Been away for awhile
Happy holidays to all of you
I have moved on from my wife, and am out on my own.
I still help her out with the expenses, but I have my own life now. we are not together anymore.
For a time, I thought we would be able to work things out. Didn't happen. She was still the same person as before, and no change. Still only cares about what's important to her- gardening, cooking, and the dogs- and doesn't even have time for me.
I'm moving on and she can stay in that state of childhood "arrested development".
Am I bitter? No. Just sad, that after almost 16 years together it has come to this.
Enjoy your holidays, everyone.
I know I am will- now with a new lease and zest for life and having fun.