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mskittykatt said:Even if she did run around and tell the rest of her peers, what does that change for me? in fact it could help in the above mentioned situation where she may not be the doctor that responds to an emergency. i am not ashamed of myself, or what i was considering...
Oh... some variables can be good... I've been letting my sub decide which "percussion" instrument I should use on him. The choice was between crop, flogger or hands and he was already bound.MissTaken said:I can only speak from my own experience, however, I must say that a poorly planned scene or a scene where the Dom/me leaves too many variables to be decided by the sub is a very disappointing scene.
For me, if the Dom gives me a few specific instructions for a scene, that is all I need. For example: "For Saturday, do not shave for a week. Wear your black leather corset. Be sure that you have child care until Sunday evening."
I don't necessarily want to know the rest of what is planned or be asked on Saturday, "Do you feel like some spanking or a riding crop tonight?"
This sort of behavior is disheartening for me regardless of whether it is due to "consideration" or poor planning.
Welcome! I'm just guessing here, but by the *feel* of your post, I'm thinking that you might be interested in Gorean lifestyles, in which slaves refer to themselves in the abstract as "this one." There is much overlap between Gorean life and BDSM, and there are some points of divergence, at least in the minds of some people.Unregistered said:this one is discovering the world of BDSM and learning about herself in the process, finding herself and discovering her hidden sides. she is alone and has no Master in her journey.
Forgive, but this one is not fully educated about the subjects of BDSM and does not fully understand what she has read.
If it please, what is a 'scene'? this one has an idea, but it is not fully complete. she wishes to know and understand.
Many thanks for your kind patience.
this one
cellis said:
On another note, I have to tell you about the beautiful restraints that I made for Himself for Valentines Day.....
I found some thin white nylon rope at Wal-Mart... and some split rings in the craft department... (seems they don't make the solid rings in the craft dept any more).... and calling on my old macrame skills, I fashioned some wrist restraints... I am going to try to get a picture of them this weekend and post it here so you can see...
I think all told, they cost me about $6.00 to make the pair, and that includes the cost of the snap fasteners...
I think all you Dom/mes will really like them..
I want to welcome all the new voices, it makes it very interesting around here...
Magister said:Excellent suggestions, MysCynthia! I'm sure my geri will be most... grateful for the ideas. *smiles slowly* One question, though... what does CBT stand for?
CRaZy said:My concern is that many people new to the lifestyle read this thread for advice. It worries me that this thread only deals with the sexual selves of the Dom/mes and subs who post here. Elsewhere on the board, these same people talk about the books they have read, movies they have seen, friends they have visited, children they drive to school and a multitude of other daily trivia that fills everyone's lives....
BlondGirl said:
Oh wait. I like to cook. Perhaps I should post my tamale recipe here. Put enough peppers in it and it would fall under the category of pleasurable pain.
this one said:this one did not know that anything like Gor existed before your mention of it. this one is simply expressing herself in the most humble manner she can, because she has so little knowledge of this subject. Additionally, she is trying to experience humility of self in her exploring of her hidden side.
this one believes that identification with the ego has had negative effects on her, and seeks to humble and find herself. she would like to discover herself and educate herself before seeking a Master so that she can be a better gift for a Master in the future.
Gor is a subject that this one will learn about now that her eyes have been opened to its existence. There is much to learn.
this one thanks the members of this thread for their kindness and patience.