Is there no one out there who thinks a situation where a girl has multiple cocks to play with can be beautifully and comfortably sensual? If you're reading this and agree with me on this, we need to make a stand together to get stories written in that way. It can't be true that there is no place in this world anymore for stories and fantasies where a nice girl can be shagged senseless by a group of men who just adore what is happening, with none of this big ego thing...All I mean is that I can never find a story or picture set, involving a number of men, where she's not being treated like a dirty slut. What's that about?? There are still women in this world who want to be surrounded by a group of men who feel some respect for her while she's asking them to spread her fanny with their big cocks, fill her with cum, while retaining that respect. Is that boring????
why is 'group sex'/'gangbang' so intrinsically interlaced with roughness?
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LostBabygirl3489
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I completely agree with you. I have written a few smaller pieces with this sort of scenario but nothing long enough yet to submit to Lit. I will work on one, though. 
I completely agree with you. I have written a few smaller pieces with this sort of scenario but nothing long enough yet to submit to Lit. I will work on one, though.
Thank you. So I'm not alone. He write's me stories, I write some myself too. His are brilliant for me, but I would love some for us both to read that are new to the two of us. Steal the idea if you like, I don't care about any of that, if you think it's a good one, but we think about a kind of machine that will make multiples of him. Either of us can think of what we want, essentially how many we want and cock sizes. We can think of what we want, click our fingers and they appear. Click again and they're gone. The general necessary rule is that they appear in a mood of total adoration of me and my body. They care about our pleasure, not their own. The cocks are usually huge and they cum stupid amounts, is the usual thought. I think that's cool. X
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1) Why automatically assume that rough sex equates with a disrespectful attitude towards the female partner? Just because I may occasionally cum on a woman's face while she is being bent over the arm of a couch while she is being pounded by another cock from behind doesn't mean she is any less of a human being in my eyes. Quite the opposite.
2) Cuddles are intimate. It's rare to have multiple partners where all three know each other that well. A night of naked play is one thing, but three people wrapped together in the same bed is quite another. I can't explain it, but I would love to read a story like that.
All due respect, but as you said, you can not explain it, yet it's the norm, that perception of yours. That's what I'm trying to say, but you're not getting it. I'm not on a crusade of any sort, I just worry that places like this site are breeding añd propagating a lot of sickness and misogyny. Exponentially. It's as if a lot of people are trying to out-sick each other, and a lot of you have forgotten, along that pathway, what sites like this are actually about. I'm not being horrible at anyone, truly honestly... let's get nice again though. Like it used to be. Be into what you like, celebrate it. I love that. Don't alienate the many like me. There are many of us. X
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Ummm.....okay?
(Seriously, what brought that on?)
I actually lived that kind of polyamorous life, before I even heard of "poly" or before you needed labels to define your sexuality. It just morphed organically from room mates in the same big old house to casually lounging in bed naked with another couple. Was a fun time in my life, and many evenings how you describe.
Would make a fun story.
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It definitely can be sensual as each guy just stand there and let her play with whichever parts she wants to.
The rough play is catering to those expecting a gangbang, which even implies violence. Basically it's so that she's overwhelmed, and that means going after her actively.
The rough play is catering to those expecting a gangbang, which even implies violence. Basically it's so that she's overwhelmed, and that means going after her actively.
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I'd like to see a story about some alien species which has maybe 1 female born for every 3 males, and so they live in reverse-harems, and once a year or so the female goes into heat and all her husbands take turns mating with her to get her pregnant. For a species like this, the average female would need to have at least 4 children in her life to maintain the population.
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Amen, brother!
Seriously, I have been in situations with multiples (the one in my head right now was three guys, one girl with a room full of witnesses) where it was all loving, we switched from mouth to hand to pussy and back, took our time, she was a puddle of gush at the end. No rough stuff, just good fun sex.
But then I have been in a situation, multiples of each sex, free for all, several floggers, paddles, etc. involved. More people left with bruises than without. Safewords were in place, none were used. It was rough, it was almost bloody, several women were limping when it was done. I think highly of everyone involved.
Sex is what we make of it, we do it the way we like it. You want the "loving" type of group sex, but there is tons of people out there that want the rough stuff with it. It is simply a case of "Your Kink Is Not My Kink." Let your freak flag fly, and let other's fly theirs the way they want.
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Anyway, it seems difficult for me to envision a happy, fluffy gangbang outside of Mind Control. It is quite one thing for a small group of friends to get happy together, but once there is an shortage of holes, guys are going to get antsy. Guys in gangs get competitive. Guys typically express competitiveness physically. Conversely, guys not in gangs wouldn't likely be part of a gang bang. Could such a story be written? Sure, but hard to pull off.
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Hannah, I'm writing one at the moment that will be one girl two men (so not gang bang and multiple partners, but three-way at least). They get together because she wants it that way, and wants to see the men together too. But they only get together because of her, it's her show.
It's a follow up to my story Floating World, which is older man/younger woman, where he is cynical and jaded and her young vibrancy reminds him of the gentleness of his earlier women. He then teaches her gentle seduction in return. Part Two is the same flavour.
You might like to read Part One, I think I write the kind of erotica you seek, far far away from the "standard" Lit thing (if such a thing can ever be defined). I've received multiple comments along the lines of "a welcome change...not the norm around here...that was different..." And my favourite: "Fuck me long, love me hard. Omigosh! Exquisite. I needed this. Again!"
I write empowered women (from what I can make out - and your comments supports it - that is NOT the norm on Lit) who have equality with my men. Indeed, another story Rope and Veil Part One was favourably reviewed on a feminist blog. I am proud to be painted with that brush - to have a feminist sensibility, being male.
Anyway, you are not alone in your sentiments, although I suspect, in a minority.
It's a follow up to my story Floating World, which is older man/younger woman, where he is cynical and jaded and her young vibrancy reminds him of the gentleness of his earlier women. He then teaches her gentle seduction in return. Part Two is the same flavour.
You might like to read Part One, I think I write the kind of erotica you seek, far far away from the "standard" Lit thing (if such a thing can ever be defined). I've received multiple comments along the lines of "a welcome change...not the norm around here...that was different..." And my favourite: "Fuck me long, love me hard. Omigosh! Exquisite. I needed this. Again!"
I write empowered women (from what I can make out - and your comments supports it - that is NOT the norm on Lit) who have equality with my men. Indeed, another story Rope and Veil Part One was favourably reviewed on a feminist blog. I am proud to be painted with that brush - to have a feminist sensibility, being male.
Anyway, you are not alone in your sentiments, although I suspect, in a minority.
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If you're hunting for one to read, my story Girl Scout Mom involves a gentler (I think) gangbang.
https://www.literotica.com/s/girl-scout-mom
https://www.literotica.com/s/girl-scout-mom
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Wonder if a whole wall of glory holes would work to turn up the gentleness? i.e. leaving the lady to play with as many dicks as she'd like, and it's her initiative on how she'd want to play with them?
Go sideways on the idea: The guys were secured, all four limbs, to a series of tables, and they had to wear masks to prevent them from speaking or seeing. Let's start with two tables flat, two tables angled. The girl, NOT a dominatrix, is just there to play with the male toys as she wishes. She has all the control. She can suck or fuck or jerk any dick she wanted... or even all of them.
Go sideways on the idea: The guys were secured, all four limbs, to a series of tables, and they had to wear masks to prevent them from speaking or seeing. Let's start with two tables flat, two tables angled. The girl, NOT a dominatrix, is just there to play with the male toys as she wishes. She has all the control. She can suck or fuck or jerk any dick she wanted... or even all of them.
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At a site this large, it's likely an issue of finding what you want to read, not that it's not there. And a lot of folks here respond to a perceived lack of a certain angle on sex stories by writing and posting them themselves. So the question is probably one of "recommend to me" rather than "this take isn't here."
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There's plenty of CFNM porn from the point of view of women who want to be fucked by more than one man, be in control, and not be dominated or humiliated. Not sure how much of it is gangbang, but certainly 2 or 3 men being guided by a woman or two to do what the women want more than one cock at a time. I can think of a great movie where two women advertise for waiters to serve at a girls' party, and put them through their paces. They line up the naked guys, get them aroused, then measure their cocks, try them out for size in every hole, clean up, compare notes and choose the guys they want. It's gentle, female oriented, and fucking hot.
There's plenty of CFNM porn from the point of view of women who want to be fucked by more than one man, be in control, and not be dominated or humiliated. Not sure how much of it is gangbang, but certainly 2 or 3 men being guided by a woman or two to do what the women want more than one cock at a time. I can think of a great movie where two women advertise for waiters to serve at a girls' party, and put them through their paces. They line up the naked guys, get them aroused, then measure their cocks, try them out for size in every hole, clean up, compare notes and choose the guys they want. It's gentle, female oriented, and fucking hot.
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I just read your story. I really enjoyed it. Thanks for writing it!
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This sounds like a fun read. I hope someone runs with this.
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One commenter dubbed my style as romantic gangbang stories. So perhaps some of mine would fit with what you're after. I too hate the sterotypical story where the multiple men on one woman scenario has to involve degrading or disrespect of some sort.
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Somehow this new generation seems to associate what we would call orgy, with gangbang, which we would define as multiple men attacking, or at least overwhelming an innocent (or guilty) victim. Not only do I believe that a woman, (or man) being with multiple lovers simultaneously can be beautiful, but I am living proof of it. I have been in two triangles , both warm and loving, and more than one orgy involving many people making love with some or all of the persons involved. The main reason I am involved with Literotica is that I tired of seeing and hearing and reading love as "Love Story" and sex as "Debbie Does Dallas". Many of my stories are about people in love doing incredibly dirty things together, what I call, "true love" .
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Maybe you're right, and gangbang is a term inherently associated with roughness or violence. In that case I have been using it wrong too. I just use it for any situation that involves multiple men (3 or more) having sex with one woman, or at least where the females are in clear minority. If you're right, I guess "romantic gangbang" is an oxymoron...
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My handy little WordWeb dictionary offers these definitions:
Verb, gangbang:
1. Rape by multiple different people one*after*another.
2. Have group sex
Noun, gang bang:
1. A sexual orgy; group sex.
I see few romantic implications. A gang-bang is a sex-a-thon. It might be non-con or it could be a very willing train but it's not a warm-and-fuzzy lovey-dovey session. Roughness, pounding, lack of consideration, all can happen. Does a willing recipient seek roughness or at least is ready for it?
I categorize stuff. I place gang-bangs and orgies as subsets of group sex. Loving groups can fuck nicely. Comfortable groups can have nice orgies. Raw gangbangers pound away.
Verb, gangbang:
1. Rape by multiple different people one*after*another.
2. Have group sex
Noun, gang bang:
1. A sexual orgy; group sex.
I see few romantic implications. A gang-bang is a sex-a-thon. It might be non-con or it could be a very willing train but it's not a warm-and-fuzzy lovey-dovey session. Roughness, pounding, lack of consideration, all can happen. Does a willing recipient seek roughness or at least is ready for it?
I categorize stuff. I place gang-bangs and orgies as subsets of group sex. Loving groups can fuck nicely. Comfortable groups can have nice orgies. Raw gangbangers pound away.
Has anyone read the book Story of O? By Pauline Réage https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Story_of_O
It is a real romance, I found it utterly beautiful and highly erotic. That was gang bang with class....and love!
