boobsqueeezer
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- Mar 22, 2004
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Luciden said:Has anyone ever experienced something like that? Having to tell your master what to do? I found it very uncomfortable for myself as a sub.
This is possible and it is a fine line that separates the "top from bottom" and 'give biofeedback' for improving the experience....
Many Doms consider it topping to be told and most subs hate to tell....but a frank talk would simplify things .... I know subs who would be willing to help their Masters extract the best out of them. I know this is bizarre since this appears to 'let the sub take control' but when we think...and realise that at every step in the relation when it has to be healthy, the sub should be in control.. to be able to stop when things go beyond a level(for eg; use of safe words!).
But luciden here is possibly talking of telling the Dom how to treat her... etc; This is NOT liked by subs. who wish to be lead rather than lead! If you are sure THIS is THE DOM you need then there is nothing wrong to do it in initial stages.....experienced subs are known to do this.. but still keep their place! This is tricky and a bit tense period in a Dom-sub relation, and I hope not many pass through this phase!
I do NOT know if I worded my thoughts correctly but opinions and thoughts are welcome!
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Boobsqueeezer