Married Women Who Fantasize About Girls

[2wet4words]

When I first conceived this thread, I deliberately chose the word Girls- not to convey youth or immaturity but to set it in apposition to Married Women. My thought was that when one is married, one defines oneself to a certain extent qua one's partner, one's man (before the married lesbians assail me as they have before, let me say that I am speaking generally with no value judgments, etc. etc.). My contention is that all women are girls, especially when they are together. A married woman who fantasizes about another married woman is usually not fantasizing about her husband or her prospective partner's husband but about being a girl with another girl.

I may be only 25 and not have all that much experience but I have met married women who are decidedly still girls. The problem is learning to let the inner girl out. When two married women, or a married woman and a single one, crush their breasts against each other, and make delicate love, they are being girls together. That's what i meant when I used the term.

Girl love is qualitatively different from man/woman love, at least in my limited experience. I have only been with one guy really and I love him desperately. But there is some girlish aspect of my being that can only be realized when I am in the embrace of another girl.

Vive la difference!

Amy

[Shy_Megan]

hi alyssa, what would you like to know?

[turner28]

I am married and not afraid to admit that I have thought about it and would like to try it.

I fantasize about it and other things.

ET

[mrsbi]

I like to fantasize about the women (girls) I meet! What they are wearing under the clothes, what they would be like it bed! How hard would I have to try to seduce one to my bed. Things like that with varying extremes depending on the day and the girl!

[vrosej10]

I'm happily married and bisexual and the ladies do cross my mind, especially when I see a random hotty...

[PublicAffection]

Originally Posted by vrosej10

I'm happily married and bisexual and the ladies do cross my mind, especially when I see a random hotty...

Random hotties are the best.

[sapphic_cowgirl]

Girl Love is so much hotter than girl/guy love...well most of the time!! Agree with 2wet4words, girl love is qualitatively different and that is why I like so much!!!

[vrosej10]

Originally Posted by PublicAffection

Random hotties are the best.

A random hotty can make you're day. I actually tend to see more females that I fancy around about because although I am a 50/50 bi, I have very specific tastes in men. I kind of like the girl next door thing, sweet as pie and I have been grooving on redheads lately. I really love Jessica on True Blood. Toasting hot vampire that one.

[ClassyGirl]

God, i'd love to be seduced by a married woman.

[maggiemarie]

Originally Posted by ClassyGirl

God, i'd love to be seduced by a married woman.

I'm guessing you're not going to have much trouble finding someone willing to help you here

[ClassyGirl]

Originally Posted by maggiemarie

I'm guessing you're not going to have much trouble finding someone willing to help you here

Well, i'm sure I wouldn't if I were looking, but sadly, i'll have to wait until i'm single for any experimental escapades.

[hottalyssa]

maybe we could chat sometime....

Originally Posted by Shy_Megan

hi alyssa, what would you like to know?

[boredVAwife]

Originally Posted by mrsbi

So just have to ask, what is everyones fantasy?

I have met an incredible woman that is so sexy and more than a bit naughty (met her on Lit) and she keeps my imagination going when we talk. I am hoping we get to meet this spring and I have had so many fantasies with her it is difficult to pin down just one. I just want an evening together to do all of it or none of it, doesnt really matter. I would be more than satisfied just to nibble on her while exploring her luscious bod. In most of my fantasies I am lost just enjoying her wicked smile and wonderful eyes. I too like so many on this thread am married and may never have the blessing of my husband to explore but am working on it. For the ladies that have husbands that are either aroused at the thought of their wife being bi or are not threatened at the prospect of sharing, you are truly lucky indeed. My husband is making great strides to understanding what goes on inside my head (not that I am always sure) and hopefully soon I will be able to explore more of my bi fantasies and not have to keep it so secret.

[vrosej10]

I'm married to the only hetero guy on the planet that is not turned on by the lesbian thing! But I am first and foremost monogamous. I grew up in an area with a huge number of open marriages and my parents were in one (my father was gay and a rampant biphobic; takes one to know one I say!). It never ended well. I love my husband. I just love pussy too. I'm cool.

[boredVAwife]

I can assure you that sadly you don't have the only husband like that dear. We may belong to a rather exclusive club however. Mine may get there eventually but at the moment is still digesting the info about me being bi.

[vrosej10]

It's weird, maybe there's some reason why we pick the ones who aren't into it. Mine was informed when we first met that I wasn't as straight as him (100% hetero) but I have only just recently come out in the last year or so. Everyone around me knew before I said . I got sick of being half a person and my writing here and in other places was giving me away as less than straight (I tend to write erotic poetry only about women).

[boredVAwife]

I had been with a few girls in college but made the mistake of keeping it from my husband while we dated and all thru the years we have been married. I should have been more open about my own desires years ago. I don't think it would have made any difference then but all these years later it is an issue and I do understand why. I am bound and determined to help him to realize however that it is possible for a woman to love a man with everything she has and for him not to be threatened by an occasional female interaction. Well, that is my goal anyway.

[lisa_s62]

Originally Posted by boredVAwife

I had been with a few girls in college but made the mistake of keeping it from my husband while we dated and all thru the years we have been married. I should have been more open about my own desires years ago. I don't think it would have made any difference then but all these years later it is an issue and I do understand why. I am bound and determined to help him to realize however that it is possible for a woman to love a man with everything she has and for him not to be threatened by an occasional female interaction. Well, that is my goal anyway.

sigh - you are not alone

[hottalyssa]

we sound so much alike. i too had my first experience in college. denying the truth, i even married to "forget" those feelings. i eventually succumbed to me desires and started a two year affair with a very special lady. my biggest mistake....not telling my now ex husband how i felt. one day he came home early and caught us. as if that wasnt bad enough, he walked in as she was using her favorite strap on, and i was telling her how much better she was than my husband. he frewaked out and the marriage eventually dissolved......
my advice, tell your husbands how you feel.even if you dont understand your feelings, discuss them with him.

Originally Posted by boredVAwife

I had been with a few girls in college but made the mistake of keeping it from my husband while we dated and all thru the years we have been married. I should have been more open about my own desires years ago. I don't think it would have made any difference then but all these years later it is an issue and I do understand why. I am bound and determined to help him to realize however that it is possible for a woman to love a man with everything she has and for him not to be threatened by an occasional female interaction. Well, that is my goal anyway.

[PublicAffection]

Originally Posted by hottalyssa

we sound so much alike. i too had my first experience in college. denying the truth, i even married to "forget" those feelings. i eventually succumbed to me desires and started a two year affair with a very special lady. my biggest mistake....not telling my now ex husband how i felt. one day he came home early and caught us. as if that wasnt bad enough, he walked in as she was using her favorite strap on, and i was telling her how much better she was than my husband. he frewaked out and the marriage eventually dissolved......
my advice, tell your husbands how you feel.even if you dont understand your feelings, discuss them with him.

Secrets can cause so much pain. It pains me to know that you had to go through this. (hugs) You are right, even though it can be uncomfortable or awkward to try to express feelings, it is so much easier to handle than maintaining such a big secret.

[Honeyjar]

Wow...how could I miss this thread? I really ought to pay more attention.
For me I have the best husband, we enjoy a sensational sex life but yes, I find girl porn such a yummy turn on!
Would I actually do it? I don't know, perhaps for now it is just that, a fantasy.

[boredVAwife]

Originally Posted by PublicAffection

Secrets can cause so much pain. It pains me to know that you had to go through this. (hugs) You are right, even though it can be uncomfortable or awkward to try to express feelings, it is so much easier to handle than maintaining such a big secret.

You are so right. Secrets are painful in so many ways. The sneaking around and just the burden of lying. I had gotten to the point where I literally hated myself for what I was doing. I was involved with a wonderful lady for a few months and simply had to tell my husband about what was inside of me. Had I been upfront he would have accepted me or we would never have been. Either way I would still be me and not lying and hiding. My marriage is more important to me than my bi relationship but it was painful. I have agreed to keep my relationships cyber for now until he gets comfortable with the idea and I suspect he will eventually see that our love and my bi desires are 2 entirely different emotions. Until then I am grateful for an outlet like this forum and ladies to share with.

[Saphs]

I've explored online with married women, but never in reality. It's something I'd love to do! I'd love to be with an older woman.

[PublicAffection]

Love your AV Saphs!

[Honeyjar]

Originally Posted by Saphs

I've explored online with married women, but never in reality. It's something I'd love to do! I'd love to be with an older woman.

Yes, I have had a wonderful time on here masturbating with other women. I love it. I just don't know if I could do it for real.