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DreamSensualist said:
But how am I to incorporate this in my service to my Je t’aime? This is the question. I am naturally rambunctious. I have a “spirit” about me that I do not want to hide, and yet I long to worship & service him in this disarming way. I have no heritage that gives me the right to claim a Geisha Consciousness, but I do have the inner desire to serve and so emulate the my identification of the Geisha into my submission to him. And so I have started to ponder exactly how I would do this, in a way that is my own, our own way of loving.

Let me give an example. A ritualistic washing. Please imagine that I have somehow shifted out of my rambunctiousness and am in a more gentle, pensive & “adoring” mood.

Many of the tasks I would need to perform would be in preparation. The drawing of the bath, ensuring that the water was hot, scalding hot because I know he likes to see the steam rise from his skin, and because I don’t want the water to cool to a chilly temperature before I have finished. Lighting of the candles, with a soft vanilla scent, noting too overpowering though, as well as burning sandalwood incense. Turning on some soft background music, possible even just the sound of rain or waves. And I of course would not forget to make sure that I was presented appropriately; if he wished to look upon me that I must be a vision worth beholding. This is about him, and as such everything must be to his liking, including me. Ensuring that I have everything I need close at hand. While I would be excited to be able to offer him this service, I would set myself enough time, be sure that I could be prepared in time, and use this opportunity to slowly slip into a mind space where the only part of the world that existed for me was the bathroom and him.

Although I have imagined segments of this in details, others less clear, I will not take you through all of the steps. Just know that every action, movement & thought would be studied, calm, focused on him.

I would undress him, slowly & sensually, kneeling before him to remove his jeans form around his feet & placing his garments neatly to the side. Kiss the memorabilia that he wears on a chain around his neck before slipping it over his head and reverently placing that also to the side.

The water is clear and steamy as he slowly sinks into it, letting his skin build a tolerance to the heat. As he lays back and closes his eyes I take a shower puff and later it with a soft subtle soap, no overpowering scent, just a fresh warm aroma to delight him. Special attention would be paid to every part of his body, his feet & toes, making sure not to miss along the sides of his ribs and down his back. Then taking an urn of some sort I would pour clean water over his body to rinse away the suds. I would ensure that I did this on a regular basis to keep his skin steamy & warm. Once he was clean & relaxed I would see to his comfort, using folded towels to support his neck of need be, and position myself so that I could give him a long, slow & through scalp massage, circling his temples with my fingertips, stroking his jaw line, pulling the tension back from his forehead and applying pressure along his neck at the base of his skull and down his vertebrae.

Before he fell asleep I would help him step out & cover him with the largest fluffy bath sheet I could find, holding the warmth in his body. With another towel I would dry every inch of his body, kneeling to dry his legs, and standing behind him, my body pressed against his to dry the nape of his neck.
Leading him to his bed I would pull back the covers that I had placed so I could do so gracefully, and once he was settled, slip unassumingly in beside him, snuggling & making small comfort noises just to be so close to him.
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This is lovely...and smokin' hot
 
DreamSensualist said:
But how am I to incorporate this in my service to my Je t’aime? This is the question. I am naturally rambunctious. I have a “spirit” about me that I do not want to hide, and yet I long to worship & service him in this disarming way. I have no heritage that gives me the right to claim a Geisha Consciousness, but I do have the inner desire to serve and so emulate the my identification of the Geisha into my submission to him. And so I have started to ponder exactly how I would do this, in a way that is my own, our own way of loving.

Let me give an example. A ritualistic washing. Please imagine that I have somehow shifted out of my rambunctiousness and am in a more gentle, pensive & “adoring” mood.

Many of the tasks I would need to perform would be in preparation. The drawing of the bath, ensuring that the water was hot, scalding hot because I know he likes to see the steam rise from his skin, and because I don’t want the water to cool to a chilly temperature before I have finished. Lighting of the candles, with a soft vanilla scent, noting too overpowering though, as well as burning sandalwood incense. Turning on some soft background music, possible even just the sound of rain or waves. And I of course would not forget to make sure that I was presented appropriately; if he wished to look upon me that I must be a vision worth beholding. This is about him, and as such everything must be to his liking, including me. Ensuring that I have everything I need close at hand. While I would be excited to be able to offer him this service, I would set myself enough time, be sure that I could be prepared in time, and use this opportunity to slowly slip into a mind space where the only part of the world that existed for me was the bathroom and him.

Although I have imagined segments of this in details, others less clear, I will not take you through all of the steps. Just know that every action, movement & thought would be studied, calm, focused on him.

I would undress him, slowly & sensually, kneeling before him to remove his jeans form around his feet & placing his garments neatly to the side. Kiss the memorabilia that he wears on a chain around his neck before slipping it over his head and reverently placing that also to the side.

The water is clear and steamy as he slowly sinks into it, letting his skin build a tolerance to the heat. As he lays back and closes his eyes I take a shower puff and later it with a soft subtle soap, no overpowering scent, just a fresh warm aroma to delight him. Special attention would be paid to every part of his body, his feet & toes, making sure not to miss along the sides of his ribs and down his back. Then taking an urn of some sort I would pour clean water over his body to rinse away the suds. I would ensure that I did this on a regular basis to keep his skin steamy & warm. Once he was clean & relaxed I would see to his comfort, using folded towels to support his neck of need be, and position myself so that I could give him a long, slow & through scalp massage, circling his temples with my fingertips, stroking his jaw line, pulling the tension back from his forehead and applying pressure along his neck at the base of his skull and down his vertebrae.

Before he fell asleep I would help him step out & cover him with the largest fluffy bath sheet I could find, holding the warmth in his body. With another towel I would dry every inch of his body, kneeling to dry his legs, and standing behind him, my body pressed against his to dry the nape of his neck.
Leading him to his bed I would pull back the covers that I had placed so I could do so gracefully, and once he was settled, slip unassumingly in beside him, snuggling & making small comfort noises just to be so close to him.
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Love this post.. DS... Twysted is one lucky Dom.. ;)
 
Netzach said:
I've got it. Bushido for male subs. Tea ceremony, spiny armor and all.
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My LDR studied Bushido. I highly recommend it for every man. He became much more balanced once he started studying it. The martial arts side helped with that testosterone overload and the arts side seemed to make him more balanced and centered.
 
DreamSensualist said:
But how am I to incorporate this in my service to my Je t’aime? This is the question. I am naturally rambunctious. I have a “spirit” about me that I do not want to hide, and yet I long to worship & service him in this disarming way. I have no heritage that gives me the right to claim a Geisha Consciousness, but I do have the inner desire to serve and so emulate the my identification of the Geisha into my submission to him. And so I have started to ponder exactly how I would do this, in a way that is my own, our own way of loving.

Let me give an example. A ritualistic washing.

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Very nice post and lovely description of the emotion going into the ritualistic washing. I totally love that idea, by the way, and it is definetly something I always though I would love to do and incorporate when having the chance.

Now that I think of it, in the pre-kidlets & pre-D/s era, I used to fix Hubby's bath (he prefers showers now). Not so much ritual, but always making sure that everything was ready, soaps, cloth, a dry towel ready, and when in the mood I would even wash his back.

And I also used to give him shoulder and back massages. Still do, although much more rarely do to time constrain.

Anyway, I think that it is very nice that you are trying to incorporate the essence in your own way and making it your own. It is the only way it can feel sincere and "soulful" (心を込めて　kokoro wo komete) and not mere empty formality.

:rose:
 
When training my subs, I like them to try and identify with several different ideas. One being that of the Geisha. To carry themselves with the poise and charm of the Geisha. I find that this helps alot of my subs to begin to understand true submission beyond just the sexual kinkyness of BDSM. I also like to train them to be as graceful and sensual as the BellyDancer, and Stong and feirce as the Celtic Warrioress. >;]
 
DreamSensualist said:
Wow, I should be a kick-ass sub then considering I have started taking belly-dance lessons & I have a stromg celtic heritage in addition to more reading on Geisha! And I'm kinky!
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It's endearing to see you realize all of these things I fell in love with long ago.

Why do you think I love that spirit so? Fierce. Undaunted. Bursting with strength and energy. But balanced and tempered with the need for calming, centering service and submission.
Knowing how it strengthens, caresses, attends to the bond that is shared between us.
Seeing it's appreciation realized and manifested in my words, my actions towards you in return.
Your dancing....we will most definitely see. Service? Entertainment? Pleasant company and conversation? These are the things you wish to aspire to?
You have most if not all of them already within you.
We simply need to draw them out.
You are missed. You are loved.


Votre présence est manquée. C'est nécessaire. Votre endroit par mon côté a très envie de vous le remplir.
Je vous aime babydoll. :rose:
 
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They say Shinto, meditation, and all them super strict rituals are what allow the Japanese workers to live with the high stress levels they have. I wonder if that stress is relived through the elements off having your actions laid out, seeing how you are just a small part off the world, and trying to remove all off your own desires, which are all parts off these rituals.
 
I think anime, drugs, and multicolored hair are how they're coping now.
 
Netzach said:
I think anime, drugs, and multicolored hair are how they're coping now.
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Drugs where much wider spread in the 80's, and its fluffy hair, not multicolored.

Interestingly enough, Shinto is probably the thing that keeps going no matter the times.
 
Netzach said:
I think anime, drugs, and multicolored hair are how they're coping now.
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Don't forget alcohol, gambling, porn & fetishes ;)

YourCaptor said:
Drugs where much wider spread in the 80's, and its fluffy hair, not multicolored.

Interestingly enough, Shinto is probably the thing that keeps going no matter the times.
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Once somebody told me that Japanese are born Shinto, marry Catholic and die Buddhist.
 
Was thinking on this further.

Where else but in a D/s relationship could one really experience that level of desire required for such quality attentiveness?

I was thinking back to all of my 'nilla relationships and how devoid they were by comparrison.
Very few of those past individuals had it in them to be or to make themselves as available to meet that level of devotion.

No, I think you would need to have that passion already be a driving, burning need inside the one who loves you and who uses that love to ignite that need to give of themselves and to service you to such a degree.


~ C'est pourquoi je ne souhaite pas cette attention d'un autre alors vous babydoll. ~
 
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twysted73 said:
Was thinking on this further.

Where else but in a D/s relationship could one really experience that level of desire required for such quality attentiveness?

I was thinking back to all of my 'nilla relationships and how devoid they were by comparrison.
Very few of those past individuals had it in them to be or to make themselves as available to meet that level of devotion.

No, I think you would need to have that passion already be a driving, burning need inside the one who loves you and who uses that love to ignite that need to give of themselves and to service you to such a degree.


~ C'est pourquoi je ne souhaite pas cette attention d'un autre alors vous babydoll. ~
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Very true Twysted.. I agree with you... I think that you can only find the devotion from that in a D/s relationship and the powerful love... I so agree with you .. :heart:
 
Not sure if either of you know about this or not, but it seems that if you are very serious about taking training, the Asakusa district might have a house that will take you as a student.
 
I know a young lady in her late 20s from Europe who this thread reminds me of, even though she is not Asian. She is sexy and erotic in everything that she does, the way she speaks, moves, dances, dresses, it is a huge turn on and the men just fall completely under her spell. She has moved away unfortunately. It is so rare to meet a girl like this. She is also gorgeous, looks like this girl but just a bit older in a lovely way:
http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=29241659&postcount=283

If this charm can be taught I'd like to meet more graduates. I should start a finishing school, LOL! :devil:
 
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