HerLittlePiggy
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Mar 13, 2007
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- 351
I am a man with a strong affection for BDSM. I am switch but with a definite submissive tilt which is counter to my outward everyday personality. Several years ago while in a relationship with a woman who was the opposite of me (switch, domme tilt who acted more sub in everyday life) I experienced an epiphany of sorts. We would often play with toys and she would at times have me suck a strap on and we talked about but she never actually fucked me with a strap on.
One night whilst in the throws of passion she asked me if I would suck her strap on if it was on another person. We often talked about bringing another woman or couple into our bed but we broke up before we ever had the chance to do so. I of course said yes. In my mind I pictured her and another woman wearing a strap on. Then she asked me even if it was on a guy. We had both agreed that guy/guy stuff did nothing for us but I knew instantly where she was going. I asked her if she wanted to see me with another guy. She admitted she did and asked if I would consider it. I told her I might under the right circumstances. It was a strange revelation for me because I had honestly never considered it before that. We discussed and it became a common topic when we talked about fantasies.
In the years since I have come to terms that I am likely a bisexual man. My question is how accepted is bisexuality in the BDSM life style. I know that female bisexuality is openly accepted and often encouraged but the other way I suspect it it not as much so. Lately my fantasies have been both femdom and even being dominated by a man.
One night whilst in the throws of passion she asked me if I would suck her strap on if it was on another person. We often talked about bringing another woman or couple into our bed but we broke up before we ever had the chance to do so. I of course said yes. In my mind I pictured her and another woman wearing a strap on. Then she asked me even if it was on a guy. We had both agreed that guy/guy stuff did nothing for us but I knew instantly where she was going. I asked her if she wanted to see me with another guy. She admitted she did and asked if I would consider it. I told her I might under the right circumstances. It was a strange revelation for me because I had honestly never considered it before that. We discussed and it became a common topic when we talked about fantasies.
In the years since I have come to terms that I am likely a bisexual man. My question is how accepted is bisexuality in the BDSM life style. I know that female bisexuality is openly accepted and often encouraged but the other way I suspect it it not as much so. Lately my fantasies have been both femdom and even being dominated by a man.