldnt go through with it

[julius_1975ct]