So...as inexperienced as I am compared to others here, I'm usually a lurker until I have a question or need advice. So here I am
Not going into pointless detail, my sex therapist (that's therapist I talk to about sex, not actually have sex with ) is urging me to get rid of all vibrating toys and focus on the sheer joy and, pleasure my own hands are capable of. Something about being over stimulated...
Anyway, I have a terrible time relaxing and cuming WITH my assortment of goodies, much less without. Any...advice? Or is this a 'every girl is different, can't help' situation? I also get flustered and quit if it's not happening at the speed I think it should...can I ask how much timec you'd give it before giving up for the evening?
So...thoughts? I hate speaking up, I hope this isn't a total waste Thankfully this no toy thing isn't forever, I can use them again when I can fulfill the"homework" I've been given and she thinks my body is ready again or whatever...
Not going into pointless detail, my sex therapist (that's therapist I talk to about sex, not actually have sex with ) is urging me to get rid of all vibrating toys and focus on the sheer joy and, pleasure my own hands are capable of. Something about being over stimulated...
Anyway, I have a terrible time relaxing and cuming WITH my assortment of goodies, much less without. Any...advice? Or is this a 'every girl is different, can't help' situation? I also get flustered and quit if it's not happening at the speed I think it should...can I ask how much timec you'd give it before giving up for the evening?
So...thoughts? I hate speaking up, I hope this isn't a total waste Thankfully this no toy thing isn't forever, I can use them again when I can fulfill the"homework" I've been given and she thinks my body is ready again or whatever...
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