Originally Posted by ChaseMePleez
I have heard from other sources that initiating a virgin is not enjoyable for a guy. Is this true? Are there any guys who would be willing to be my first? I want honest answers from anyone who chooses to reply.
It depends on the situation. Here's my view on it.
As fun as my sexual escapades have been, I have only taken one woman's virginity. And, I think I did it for the wrong reasons. We discussed the idea of doing it, and I thought it would bring us together. Instead, it took all the mystery out of our relationship and quickly faded afterwards.
I think it's all about getting to know the person first, and that the sex should be a bonus to the relationship, not the basis.
Maybe I'm off, maybe not. But that's the way I'm seeing it. BTW, I won't take another woman's virginity unless I'm absolutely sure it won't break the relationship.
Some of my words of wisdom:
"I'm afraid of heights, but never afraid to make a leap of faith!
"You get what you pay for, but quality always pays for itself."
"There's nothing more motivating, then vested self-interest.
I am 64.2% Pure;
How about you?
I do occasionally chat with ladies from time to time. If you're not interested, just say so. I'm sure you won't get a more honest or polite answer from many of the other boys here...