Netzach
>semiotics?
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I've had a few over the years. Currently its one (my guy and I are both gamers its a nerd thing if you've played D&D you probably get it if not oh well). So far (we're still fairly new together) I haven't used it much mostly because he's new to bdsm play and I have more trouble getting him to be rough enough with me then with him being to rough.
At play parties a lot of people use traffic light "green" to mean "amp it up I'm enjoying this, more please"
depending how intense your power dynamic is, you might benefit from something like this - it'll help him learn how what he's doing is working.