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Old 10-27-2012, 06:01 PM   #1
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How do you guys/gals who enjoy anal sex prep your self before insertion? I mean it could get pretty messy couldn't it? Weather you're using a dildo or a real cock, what are your methods to clean?

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Old 10-27-2012, 08:56 PM   #2
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Hi guys and gals.
How do you guys/gals who enjoy anal sex prep your self before insertion? I mean it could get pretty messy couldn't it? Weather you're using a dildo or a real cock, what are your methods to clean?

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Basic "douche" 2-3 times usually works, just like prepping for a colonoscopy
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Old 10-29-2012, 11:08 AM   #3
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Enema until it comes out clean.
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Old 10-29-2012, 12:15 PM   #4
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The recipient of said attention should go to the bathroom beforehand if they can (and a quick shower with a little extra attention 'back there' isn't a bad idea). Once the colon is empty you're mostly ok. If either party is a bit squeamish...

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Enema until it comes out clean.
But it's been my experience that enemas aren't always necessary.
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Old 10-29-2012, 12:23 PM   #5
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I've heard enemas can be a bit unhealthy.

I take a good long shower with a lot of attention back there. Before that shower I go to the bathroom. So far, I haven't had any problems.
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Old 10-29-2012, 12:43 PM   #6
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I've heard enemas can be a bit unhealthy.

I take a good long shower with a lot of attention back there. Before that shower I go to the bathroom. So far, I haven't had any problems.
If its a frequent (daily) practice you run the risk of washing out the 'good bacteria' that lives there and helps to break down some foods that the body is unable to break down on its own. The occasional enema done with clean water isn't generally considered to be harmful.

For what it's worth, the method you describe is also my preferred method and generally speaking gets the job done pretty well.
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Old 10-29-2012, 05:36 PM   #7
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I take a good long shower with a lot of attention back there. Before that shower I go to the bathroom. So far, I haven't had any problems.
Agreed Kat,

Unless your into the anema I dont see the need for it. A quick shower and a bit of lube and your on your way. Once your more experienced you wont even need that.
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Old 10-29-2012, 06:16 PM   #8
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Agreed, enema is overkill and generally not necessary.
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Agreed Kat,

Unless your into the anema I dont see the need for it. A quick shower and a bit of lube and your on your way. Once your more experienced you wont even need that.
No lube, really? I imagine that being so extremely painful and much more dangerous to tear something, no?
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Old 10-30-2012, 07:04 PM   #10
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No lube, really? I imagine that being so extremely painful and much more dangerous to tear something, no?
when i started play several years ago lube was nice but not necessary, now me and hubby can switch from vaginal to anal with no problem but if there was not anal foreplay he has to go slow. my wetness from the vaginal play works for me. the only thing that i stress to him is once it is in my butt it better finnish in their or by handjob, because i am not risking my vagina to the risks of strange infections and such.
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Old 10-31-2012, 08:12 AM   #11
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when i started play several years ago lube was nice but not necessary, now me and hubby can switch from vaginal to anal with no problem but if there was not anal foreplay he has to go slow. my wetness from the vaginal play works for me. the only thing that i stress to him is once it is in my butt it better finnish in their or by handjob, because i am not risking my vagina to the risks of strange infections and such.
We use anti batieria wipes when we go from back door to front door.

As for the messiness, If I know im going to be with my love, I try to make sure the day before I dont eat things that upsets my stomach. I do make sure I go to the bathroom before I see him and If i can go twice there is no mess. But it does happens sometimes. Its happened a few times to us. IM more embarassed than he is. We just clean up and dont speak about it.

As for lube, Depends on the moment. We use lube MOST of the time but alot of the time we dont need it. Usually the wetness from my kitty will give us all the lube we need. But do be careful. If you have any bleeding, keep a eye on it. It it gets more and more and doesnt seem its going to stop, it would be wise to go to the dr. You could have a rip that wont heal itself. I had a scare a few weeks ago afterwards, I started bleeding and I know I wasnt hurting during the anal sex or even after but I bled for the day, spotting mostly. We figure I had a small rip or a hemmroid up inside that I didnt know I had and we ruptured it. We didnt have anal sex for a few days until we thought I was healed.

Also I will do oral BEFORE it goes to the back door unless he is cleaned. That would just be nasty. lol Alot of people can enjoy anal without lube, your bottom just gets use to it i guess. It doesnt hurt. At least not to me. But I like alittle pain so..im ok with it lol
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I like a little pain too, but there's no way I'm having anal sex without at least some lube.
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Old 10-31-2012, 09:11 AM   #14
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No lube, really? I imagine that being so extremely painful and much more dangerous to tear something, no?
We never use lube--usually I've been sucking his cock before he puts it in my ass; or he spits on it. And I agree with some of other comments about enemas; I like the feel of the warm water, but my body just doesn't like enemas. Instead I just make sure I've gone to the bathroom a while before, and wash up with gentle soap. Unless you're gonna be shoving something a foot-and-a-half long way up your colon like some of the chicks I've seen on some porn sites, there's no need to be empty all the way up. . .
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Where is rbone04 when ya need him? There are several posts about this if you need more info.

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Old 10-31-2012, 02:31 PM   #18
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Thanks for all the info, this helps a bunch!

When you speak of paying special attention back there when you're taking a shower, are you washing just the outside or are you somehow washing inside?

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No lube, really? I imagine that being so extremely painful and much more dangerous to tear something, no?
Sorry I meant not artificial lube. A bit of spit or my own juices do the trick. Some positions are also easier than other.

My personal favourate is when we are spooning (i'm the little spoon.) and his cock presses up agaisnt my arse. His own precum is normally enough for it to slip in. I dont feel any pain, especially when he is sucking on my neck
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Thanks for all the info, this helps a bunch!

When you speak of paying special attention back there when you're taking a shower, are you washing just the outside or are you somehow washing inside?

Thanks again
Yeah, I usually get a finger a bit soapy, rub the outside but also slip it in--which is why I say gentle soap! Baby soap is great for it.
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Old 11-01-2012, 03:25 AM   #22
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I'm not sure there is really any point in slipping a soapy finger inside, unless there's going to be tongue action happening.
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I'm not sure there is really any point in slipping a soapy finger inside, unless there's going to be tongue action happening.
There is pretty much always tongue action preceding anal at my house!
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There is pretty much always tongue action preceding anal at my house!
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Old 11-01-2012, 09:26 PM   #25
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Yeah, I usually get a finger a bit soapy, rub the outside but also slip it in--which is why I say gentle soap! Baby soap is great for it.
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I'm not sure there is really any point in slipping a soapy finger inside, unless there's going to be tongue action happening.
Hmmm...licking a bar of soap, or licking the au naturale ass of a sensual goddess....much prefer the latter.

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