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What turns me on, and my goals, is being hot and desirable. Not being passive and uninspiring.
Thanks, all.
You really helped me understand that it's not my 'tiny tits' that inhibited my social life, but more self esteem.
I am working on that, and have now had five dates with the guy I met at the wedding- things are going pretty well.
Since this is more of a pic thread, I am now addressing another issue I have, over here.
First of all, apologies up front for
(a) not looking back beyond the first few pages for a similar thread
(b) the use of 'girl' instead of woman or female. Somehow, "Bad Woman" doesn't sound quite right.
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I'm looking for tips, tricks and hints for the inhibited or shy woman who needs to learn how to let go. Ideas on how to be a bad girl in the sense of letting go and allowing yourself to enjoy what the world of sex has to offer.
I really feel I have a ways to go. I know its not just as simple as stripping and crawling to him on my hands and knees, or just jumping on the bed naked.
What I'm looking for are hints on being seductive, exciting, erotic.
How about use of sex toys, props, dressing naughty, Kind of a 'how to turn up my personal volume'. But more in a technical sense, rather than discussing my personal self esteem.
So guys, what is a turn on for you in the bedroom?
Girls, what helped you become more exotic / erotic / naughty in the bedroom?
*PS* I am not looking for PM's.
If you respond to this topic by PM, consider this as your response:
Thank you for your reply, but please respond on the thread, so others can agree / add to / disagree.
I'm guessing this dude is the focus of your attention currently.
How are things going with him?
This is totally off topic but I can't explain how excited I became when I saw Jesse Pinkman here.
I found that you need to feel comfortable with the toys by yourself, then slowly introduce them to your partner. Some guys are very inhibited with toys, as they feel they are not "man" enough for them.First of all, apologies up front for
(a) not looking back beyond the first few pages for a similar thread
(b) the use of 'girl' instead of woman or female. Somehow, "Bad Woman" doesn't sound quite right.
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I'm looking for tips, tricks and hints for the inhibited or shy woman who needs to learn how to let go. Ideas on how to be a bad girl in the sense of letting go and allowing yourself to enjoy what the world of sex has to offer.
I really feel I have a ways to go. I know its not just as simple as stripping and crawling to him on my hands and knees, or just jumping on the bed naked.
What I'm looking for are hints on being seductive, exciting, erotic.
How about use of sex toys, props, dressing naughty, Kind of a 'how to turn up my personal volume'. But more in a technical sense, rather than discussing my personal self esteem.
So guys, what is a turn on for you in the bedroom?
Girls, what helped you become more exotic / erotic / naughty in the bedroom?
*PS* I am not looking for PM's.
If you respond to this topic by PM, consider this as your response:
Thank you for your reply, but please respond on the thread, so others can agree / add to / disagree.
Sooo... I took the first step and introduced toys to our sex play.
I first gave him a 'heads up'- I texted him asking if he liked 'to watch' (I find texting an easier way to discuss sex).
He did.
So I put on a show for him. Had to get a bit drunk first, but it was well received. It felt a bit awkward to be fully naked on the bed with him fully clothed, just watching, but hot as well. He learned that I enjoy a bit of anal play as well.
Thanks to all for the tips- always open to more!
Next time you should suggest that he be naked too. Make it visual and interactive for him.
That's how we ended up, but I wanted him to only watch first. I was waiting for him on the bed when he came over.
Sooo... I took the first step and introduced toys to our sex play.
I first gave him a 'heads up'- I texted him asking if he liked 'to watch' (I find texting an easier way to discuss sex).
He did.
So I put on a show for him. Had to get a bit drunk first, but it was well received. It felt a bit awkward to be fully naked on the bed with him fully clothed, just watching, but hot as well. He learned that I enjoy a bit of anal play as well.
Thanks to all for the tips- always open to more!
How long did the "watching" portion last? Did you invite him to use the toys on you? Or were you in complete control?
I love to provide my gf a helping hand when she wants.
For the first time, I was in control. Lasted about 10-15 minutes.
No, he didn't use my vibe on me.
Did you two have anal sex?
So were you comfortable enough that you would do it again?
Sure! It was fun!
Out of curiosity:
What is your goal? To have a long term relationship with this guy or that he brags about you to his friends?