Ladies - What Head Technique is Most Effective for You?

[Edensgarden]

Originally Posted by Rainshine

Saliva might be natural but it's certainly not a great lubricant.

I didn't say it was a great lubricant. It's better than nothing if needed.

The point I was trying to make was simply if someone intentionally drops saliva somewhere during sex, oral, handjob, whatever.....it doesn't necessarily mean they are "spitting" on you.

[Miles Long]

Originally Posted by Edensgarden

I didn't say it was a great lubricant. It's better than nothing if needed.

The point I was trying to make was simply if someone intentionally drops saliva somewhere during sex, oral, handjob, whatever.....it doesn't necessarily mean they are "spitting" on you.

Have you ever found it to be the case that Spitting is Quitting?

[NightL]

Scrabble? What the hell is he talking about? Scrabble?! Oh there is actually prop in the photo - took me a while.

If you zoom in you will see the winning word was elucidated - fact

[Edensgarden]

Originally Posted by Miles Long

Have you ever found it to be the case that Spitting is Quitting?

You know I swallow.

[Rainshine]

Originally Posted by Edensgarden

I didn't say it was a great lubricant. It's better than nothing if needed.

The point I was trying to make was simply if someone intentionally drops saliva somewhere during sex, oral, handjob, whatever.....it doesn't necessarily mean they are "spitting" on you.

Point made....Edensgarden, but the point I was making was don't SPIT on her because the OP is getting tips from porn and there's a whole lot of spitting going on in porn these days.

So there ya go... two points, made.

I hope the OP feels educated in all things spit.

[themilf]

Originally Posted by JohnZee

Porn's potential (note use of 'potential') for educating has been elucidated by numerous high-profile thinkers over the years - fact.

Oh John, do elucidate for me to which high-profile thinkers you refer?

Originally Posted by Rainshine

Maybe it's an Australian thing but I have never once heard cunnilingus referred to as head.

Not just an Australian thing. I failed to elucidate how that annoyed me, too. In fact when I saw this title, I thought it was Masadoni trying another tact/a redundant request for "Best dick sucking techniques"!

[Rainshine]

I think I'm in love with NightL and themilf.

[GrrlFriday]

Originally Posted by JohnZee

>Do you really think porn was developed/created as a "how to" primer? Just curious.

Where did I say that directly? I do, however, think that some porn does have an educative side to it; which can be beneficial - alongside the traditional means such as communication and using one's creativity / initiative. Most porn is formulaic jack-off material, I agree. At the same time, I can think of things I've used on girlfriends which they really liked. Where did the porn director get the idea from in the first place?

Porn's potential (note use of 'potential') for educating has been elucidated by numerous high-profile thinkers over the years - fact.

I'd be interested in reading what those 'high-profile thinkers' have to say. Porn may be used as educative, but I doubt that most porn is designed to be as such, or that it is particularly good education. Some would be better than others, but it would be hard to find the gems, or even to identify them when you find them. Romance novels, which have been studied in a similar way, have been shown to be able to influence their readers' attitudes to condom use. ( http://pwq.sagepub.com/content/24/2/179.short ) I can recall reading a passage in an otherwise enjoyable romance novel where the male lead uses a cream-filled sweet pastry as a dildo on the female lead. All I could think of during that was 'that's a one-way ticket to a yeast infection'. There are some how-to videos out there, but porn is made for male entertainment - it is about looks and sounds rather than how the participants are feeling at the time.

As for your original question:

Study up on feminine anatomy and the care and feeding of a healthy vulva.
Make her feel as if you are genuinely enthusiastic about going down on her, for her sake. Don't make it a 'tit for tat' thing, particularly if she's expressed hesitation.
Let her guide you, if she wants to - she has decades more experience in how she needs to be touched to get off, after all.
"The morning after the night before", tell her that you thought it was hot - ask her what she liked best, and if there is something you could do next time that would make it even better for her. If she asks the same, be honest, but don't belittle her.

[NightL]

Originally Posted by themilf

Oh John, do elucidate for me to which high-profile thinkers you refer?

Professor Sinistra Manu and Professor Dexteram Manu

bah, probably got that wrong - but I'll blame it on Professor Google

[NightL]

Originally Posted by Rainshine

I think I'm in love with NightL and themilf.

Yeah pmann - take that with your rat

:insert formulaic jackass gif

[Rainshine]

Originally Posted by NightL

Yeah pmann - take that with your rat

hahahah Oh jeepers.

[Emerson40]

Originally Posted by JohnZee

....... I do, however, think that some porn does have an educative side to it; which can be beneficial ......

Porn's potential (note use of 'potential') for educating has been elucidated by numerous high-profile thinkers over the years - fact.

There is indeed an education to be gained from watching porn.
Many, many young men have received doctorate degrees in self flagellation.

[blulilacgrl]

Believe it or not there is a growing movement of "porn" that is written for and by and even produced and directed and marketed for women. So the old axiom that porn is for male entertainment only actually doesn't quite hold true anymore.

Now as for techniques it's the same for anybody. You read, study, watch and practice. Recognizing all the while that it is different for each person.