Turned on by breast pumping?

[Wildfetishes]

I gave birth about a week ago and I have been pumping breast milk for our baby. Every time I pump my husband gets rock hard. He even asked if we could masturbate to me pumping!! Naturally I feel a little awkward about sex lately. I have a bit of a tummy to lose. How common is it that men are attracted to breast milk/ breast milk pumping??? To add we haven't really been active for 6+ months and won't be for another 6 week due to the post pregnancy bleeding and my stitches.

Is sex with a lactating woman a turn on? My boobs leak pretty bad when I don't have a bra on and i'm curious as to how it is.

[jasper3738]

It was for me I think it has to do with seeing the nipples being sucked then released
If your man likes the mom taste then it's ok

[DarkPleasures]

Originally Posted by Wildfetishes

Is sex with a lactating woman a turn on?

If you look around Lit, perhaps run a search, you'll see countless threads on pregnancy, lactating, and even breast bumping fetishes. Seems your husband is not alone.

[avidreader9445]

No intercourse for 7 1/2 months + enlarged breasts + taboo use for same = major turn-on. I'm creaky-old but i can still remember the passion generated by breast play when my wife was nursing and bigger than I had aver seen her. Trust me, a little extra weight or recovering tummy tone never entered my mind!!

[IARainman]

Two things....what avid reader said...after 7 1/2 months he probably gets hard seeing the cuckoo go in and out of the clock!

And yes, i found lactatingvery sexy. No so much the act if pumping, but my wife did allow me a taste"straight from the source"mmmm tastes so good, wish she would stay that way I'd suckle her multiple times a day.

So, if you want to blue his mind, the next time you're pumping ask him if he's getting turned on, then ask him to show you, to take it out and stroke for you. Then when he's good and worked up take a nipple and naturally squirt some breast milk at his hard cock. I guarantee it'll be the most amazing thing for him. After he cums, let him suckle a little. Then you can get him to take out the garbage, wash the car paint the house, Pretty much anything you want.

[Ahlam]

Originally Posted by Wildfetishes

Is sex with a lactating woman a turn on?

I think it can be a turn on and it's at least fascinating for many men. I'm a breastfeeding mother myself, and when I'm in public I receive stares of both admiration and disgust.
I guess you should give some thought to how YOU feel about it. Producing a child is physically and emotionally challenging. Does the thought of your mister finding lactation sexy make you feel good? Or does it make you feel like your body has been that much more hijacked? I hope you get to have some fun with it.

Congratulations!

[icandothis]

Congratulations on your new little bundle of joy. I just gave birth about 6 weeks ago.

My husband seemed to be fixated on my breasts from the beginning and when I started leaking colostrum early in my pregnancy he loved it and so did I. The warm, moist feel of his mouth licking, kissing, sucking my tits not only felt wonderful but also created a closeness between us and never failed to get me hot and wanting him. Even now he enjoys watching me nurse his son and knows when his baby is full and satisfied it will be his turn to enjoy Mommie.

[haveahardon]

Congratulations first off!

Second....I can understand his fascination/turn-on. I find this whole topic very arousing.

That being said....if you're not comfortable with it perhaps you two need to have a conversation about it.

[Howa]

I'd love to suck you breasts dry for you.

[monkeyman057]

I loved it when my wife was lactating. Loved it loved it loved it. I miss it. Very hot - very intimate - very sexy. My wife enjoyed it quite a bit too.

I don't think it's wierd or strange - just seems to be a taboo subject these days with everyone saying 'cover it up', 'don't feed the baby like that in public', etc. It's natural and normal and a real treat for dad if he doesn't have hang ups about it.

My advice: let him enjoy it while it lasts. It won't be happening forever and you may regret not having the experience with him once you decide it's time to stop nursing the baby. If you go with the flow (sorry for the pun...) you may find that the experience brings a different kind of depth and closeness to your relationship that transcends sexuality.

Edit: oh yeah - about that tummy? He doesn't care. He really doesn't care. I promise. He's probably dying for some sexy time by now and that tummy that you think is such a big deal is really the last thing on his mind.

[paizuri]

nothing beats sliding a hard erection inbetween those lactating breasts, with the soft and the hard trying to milk each other

[kraignurser]

Breastfeeding (and aspects of breastfeeding) can be both erotic and nurturing for the husband, boyfriend, lover, etc. Unfortunately, with people who do not understand, the love of breastfeeding gets dumped into a "fetish" or perverted category.

Those who are serious about suckling or breastfeeding tend to understand that at times it does not have to be sexual. That it is more of a bonding and nurturing that is needed/wanted. Now I'm not talking about being an adult baby, again, things can get perverted easily. But it is a genuine desire that comes with nursing someone who wants to be nursed, and someone who wants to nurse. The key is being able to nurse without having sex, since it is not always sexual, but comforting. There is a lot more to it, but I've already digressed from the topic.

Just wanted to share. If you're interested in talking about this more drop a brotha' an line.

kraig

[Corwith]

It is definitely a turn on and, as others have pointed out, it can be really intimate.

[jasper3738]

Wife one time let me fuck her while she was breast pumping
She cummed so hard

[Mystical_Dragon]

Oh to lactate would be so great.

[switchbitch]

Originally Posted by Mystical_Dragon

Oh to lactate would be so great.

it is indeed and im starting my lactation cycle again for new year

[FarmerTan]

Originally Posted by switchbitch

it is indeed and im starting my lactation cycle again for new year

Congratulations. Have fun

[amofiga]

Many men are turned on by lactating women and want to suck lactating tits or have breast milk squirted on their face, etc. There are whole "porn" sites dedicated to it. It's probably a little odd that men would be turned on by what is a natural mammalian process, but it's probably because breasts have been turned into something "sexual" rather than "motherly" because of the general prudishness of society over the years. In many cultures, seeing women breastfeed is not much more sexually arousing than watching a baby being bottle fed. Perhaps arouses parental and nurturing feelings but not necessarily a sexual turn on. Humans are basically a fucked-up species and we made ourselves that way.

[WylieBCoyote]

Sex when my wife was lactating was incredible and the thought of it now gives rise down below. She lactated heavily and it brought a wonderful new dimension to our relationship. Our favorite things to do were to shoot her milk all over my cock and then lick it off, or to cover my face in her milk. I liked to sit astride her and squeeze her breasts, all the while telling her the dirty things I was going to do to her as her milk shot out all over.

[youngmother]

Why are some men fascinated by nursing mothers and breast milk, while other men leave the room?

[dirtwrench]

Originally Posted by youngmother

Why are some men fascinated by nursing mothers and breast milk, while other men leave the room?

I think it boils down to every person has something that turns them on. If a guy likes boobs, he probably is going to like them swelled & full. Even if he doesn't like the milk itself he may love the feel of them rock hard & ready to leak. Some are not into breasts & therefore just don't want to see.

It can also be just a thing for moms in general. Kind of a "why is the sky blue" type question. Why does anyone like anything? They just do.

[jjj1984]

My wife is breast feeding now, has been for 5 months. I loved her brests before the baby and more so now. I have sucked and tasted the milk, its like milk left from a bowl of frosted flakes ha, very sweet. There are times they are sore and off limits, but when she orgasms and they leak, the mess is worth the wait ha.

[Emmcee20]

Best fun ever - very intimate. And many guys are too hesitant to ask or talk about it until it is too late. Your hubby is open and out there so have some fun.

[Kitschshaman]

Originally Posted by youngmother

Why are some men fascinated by nursing mothers and breast milk, while other men leave the room?

If I might be so bold as to actually answer your question ... I think most men are turned on by it, but some are embarrassed at their own feelings about it, that they feel that if they express (no pun intended) their feelings of lust for suckling and generally enjoying the hell out of a beautifully lactating gal, that they'll be thought kinky, possessing truly disgusting degenerate desires, or at the very least, inappropriately lustful. I myself cannot imagine not being turned on by the sight and feelings (an old girlfriend of mine, though not pregnant, gave some milk, possibly the effect of the pill and the fact I suckled her a great deal), but there are few I would share that fact with other than in the anonymity provided here.
But that's just one lustful man's opinion.

[icandothis]

Originally Posted by kraignurser

Breastfeeding (and aspects of breastfeeding) can be both erotic and nurturing for the husband, boyfriend, lover, etc. Unfortunately, with people who do not understand, the love of breastfeeding gets dumped into a "fetish" or perverted category.

Those who are serious about suckling or breastfeeding tend to understand that at times it does not have to be sexual. That it is more of a bonding and nurturing that is needed/wanted. Now I'm not talking about being an adult baby, again, things can get perverted easily. But it is a genuine desire that comes with nursing someone who wants to be nursed, and someone who wants to nurse. The key is being able to nurse without having sex, since it is not always sexual, but comforting.
kraig

It has been my belief that aside from the sexual connotations some men (my husband included) also derive a sense of emotional security and comfort when "suckling". You would never suspect this side of him from his physical appearance . . . my guy is a big man, someone totally in control of who he is and what he wants, but occasionally (particularly if he has had a stressful day) he will put his head in my lap or lie next to me in bed and take a tit in his mouth. We don't necessarily feel the need to talk, he'll just close his eyes and leisurely, quietly suck and caress my breasts while I stroke his hair.

Truth be told, I think I might enjoy these occasions more than him