PM asshattery

It's too bad there are some women who are so damn horny that they don't realize asshats like the ones we expose are only focused on one thing ... their dicks.

Maybe it's my age. Maybe it's because I've been through so much bullshit with men in the past that I'd rather do without than settling.

Then again, sex chat/phone sex with men I don't know isn't my thing. Plus, I have the most wonderful man and lover in my life. I often joke with him that he should give lessons in being a gentleman, seduction, and being an awesome sex partner.


I've never settled, i'm with you on that one!

It's not my thing either, i've never gotten into the "pretend" sex. Even when i was single, i was a "go getter" there was too much willing sex for me to have ever sat and typed some "oooh ahhh" bullshit. But that's just me. I guess some need that..

I have who i need and want in my life.

I've shown him some of the pm's ive gotten or the disgusting posts off my thread. He's even said "i'm embarrassed to be a guy right now"..he's even gotten creeped out.

There are some good guys on here, i've met a few..too few though.
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Mr EmptybigD,

You say you will learn from your mistake. But I was wondering if you actually unlearn things as you reverse-age. You appear to be growing younger at the alarming rate of one year every three months or so.

Does the wisdom and amassed knowledge of a lifetime diminish along with your wrinkles and swollen prostate? Or are you in fact capable of learning from your mistakes, and becoming a better, more polite, and wiser fellow, even as your sad, dangly testes slowly inch back to their original scrotal glory?
And you,Emerson and Rand are a fool.You have no idea of who I am nor what I have done.Sooner than you realize you too will be old with a weak bladder and fading eyesight.But the difference between you in the future and myself now is that twenty years from now you will still be a fool.
 
And you,Emerson and Rand are a fool.You have no idea of who I am nor what I have done.Sooner than you realize you too will be old with a weak bladder and fading eyesight.But the difference between you in the future and myself now is that twenty years from now you will still be a fool.

We can only judge your character by what you've shown us here.

If you show us your ass, by sending asshat PMs, what else are we supposed to think?

If you really aren't a bad person, prove it. Be above it. Apologize like an adult for your mistake and move on, instead of insulting the people who are calling you out for showing your ass.
 
why satindesire, sure you aren't advocating people own their behavior and comportment like rational adults?!

ed
 
I debated exposing this asshat's name since "she" has been blocked from a number of threads soliciting PM's like this:

asshatpretendingtobeawoman said:
xxxxx here from xxxxxxxx----my husband is working and i am here all alone-----please pm me me
 
I am 34 and my story tells it all. I put a link to it in my signature and they just can't seem to read.


Sig. quote: I don't exchange pic's. or role play.

Asshatt: Do you want to get together so I can lick your sweet ass?



Come on guys! Learn to read and learn some freakin' respect if you want girls to stay here! A little respect can go a long way and may keep you off of someones ignore list!


I'm thinking alot of these asshats prob weren't taught any manners, or know about respect..


My profile is as blunt as it can be, but i still get the typical dumbass PM:

"I want to make you my bitch, i need a slut to fuck and cum on"

Seriously:rolleyes: My profile is "bitch" free LoL i swear, toddlers have better comprehension skills than these losers.
 
I'm thinking alot of these asshats prob weren't taught any manners, or know about respect..
See, I kinda disagree with this. I think that most of the asshats featured on this thread likely don't have major problems with manners and respect IRL. The problem is that on pseudonymous Internet forums, it's easy for people to forget that there's a person behind the username, particularly on a sexually-oriented forum like Lit.

It's true, though, that some people are asshats no matter what. :)
 
And you,Emerson and Rand are a fool.You have no idea of who I am nor what I have done.Sooner than you realize you too will be old with a weak bladder and fading eyesight.But the difference between you in the future and myself now is that twenty years from now you will still be a fool.

So your definition of a fool is someone who points out your shortcomings? I suppose that makes everyone a fool. Except you, of course.

No, we don't know who you are or what you have done, other than make wildly inaccurate assumptions about women, and act like a total ponce. Here's a tip, these screen names you make such assumptions over, represent people. Real people, and they are worthy of respect.

I very much realize time robs us of physical health and prowess, but what you do not seem to realize is that one's character has the wonderful opportunity to grow as we get older, to weave into it our experiences and hopefully those few grains of wisdom we find along the way.

Sadly, your character seems to be about as strong as your bladder and as far-seeing as your eyesight. But that can change, should you will it.

The choice is yours.
 
See, I kinda disagree with this. I think that most of the asshats featured on this thread likely don't have major problems with manners and respect IRL. The problem is that on pseudonymous Internet forums, it's easy for people to forget that there's a person behind the username, particularly on a sexually-oriented forum like Lit.

It's true, though, that some people are asshats no matter what. :)


*Shrugs* i don't know, maybe. But i think some are just ignorant and disrespectful from the jump though..and they stay that way..

And for sure they are Eilan!
 
While I definitely agree that some people are just asshats, I tend to believe that most people hiding behind an anonymous screen name and monitor probably take advantage of the anonymity to engage in poor manners that would get their asses kicked at home. I'd bet money that they'd never EVER consider speaking to their wives the way they speak to the ladies of Lit. I'll even go a bit farther and say that I bet they're pussy-whipped to the nth degree - and take their frustrations and secret desires out on the women of Lit - or wherever else they tend to hide online.
 
While I definitely agree that some people are just asshats, I tend to believe that most people hiding behind an anonymous screen name and monitor probably take advantage of the anonymity to engage in poor manners that would get their asses kicked at home. I'd bet money that they'd never EVER consider speaking to their wives the way they speak to the ladies of Lit. I'll even go a bit farther and say that I bet they're pussy-whipped to the nth degree - and take their frustrations and secret desires out on the women of Lit - or wherever else they tend to hide online.

I suspect a lot of these men don't want their wives to be sexually evolved in any way. They probably want their wives to be the wholesome mom types ... the types that are involved in the PTA and cook the holiday dinners for their extended families. Then they complain that their wives don't want indulge in their kinks and fetishes are. Some (like my ex-live-in boyfriend) don't even think of sharing their fantasies with their significant others.

I'm extremely lucky that I have a special man in my life with whom I share a very open line of communication about everything ... and not just sex. There are some kinks I have an interest in that he doesn't, but it's OK. They're not deal breakers. I wouldn't want him any other way.
 
I suspect a lot of these men don't want their wives to be sexually evolved in any way. They probably want their wives to be the wholesome mom types ... the types that are involved in the PTA and cook the holiday dinners for their extended families. Then they complain that their wives don't want indulge in their kinks and fetishes are. Some (like my ex-live-in boyfriend) don't even think of sharing their fantasies with their significant others.

I'm extremely lucky that I have a special man in my life with whom I share a very open line of communication about everything ... and not just sex. There are some kinks I have an interest in that he doesn't, but it's OK. They're not deal breakers. I wouldn't want him any other way.
The old "you marry a lady, but you sleep with a tramp" double standard? You could be right. If so, they deserve the hell that they've found themselves in. They created it.

How many men do you know who would dare say the things these asshats say to you in real life? I'm personally very easy-going, a big joker, and an even bigger flirt. My male friends know I won't take offense at anything they say. They STILL won't say things that obnoxious to me. I've had a few who have taken flirting to a level that's either obnoxious or downright creepy, but even those men have a certain line they won't cross. I can't help but think the men who write these degrading PMs are spineless, ball-less pigs. They're depending on the anonymity of the internet to give them a pair that they don't have in real life.

It's really kind of sad. It's almost like a virtual Viagra. Instead of getting a hard on, however, they think they're making themselves into a real man. Nothing could be farther from the truth. They're showing themselves for the emotional eunuchs that they really are.

We've been saying it consistently through this thread, so they won't listen to this now either. I'll try anyway. Asshats, I mean men, if you want to pick up a woman on Literotica? I have a hint for you; it works much the same way here that it does in real life. Let her get to know you first. When she shows interest in taking your virtual relationship to the next level, make love to her mind first, then her virtual body will follow. Show respect at all times - even when talking dirty. But for God's sake, let her make the first sexual move. If she's interested at all, she'll show you. Women, even on the internet, respond much better to genuine interest in her as a whole person. We rarely respond well to being treated like a common prostitute. On the other hand, if you're trying to piss us off or give us a reason to make fun of you, keep doing what you're doing. It works. It won't get you cyber-laid, but it'll amuse the hell out of us to verbally cut off your balls with a rusty butter knife and force-feed them to you. :D
 
We've been saying it consistently through this thread, so they won't listen to this now either. I'll try anyway. Asshats, I mean men, if you want to pick up a woman on Literotica? I have a hint for you; it works much the same way here that it does in real life. Let her get to know you first. When she shows interest in taking your virtual relationship to the next level, make love to her mind first, then her virtual body will follow. Show respect at all times - even when talking dirty. But for God's sake, let her make the first sexual move. If she's interested at all, she'll show you. Women, even on the internet, respond much better to genuine interest in her as a whole person. We rarely respond well to being treated like a common prostitute. On the other hand, if you're trying to piss us off or give us a reason to make fun of you, keep doing what you're doing. It works. It won't get you cyber-laid, but it'll amuse the hell out of us to verbally cut off your balls with a rusty butter knife and force-feed them to you. :D

Too bad we can't make this a sticky on every thread! :D
 
It won't get you cyber-laid, but it'll amuse the hell out of us to verbally cut off your balls with a rusty butter knife and force-feed them to you. :D

Is it wrong that I got turned on a bit reading that? :kiss:

Okay as a horny male and relative Litster noob I am going to wade in and defend my gender as a whole before my E-Viagra buzz wears off...:D
I blame a stunted sexual adolescence on Internet douchebaggery...men (well most men) are taught when they are still boys that women are in charge of all things sexual in a relationship. They call the shots, and generally there is an undertone of "nice girls don't".
When they finally grow up a bit, and learn or see a woman that is in command of her sexuality, and actually flaunts it, revels in it, in appropriate places at appropriate times, their poor little heads explode and some just do silly things in the mistaken belief that some women's interest in some sex means they just love ALL sex...and well they do their best to replicate a dog so excited he just starts chasing his own tail.

Merry Christmas everyone!



But ofcourse there are some men that just never really grow up, they are just kids that hair over. :rolleyes:
(runs away before Momma can find her "special" knife in the cutlery drawer!)
 
Is it wrong that I got turned on a bit reading that? :kiss:

Okay as a horny male and relative Litster noob I am going to wade in and defend my gender as a whole before my E-Viagra buzz wears off...:D
I blame a stunted sexual adolescence on Internet douchebaggery...men (well most men) are taught when they are still boys that women are in charge of all things sexual in a relationship. They call the shots, and generally there is an undertone of "nice girls don't".
When they finally grow up a bit, and learn or see a woman that is in command of her sexuality, and actually flaunts it, revels in it, in appropriate places at appropriate times, their poor little heads explode and some just do silly things in the mistaken belief that some women's interest in some sex means they just love ALL sex...and well they do their best to replicate a dog so excited he just starts chasing his own tail.

Merry Christmas everyone!



But ofcourse there are some men that just never really grow up, they are just kids that hair over. :rolleyes:
(runs away before Momma can find her "special" knife in the cutlery drawer!)
Wrong? Maybe. Disturbing? Definately. :D Will it earn you a date with my rusty knife? Nah. You have to work a lot harder than that. LOL

Welcome to Lit. You'll find that there are a lot of good people here. Yes, it's an erotic site, and that's what drew most of us here. The forum is a little different from the main site though. For that matter, the sub-forums all have a different flavor. As a general rule, it's a friendly place with lots of banter. We're just more open to talking about anything sexual. As long as you're respectful, everybody will also treat you with respect. If someone wants to act like a jerk, well, let's just say that some of the ladies and gentlemen here aren't afraid to call them out on it. :D

A lot of the ladies of Lit are a little bit more mature - 30s, 40s, and even beyond. We're self-confident and secure in our sexuality. We know what we want, and we aren't afraid to ask for it, insist on it, and to go after it. By the same token, we know what we don't like as well, and we typically don't tolerate fools and asshats well. We want to be treated with the same respect that we would insist upon in real life.

When men learn that women aren't just body parts, that we have a mind and a heart and soul, and treat us as a whole person instead of just a breathing, walking sex doll, we're actually quite pleasant to be around. In the meantime, we have this thread to call them out on their bad behavior. :D

Merry Christmas and thanks for your input.
 
While I definitely agree that some people are just asshats, I tend to believe that most people hiding behind an anonymous screen name and monitor probably take advantage of the anonymity to engage in poor manners that would get their asses kicked at home. I'd bet money that they'd never EVER consider speaking to their wives the way they speak to the ladies of Lit. I'll even go a bit farther and say that I bet they're pussy-whipped to the nth degree - and take their frustrations and secret desires out on the women of Lit - or wherever else they tend to hide online.

You hit the nail on the head for sure.. Those asshats ruin it for the majority of the men who are decent here.
 
Okay as a horny male and relative Litster noob I am going to wade in and defend my gender as a whole before my E-Viagra buzz wears off...:D
I get what you're saying, but how about this: Instead of defending men to the ladies, why not publicly call out men when you see them being asshats?
 
Got this one just now.

... said:
I hv a fantasy to make love a woman while her man watches us.. he then joins us to give his wife the pleasure of being loved by 2 men.. 2 tongues 2 pair of lips and hands caressing her... and ofcourse to mention.. 2 dicks... does it turn u on?

I am [x years old] male single from [let's say somewhere in Asia]... can we chat and know each other?


Sure, 'cause I want to hear about your threesome/cuckold fantasy first and get to know you second. Why do I think people are developing a taste for starting things backwards?
 
Here's one i got at 207am-
Fr: Douchebag #2,525 (lol)


Douche:
Nice prof. i luv latinaz. sexy j-lo pussy, those dark areas that circle your tits that make me want to rub my wet cock allover i'm so horny for some latin pussy! can i ask what race of mexican are you?


Me:
It's "Latinas". J-lo pussy? You've seen hers? Impressive!

Those dark circles are called "Areolas" FYI!

Apparently you don't register what you read. Rubbing anything on or over me without me tasking you is a no no.

Some kind of Mexican? :eek: There's more than one kind? Wow!

Hey, you're one of them "special" kind of dumbasses aren't you?


I hate when they never reply to my questions..:rolleyes:
 
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