Strap-on Recommendations?
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TooKinkyCpleWV
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Wife and I have used the harnes types and they are ok. They seem tough to get comfortable for the lady especially if she is anything larger than a size 6. The one we use now is the Doc Johnson vac-u-lok harness. My wifes hips are in the 42" range. She can wear this one but it is not entirely comfortable.
Other than the comfort issue the vac-u-lok system is awesome. It allows you to swap different sizez and shapes easily. Over all we have enjoyed our time with this one.
HOWEVER: This is what we are looking to try soon.
http://www.literotica.com/adult_store/
Do a search for the Feeldoe.
This system looks outrageously sensual. We are wanting to get one soon. The steep price tag is really the only obstacle. We have found them for as low as $75bucks.
Hope this helps and good luck.
Other than the comfort issue the vac-u-lok system is awesome. It allows you to swap different sizez and shapes easily. Over all we have enjoyed our time with this one.
HOWEVER: This is what we are looking to try soon.
http://www.literotica.com/adult_store/
Do a search for the Feeldoe.
This system looks outrageously sensual. We are wanting to get one soon. The steep price tag is really the only obstacle. We have found them for as low as $75bucks.
Hope this helps and good luck.
ApprenticeApril
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This was not our first harness, but by far the favorite.
http://www.extremerestraints.com/the-4-strap-ultimate-dildo-harness_1297.html
The leather is smooth (and smells good), the straps make it fully adjustable so it can fit almost anyone, and the buckels aren't nearly as intimidating as they look. It comes with two rings of different sizes, very quick and easy to change out. (Rings increase the dildo selection to go with exponentially) Plus, different sizes are easy to come by and don't cost a lot in case you need more.
If you want a picture of what it actually looks like, versus the store one, message me.
I am an avid fan of this one, for real.
http://www.extremerestraints.com/the-4-strap-ultimate-dildo-harness_1297.html
The leather is smooth (and smells good), the straps make it fully adjustable so it can fit almost anyone, and the buckels aren't nearly as intimidating as they look. It comes with two rings of different sizes, very quick and easy to change out. (Rings increase the dildo selection to go with exponentially) Plus, different sizes are easy to come by and don't cost a lot in case you need more.
If you want a picture of what it actually looks like, versus the store one, message me.
I am an avid fan of this one, for real.
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Hi there, the search function of the forum will lead you to a lot of interesting things about this topic!
I usually post my own response to this but instead I will just link to it because it's already published on Lit many times already. I update this page every so often so it should have pretty current info.
http://snipurl.com/straponadvice
I usually post my own response to this but instead I will just link to it because it's already published on Lit many times already. I update this page every so often so it should have pretty current info.
http://snipurl.com/straponadvice
Thanks for the replies, everyone.
After looking around, and taking into acount all of the aforementioned suggestions, I still find myself very unsure of what is for me. I guess that is something only I can decide however.
As it is, there doesn't seem to be too robust of a selection of double headed dildos available. The Nexus and Feeldoe both came up. I think that the Feeldoe looks very promising, but am worried whether or not it would actually work as advertised. The Nexus would certainly work with an appropriate harness, but I'm not sure if it'll provide enough stimulation for the wearer on its own. It does seem to have a spot to insert bullet vibrators however... At least, I think it does. Some of those item descriptions are rather vague.
It looks like I'll have to settle for something a little on the abstract side too. None of the dildo/harness combinations I could find seem to be very friendly toward more realistic looking dongs. :\
After looking around, and taking into acount all of the aforementioned suggestions, I still find myself very unsure of what is for me. I guess that is something only I can decide however.
As it is, there doesn't seem to be too robust of a selection of double headed dildos available. The Nexus and Feeldoe both came up. I think that the Feeldoe looks very promising, but am worried whether or not it would actually work as advertised. The Nexus would certainly work with an appropriate harness, but I'm not sure if it'll provide enough stimulation for the wearer on its own. It does seem to have a spot to insert bullet vibrators however... At least, I think it does. Some of those item descriptions are rather vague.
It looks like I'll have to settle for something a little on the abstract side too. None of the dildo/harness combinations I could find seem to be very friendly toward more realistic looking dongs. :\
Etoile
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Ah, you mean the balls not fitting through the O-ring? Or what else do you mean?
sterculius
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My wife and I like the corsette harness. It's very secure and best of all you can change the O-ring to accommodate different size dildos. We have both the feeldoe and nexus but weren't very impressed with either one. My personal favorite is the Jeff Stryker ultra realistic skin dildo. It feels like a real cock when I deep throat it and is stiff enough to penetrate my ass but not so hard as to be uncomfortable. It is very big but there are smaller dildos of the same type of realistic material. My wife likes the feeling of an egg style of vibrator in her pussy as the base of the dildo rubs against her clit.
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Julie_in_the_north
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We have a Feeldoe - we got it a couple of months ago, mainly because we were really keen to have something which didn't need a harness.
It has plus and minus points. It looks good on the wearer - primarily because there's no distracting harness.
It's made of silicone, so it doesn't smell manufactured or artificial.
Both ends feel nice inside you - they're both specifically designed for the vagina, and they've done a reasonably good job. The wearer's end is one of the best I've come across - lots of really smooth but firm contact with your clitoris.
But does it work - it having no straps? I'd give it a seven out of ten. You can do a lot with it, but the wearer's end will sometimes wiggle itself out, or feel unstable enough you need to interfere with your hands to keep it in place. It depends on the position. If the wearer's underneath, and her partner's on top, riding it, it's lovely.
The definitive test, perhaps, is whether both of you can orgasm at the same time while using it - and more often than not, we manage to do that.
It has plus and minus points. It looks good on the wearer - primarily because there's no distracting harness.
It's made of silicone, so it doesn't smell manufactured or artificial.
Both ends feel nice inside you - they're both specifically designed for the vagina, and they've done a reasonably good job. The wearer's end is one of the best I've come across - lots of really smooth but firm contact with your clitoris.
But does it work - it having no straps? I'd give it a seven out of ten. You can do a lot with it, but the wearer's end will sometimes wiggle itself out, or feel unstable enough you need to interfere with your hands to keep it in place. It depends on the position. If the wearer's underneath, and her partner's on top, riding it, it's lovely.
The definitive test, perhaps, is whether both of you can orgasm at the same time while using it - and more often than not, we manage to do that.
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The demo they had on the website seemed to show that it was a little (too?) soft. Would it be good for anal play?
Etoile
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A little soft is actually much more enjoyable in my experience. Most cheap vinyl dildos are completely inflexible. A little soft is more realistic. And yes, it would work fine.
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The soft one's are very nice and fit well too. You might try Seeking O they also have a nice selection. This thread is making me hard! Any one wanna fuck my ass ~~~~~
~~~~~Julie_in_the_north
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Yes, they're good for anal sex. The slightly softer, more malleable, texture feels nice.
Sorry about the delayed response. My computer decided to die on me some time ago and I just now could afford a new one. Anyway, that "Goodfella" does look right up my alley (so to speak, hehe). With that and the right harness I'd only need to find a good vibrator to keep the wearer entertained. This sure is getting expensive, hehe. Thanks!
We have a feeldoe too. And you're right, it is a bit harder on the driver (me LOL). I have a hard time keeping it in unless my wife goes cowgirl. I'm determined to master it though because when she does go cowgirl it is intense!! To have her be able to get almost skin on skin while I'm in her with nothing between us (harness) is indescribable.
