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I harbored unacknowledged feelings about girls for years and it was only a chance encounter that brought them to the surface. If you can accomplish a connection without hurting your husband, you need to put yourself in situations where you encounter women who might signal you their interest: the library, bookstores especially among the erotica offerings, universities (try the women's center). These have been my hunting grounds. I haven't told my husband really, just obliquely. He's hinted that he isn't the least bit threatened by other women's interest in me whereas he would explode if I flirted with men.
To a certain extent, you need to try this out and see if it is what you expected. Unresolved fantasies can be much more distracting than an occasional diddle with a friend.
Right now I am wanting to explore with a total butch chick. There aren't any to be found. Bahhh! Insert stream of nasty words. It's frustrating. My husband and gf are cool with my curiosity!
I'm glad I found this thread!! I'm 38 and recently told my husband about some fantasies. I have had these thoughts/dreams for years, but just repressed them I guess. Now it is coming so fast though. It started with me renting girl/girl porn, now I want to go to a strip club. My husband has been more than supporting, and he has certainly benefited. Six months ago there is no way I'd be picturing me and him picking out movies lol. Now I feel greedy and want two women, but I know I need to take it slow...I'm looking forward to following this thread!
I'm glad I found this thread!! I'm 38 and recently told my husband about some fantasies. I have had these thoughts/dreams for years, but just repressed them I guess. Now it is coming so fast though. It started with me renting girl/girl porn, now I want to go to a strip club. My husband has been more than supporting, and he has certainly benefited. Six months ago there is no way I'd be picturing me and him picking out movies lol. Now I feel greedy and want two women, but I know I need to take it slow...I'm looking forward to following this thread!
Hi I am Sharon. Married with some experience with other women. My first was a number of years ago when a younger woman seduced me over time... I didnt see it at first, but now it's pretty obvious. And yes, I enjoyed our time together very much. Recently I have been forced back into the fantasy mode and reliving memories.
I'm glad I found this thread!! I'm 38 and recently told my husband about some fantasies. I have had these thoughts/dreams for years, but just repressed them I guess. Now it is coming so fast though. It started with me renting girl/girl porn, now I want to go to a strip club. My husband has been more than supporting, and he has certainly benefited. Six months ago there is no way I'd be picturing me and him picking out movies lol. Now I feel greedy and want two women, but I know I need to take it slow...I'm looking forward to following this thread!
I saw your other message and was about to point you in this direction, but I see you found it. You'll find a lot of support, advice and err very interesting scenarios on this thread.
Would you to a strip joint with hubby? Has anyone done this? Personally I would be scared to go because it would be full of sleazy, learing guys who would start bothering me... not because I'm particularly attractive... but just for their own petty amusement.
Mrs Indy
First and foremost ......... Welcome to LIT !!! Your hubby and I have known one another for quite some time and he had mentioned on my thread how his wife was becoming " curious " which of course is a very , very good thing !!!
As for me ........... I had never thought about even kissing another woman ummmmm until I got on LIT and now I've been sooo sooo curious for months now !!! Though it's not easy to actually meet someone who is also " curious " but I'm certainly always keeping my eyes open never know !!??
I have had the fantasy of being the younger girl since I was 16. I used to swim at my friends pool. Her mother was very attractive, yet shy and reserved. It seemed that she enjoyed watching me sunning my the pool but that was probably just my imagination. It triggered fantasies about being a tease (in a nice way) and slowly pushing her to the point that she confessed her hidden desire to kiss me and touch me and be tormented and teased and allowed to taste me and be orally submissive. There is a lot more detail but I have loved that fantasy for years.
I have had the fantasy of being the younger girl since I was 16. I used to swim at my friends pool. Her mother was very attractive, yet shy and reserved. It seemed that she enjoyed watching me sunning my the pool but that was probably just my imagination. It triggered fantasies about being a tease (in a nice way) and slowly pushing her to the point that she confessed her hidden desire to kiss me and touch me and be tormented and teased and allowed to taste me and be orally submissive. There is a lot more detail but I have loved that fantasy for years.
I have had the fantasy of being the younger girl since I was 16. I used to swim at my friends pool. Her mother was very attractive, yet shy and reserved. It seemed that she enjoyed watching me sunning my the pool but that was probably just my imagination. It triggered fantasies about being a tease (in a nice way) and slowly pushing her to the point that she confessed her hidden desire to kiss me and touch me and be tormented and teased and allowed to taste me and be orally submissive. There is a lot more detail but I have loved that fantasy for years.
I'm a 27 year old happily married woman that is interested in talking with other women. I'm 5 foot 7 with an athletic curvy body and curly red hair. Yes its real ladies
I harbored unacknowledged feelings about girls for years and it was only a chance encounter that brought them to the surface. If you can accomplish a connection without hurting your husband, you need to put yourself in situations where you encounter women who might signal you their interest: the library, bookstores especially among the erotica offerings, universities (try the women's center). These have been my hunting grounds. I haven't told my husband really, just obliquely. He's hinted that he isn't the least bit threatened by other women's interest in me whereas he would explode if I flirted with men.
To a certain extent, you need to try this out and see if it is what you expected. Unresolved fantasies can be much more distracting than an occasional diddle with a friend.
I loved what you said about "unresolved fantasies" I think its so true. I really thought my husband would be more open to the idea of me with another woman. But I think he is actually afraid I will make an emotional connection with that person and he isnt ok with that. I took the advice of some of you on here and I have kept talking to him about it. But sometimes the fantasies really are too much. ya kno?