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Bieng collared: What Does It Mean To You?

I don't like the idea of a collar. But that's my own personal preference. Too much like being married! Haha!

Having said that, there's always a chance that I'll chance my mind or find someone strong enough to wrestle me down (im not talking just physically) and put a collar on me :)
 
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Bieng collared...

Ah. I wondererd when someone was going to mention that. ;)
 
Stella_Omega said:
Marriage?

A lot of people act like it's an engagement ring, at the very least.

Even grownups like to play house. ;)
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Hehe, I fought Master quite a lot about marriage. I was deeply unhappy with the idea, but he ordered me to marry him, when it came down to it. I was very happy with the way things were between us and felt that marriage put a different spin on things that made me uneasy.

I joke that we had a shotgun wedding because we were about to have a mortgage. :D I feel 'straight-people' guilt by saying this, but it was one of those one fell swoop things that just made all the legal crap about buying a house, wills, etc, one neat, simple ball of wax.
 
desertslave said:
Hehe, I fought Master quite a lot about marriage. I was deeply unhappy with the idea, but he ordered me to marry him, when it came down to it. I was very happy with the way things were between us and felt that marriage put a different spin on things that made me uneasy.

I joke that we had a shotgun wedding because we were about to have a mortgage. :D I feel 'straight-people' guilt by saying this, but it was one of those one fell swoop things that just made all the legal crap about buying a house, wills, etc, one neat, simple ball of wax.
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as many a trans woman lesbian has discovered, that het privilege comes in handy when they wants to marry or buy.

Which I say, good for them, that one thing works in their favor, and I'm sure many a justice of the peace wishes it didn't.
 
Stella_Omega said:
as many a trans woman lesbian has discovered, that het privilege comes in handy when they wants to marry or buy.

Which I say, good for them, that one thing works in their favor, and I'm sure many a justice of the peace wishes it didn't.
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It's one of the reasons that I'm adamantly pro-LGBT rights. I think it's absurd that one piece of paper issued by your county/state can bundle up so much legalese for some people, but not everyone. It's despicably, cruelly discriminatory.
 
Stella_Omega said:
Marriage?

A lot of people act like it's an engagement ring, at the very least.

Even grownups like to play house. ;)
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That's a large part of why I am so enamored with the idea at this point. I can't legally marry my Domme/girlfriend/whatever you wanna call her. The collar signifies permanence in the relationship for me...
 
desertslave said:
It's one of the reasons that I'm adamantly pro-LGBT rights. I think it's absurd that one piece of paper issued by your county/state can bundle up so much legalese for some people, but not everyone. It's despicably, cruelly discriminatory.
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So happy I live in a place where it is not an issue and is considered just as normal as it is for the straight community.

Catalina:rose:
 
Netzach said:
Depends where you live, also. Who you were hanging out with. A lot of older people I know are like "collar of consideration? training collar? tooth fairy! pixies! It's just a piece of leather that tells people you like it IN the butt." Without the internet people were even more fragmented than the are now, probably as to "how to do things."
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True, the internet has opened up a lot of knowledge sharing in the world.

LOL, on the topic of collaring, can't say we really had a collaring ceremony as such, at least not one where we invited people and followed a similar pattern as getting married in front of friends etc. It was done publicly, but not in such a way that anyone else noticed anything other than my being kissed and embraced passionately by a very handsome and sexy man.:) It holds meaning for us, and us alone...more so than our marriage vows and rings.

Catalina:rose:
 
desertslave said:
but he ordered me to marry him
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:) F also ordered me to marry him...on the phone no less, and before we had met in the flesh. In reality it surprised him as much as it did me as he was a confirmed bachelor type, and I had been burned once and remained single by choice for years following it. What was an even bigger surprise was that it didn't scare us, just seemed natural. 10 years on, we both agree, the whole decision to blend our lives in both marriage and M/s was the best either of us have made in our lives.

Catalina:rose:
 
For me, being collared means I belong to one man and one man alone. He agrees to protect me and comfort me, and in turn I pleasure him and do anything I have to to make him happy. It means I am his as much as he is mine.

As a matter of fact I just ordered a discreet public collar and I'm so excited to be able to wear a mark of his love in public.
 
I LOVE collars! Sometimes a ringed one with a leash in bed, or just a fashion one that reads SLUT, OWNED, or SISSY, when i go out.

I like advertising.
 
Bieng Collared...

I embrace my collar with pride. I am proud to wear my Mistress's collar. It was offered and I accepted. I see it as a symbol of my undying love and dedication for her. And I also need to add I am not worried about what others--especially those in the vanilla world--think about it. Thanks to all who have responded and added info.
 
One of the ladies who climbed on top of me Wednesday night was wearing a pretty rhinestone collar. I asked her: "Whose kitty are you?" but-- she was purring too hard to answer... :cattail:
 
Stella_Omega said:
One of the ladies who climbed on top of me Wednesday night was wearing a pretty rhinestone collar. I asked her: "Whose kitty are you?" but-- she was purring too hard to answer... :cattail:
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Lol...

I guess what I mean is that I would wear a collar as jewelry or fetishwear ~sorry if that offends some~ because I do find it to be fun and erotic. But I just don't want to be owned. As I've said before... you can be my top, my Dom, or my daddy, but you can't be my Master.

{{{{Plus with a bell, everyone would know when you were cumming cuz you'd jinngle}}}}:cattail:

I would love to have a pretty rhinestone collar. Sounds Prrrrfectly lovely!
 
Collared

I can understand that. Thats one thing about the LifeStyle you don't have to be owned. And that is your right to wear your collar that way. I personally see mine as a symbol of the relationship/bond I have with my Mistress. Kinda like a
promise or engagement ring. Too funny about the bell. :):cattail:
 
I think we've all gotten the picture.

Beck31 said:
For me personally my collar means my Mistress loves, respects, and trusts me to be...It kind of acts like a wedding ring of sorts. Reminds me who I belong to and to be faithful to my owner as much as possible.
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Beck31 said:
... collar keeps me in place and faithful 24/7.
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Beck31 said:
Mine just wasn't handed it. I had to earn it.
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Beck31 said:
. In my case I see my collar as a wedding ring
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Beck31 said:
I see it as a symbol of my undying love and dedication for her.
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Beck31 said:
I personally see mine as a symbol of the relationship/bond I have with my Mistress. Kinda like a
promise or engagement ring.
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Beck31 said:
I am still new at this and might not get everything 100% correct so please be patient.
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You've been getting a hella lot of patience so far, but nothing lasts forever.
 
Beck31 said:
I can understand that. Thats one thing about the LifeStyle you don't have to be owned. And that is your right to wear your collar that way. I personally see mine as a symbol of the relationship/bond I have with my Mistress. Kinda like a
promise or engagement ring. Too funny about the bell. :):cattail:
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Don'tcha just love having your bell rung?

I'll be here all day~~~~
 
collar means to that I'm owned and safe more than any wedding ring can bring as its a sign of your submission first and secondly a sign that your proud to be owned by a master :)
 
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